If You Can Choose An Orgasm Occuring?

[LusciousLili]

I still haven't cum from intercourse. So when it was my BF he'd cum first which I didn't mind. He'd go down on me or I'd masturbate and cum.

 

[Kolejdayz]

I still haven't cum from intercourse. So when it was my BF he'd cum first which I didn't mind. He'd go down on me or I'd masturbate and cum.

Everyone has their own path

 

[GenXJay]

Would you PREFER to give your partner an orgasm first (before you had one), or would you like to have yours first then you can give one to your partner?

Ladies come first. Hopefully twice. The non-sexy descriptive reason is so I can maintain my erection and provide a good experience for her.

in reality, which usually happens first, you get off first or your partner gets off first?

My partner. See above.

 

[Live4themoments]

I still haven't cum from intercourse. So when it was my BF he'd cum first which I didn't mind. He'd go down on me or I'd masturbate and cum.

Sometimes takes a little time, patience, and you educating him. We older men have learned by trial and error, and sometimes a roadmap of the female anatomy helps tremendously.

 

[Britva415]

"Ladies come first" seems to come from this cliché about how if the guy comes, it's over and she doesn't get hers.

But if her coming just means that now it's "his turn" and she doesn't anticipate another one, then often she's just as ready as he is for it to just be over.

So "ladies come first and last" is my motto. I might need to catch my breath, but she knows she'll be the one who gets to roll over and fall asleep after coming (again).

 

[Islander55]

No one answer to this question. The ideal when fucking is to cum together or close to it. Actually my ideal is to cum first and just as I am coming down from my high, have him cum which gives me a boost and extends my pleasure. There are times when I do not want to cum but want him to enjoy me and take his pleasure. As long as we all get what we need, no need to fuss too much about the order.