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[SweetSam42]

Me too! Today, actually.

I lasted a full 30 minutes before logging out. Turns out I'm not as kinky as I thought I was.

It's a little scary over there.

I just want to say that I agree with this ^^

That black background alone freaked the fuck out of me. It's much safer here.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

When I'm in a porno mood anything high definition I can get into. Porno-wise I'm pretty open-minded. Love BJ porn and watching the girl react to a cum shot. Doggy style is also wonderful to watch too.

Also like erotica too. If it's got realism, detail and wit I can usually dig into it.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I recently joined FetLife (I know, I know, I'm behind the times) but that place makes you realise maybe you're not quite as left of centre as you once thought you were.

Yeah. I went there with my naked woman fetish, thinking I was gonna get some kind of reaction. Nothing. Then I thought I'd really freak 'em out when I told them I like big boobs. Pfft. They didn't even flinch. They were too busy shoving bottle rockets up their asses.

 

[All_4_Love]

Spot on. I think for us guys it's the equivalent of what a woman feels when she sees a field of tulips or something else equally as beautiful.

Nope! We are feeling the same thing that you are feeling while we are looking up at you. Just reading Broken Romantic's description made me crazy hot. Tulips were the furthest thing from my mind.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

I recently joined FetLife (I know, I know, I'm behind the times) but that place makes you realise maybe you're not quite as left of centre as you once thought you were.

That was pretty much my own experience as well with Fetlife. Lol I joined because I had friends on there and thought it would be fun, plus I thought it would fun exploring some kinks. Then I went through the kinks list like "that sounds dumb...so does that...is that a real thing?...that one is just gross" I realized "I guess I'm not super kinky". Lol

 

[dutchrain]

Yes, talking to the mailman is Australian for a stranger who delivers cum to ones face.

Does he always ring twice then?

No, usually once is all he can manage.

So that is a big disappointment then! He is a stranger after all, and strangers are known to be able of everything our usuals aren't.

That was pretty much my own experience as well with Fetlife. Lol I joined because I had friends on there and thought it would be fun, plus I thought it would fun exploring some kinks. Then I went through the kinks list like "that sounds dumb...so does that...is that a real thing?...that one is just gross" I realized "I guess I'm not super kinky". Lol

*grins* Yep, I very carefully selected "bondage" to put on my list since I didn't want a complete empty list and other things I left out since I didn't want to attract too many asshats.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Wow. Nearly four pages of responses yesterday. Amazingness.

I'll continue with this line of questioning...

It looks like some have come here thinking they are kinky or whatever. Or gone to Fet Life and thought the same. Maybe your kinks got confirmed or denied. My question is this...

Who is willing to admit a kink that they have? Something maybe a bit out of the ordinary. Or just something that you have a desire to do and came here and realized you're not alone or that it's not so kinky after all. And you can probably get away without being so specific or revealing too much.

I don't expect this to be nearly as chatty as yesterday, but we are all among friends, so don't feel skeert.

 

[Lord Pmann]

So that is a big disappointment then! He is a stranger after all, and strangers are known to be able of everything our usuals aren't.

They don't have any faults, either. It's brilliant how the hot waitress or mailman is so different and perfect.

 

[Endless_Night]

Oh, good lord! I thought this v was all a literary "funny". You know, James M. Cain's The Postman Always Rings Twice. The classic 1931 crime thriller filled with hot, steamy, kinda violent sex... And murder too, of course.... Also adapted for film..... Several times I believe......

Okay. I'll quit babbling now.

Yes, talking to the mailman is Australian for a stranger who delivers cum to ones face.

Does he always ring twice then?

No, usually once is all he can manage.

So that is a big disappointment then! He is a stranger after all, and strangers are known to be able of everything our usuals aren't.

 

[BrokenRomantic]

Wow. Nearly four pages of responses yesterday. Amazingness.

I'll continue with this line of questioning...

It looks like some have come here thinking they are kinky or whatever. Or gone to Fet Life and thought the same. Maybe your kinks got confirmed or denied. My question is this...

Who is willing to admit a kink that they have? Something maybe a bit out of the ordinary. Or just something that you have a desire to do and came here and realized you're not alone or that it's not so kinky after all. And you can probably get away without being so specific or revealing too much.

I don't expect this to be nearly as chatty as yesterday, but we are all among friends, so don't feel skeert.

Okay, I have something some may find out of the ordinary. I wouldn't call it a kink, but I don't think it's usual.

It wasn't until I came here awhile back that I realized I really really enjoyed a woman using my name. Some men like to be called sir, or baby, or lover, or whatever-the-fuck pet name she comes up with in the moment, and that totally drives them wild. When a woman says my name, it feels special. In LIT, it's intimate simply due to the fact that it's something I just don't share and it feels personal. I enjoy that feeling. In text, or chat, on the phone, online, or whatever, the same thing goes. '______, I need you inside me,' has a totally different feel than 'baby, I need you inside me." Her feelings may be the same, but mine would be different. Saying my name feels like she wants me, the good and the bad, me as I am. I just find that so erotic.

