long distant relationship's sexual craveing's.

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When in a long distant relationship. Whould you allow your partner to have a one night stand to take care of there sexual craveing.
 
I think depending on how long of a time you are apart, will you not see each other for a few months or more like a year?
 
well it depends if it is gonna be one time and one time only kinda thing and have fully trust in my partner and alot of honesty I think :p
 
Kitte said:
I think depending on how long of a time you are apart, will you not see each other for a few months or more like a year?
Be july when we meet but it been a couple of years for her she was in a bad realationship and had given up on men and sex now since she met me ive got her confidence and sexual desires right back up and well she needing so bad.. and she not sure how much longer she can hold out for a good service.
 
I think it depends...

on how the people in the relationship define it.


For me the answer would be no.
I'm in a long-distance romance and neither of us would see that as an option...we scratch our own itches BUT I wouldn't presume to answer what would be right for anyone else.
 
Nope. I wouldn't have the urge, and I'd hope she wouldn't have the urge to go out and fuck someone else.

If it were serious enough, then you'd just have to be faithful to yourself, and you S.O.
 
I think it's all a matter of personal preference. I'm in an LDR. I personally wouldn't go out and find a one nite stand. I can't always seperate the physical and emotional side of sex. Sex and love are one in the same for ME. On the other hand tho, I would allow my partner to have a one nite stand if it was his desire, so long as he could assure me that it was purely physical. Then again, this is my own idealds. What's right for me may not be right for everyone else.

Oh, and as a side note, just because I would allow it, that doesn't mean he DOES. He says he has too much respect for me and if it's not me, he doesn't want it bad enough.

:) :heart: :)
 
i met my girlfriend when she was on holiday in england i had to wait 2 years for her to move here and live with me ... sure we had holidays and time together in-between (she'd fly over here quite often) ... if one of us couldn't of waited till we could be together then in my view it wouldn't be worth making the huge commitment of her moving here

not meaning to sound too corny but it was a test of love :)
 
I've had periods of time where my partner was away for work and I was needing some attention. I never even considered going out looking for a one night stand. If he had said he wanted one, I would have been hurt and that would have been the end of the relationship.
 
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