Long Distance

[sugarpussy]

I knew him for 2 weeks before accepting his collar...... 8 weeks later, I moved 800 miles away with my kids' daddy. I still wear the collar and am faithful to him. I'm planning to return to him after his divorce is final. Do you think I'm assuming too much about BDSM to think that the collar is enough to keep us linked during such a separation?

 

[FungiUg]

A relationship is a relationship is a relationship... BDSM or not. You need to keep a relationship alive.

If you are away from each other, you need to come up with ways of coping. I know for me, distance just doesn't work... so that's another consideration, whether you can maintain a relationship over distance.

Make an effort to stay in touch, to keep the relationship alive. By itself, nothing is enough to keep a relationship alive, and with on in-person contact you will need even more work to maintain it.

 

[fallon2]

Long DL

Long distance relationships are very difficult to maintain for various reasons. When one person has doubts UNLESS you are there to reassure the other all MAY BE LOST. and I say that in all honesty.

 

[DarkLadyOfDeath]

Very difficult.... Very very difficult...

 

[dragonlace]

Long distance relationship test the fiber of your being but if you can keep that connection that one connection beteen the two of you its possible.

I am in a LDR and have been for almost two years we see each other off and on a few times a year but speak daily on the phone and keep the love strong and the connection strong by communicating and sharing with one another. Its very hard but if it all works out in the end then its all been worth it. I never knew how hard it truely was until i was in one and wouldn't wish it on anyone but if its the only way you have then you learn to cope with it and there are times that it will seem impossible, but somehow i have always managed to get through it and i hope you can too.

 

[MissTaken]

It depends on what the collar signifies for both of you.