Other than that, I like light BDSM, biting, scratching, moaning, growly noises, dirty talk, etc. Yeah, I'm pretty vanilla.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Alright, fuckers. Suddenly you've all gone shy without kinks. Sooooo, I'll lead it off.

I guess my experience here has been two fold. I came here thinking I was kind of kinky. I liked to shoot cum in my wife's face and boobs. For some reason, I kind of thought that was kinky. I get here and people are shoving fists up each other's arses and peeing on one another. I quickly learned I'm not kinky like I thought and that these people were giving facials since kindergarten.

But then as I started looking around more and reading threads, I realized had a propensity for things a bit darker than I normally would have thought. And things a bit rougher. I guess that's the biggest thing I found is that I really enjoy the control aspect of sex. I don't like wearing scary S&M masks or anything. (If that's your thing, that's cool, it's just not for me)

So I came here thinking I was a little bit kinky. Found out I was a rank amateur. Then I found out I was a little kinkier than I originally thought, but for different reasons.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Okay, I have something some may find out of the ordinary. I wouldn't call it a kink, but I don't think it's usual.

It wasn't until I came here awhile back that I realized I really really enjoyed a woman using my name. Some men like to be called sir, or baby, or lover, or whatever-the-fuck pet name she comes up with in the moment, and that totally drives them wild. When a woman says my name, it feels special. In LIT, it's intimate simply due to the fact that it's something I just don't share and it feels personal. I enjoy that feeling. In text, or chat, on the phone, online, or whatever, the same thing goes. '______, I need you inside me,' has a totally different feel than 'baby, I need you inside me." Her feelings may be the same, but mine would be different. Saying my name feels like she wants me, the good and the bad, me as I am. I just find that so erotic.

Other than that, I like light BDSM, biting, scratching, moaning, growly noises, dirty talk, etc. Yeah, I'm pretty vanilla.

^^^
Thanks to the first brave soul to admit he has kinks.

Everyone is suddenly shy and coy, when I know there are some kinky fuckers out there, even one goat lover.

 

[Thandi]

Okay, I have something some may find out of the ordinary. I wouldn't call it a kink, but I don't think it's usual.

It wasn't until I came here awhile back that I realized I really really enjoyed a woman using my name. Some men like to be called sir, or baby, or lover, or whatever-the-fuck pet name she comes up with in the moment, and that totally drives them wild. When a woman says my name, it feels special. In LIT, it's intimate simply due to the fact that it's something I just don't share and it feels personal. I enjoy that feeling. In text, or chat, on the phone, online, or whatever, the same thing goes. '______, I need you inside me,' has a totally different feel than 'baby, I need you inside me." Her feelings may be the same, but mine would be different. Saying my name feels like she wants me, the good and the bad, me as I am. I just find that so erotic.

Other than that, I like light BDSM, biting, scratching, moaning, growly noises, dirty talk, etc. Yeah, I'm pretty vanilla.

I agree with this. Sharing your name, and then having someone use it (or even remember what it is) is erotic. Makes it much more personal.

I'm so vanilla....thought I might be tutti-fruiti, but not compared to others.

 

[dutchrain]

I agree with this. Sharing your name, and then having someone use it (or even remember what it is) is erotic. Makes it much more personal.

I'm so vanilla....thought I might be tutti-fruiti, but not compared to others.

Yes to the name thing!

I think I am more tutti-frutti than kink, if I compare myself to others. But since there isn't a competition in kinkinesses (at least that is the official conception) I think I am pretty kinky compared to others.

I have found many things here I didn't knew existed -or didn't know were classified as kink- in addition to the things I was already (and am) curious about.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Kinky is a touchy subject since it folds tightly into a persons sexual identity - it's the religion and politics third rail of sexual discussions. What exactly is kinky? Are there levels of kink? Is one better than the other? I think for people whose self identity is wrapped around a kink, or has a kink deeply buried in it, it means a lot more than it does to a person who may or may not engage in the exact same activity, but form whom the activity itself is just a variation on a theme and isn't tangled in their identity.

I don't consider myself kinky, in part because I see the wide range of sexual variety being all around us and in thirty plus years of being sexually active pretty much everyone I've met has some variation in their sexual conduct that brings them more arousal than the other variations. On the flip side, over the years, there isn't much I haven't tried - some of them I will never do again because at the end of it all, it didn't do anything for me. Others are definitely part of the repertoire.

I like role-playing to spice up sex because it engages the imagination, that most powerful sexual organ. I'm partial to more aggressive, physical sex - most likely because I am a more aggressive physical person. I enjoy small group sex (three or four people). I enjoy having a variety of sexual partners. But I am also aware there are many people out there who enjoy the same things I do (thank goodness!).

I also think, especially online, there is an element of competition - they "I'm kinker than you", "I'm a real (insert variation here) because I do (insert more intense activity) more often than you". Mostly I find it amusing and entertaining. Just pop over to any D/s thread and read the "A Real Dom Is..." or "A Real Sub Is..." threads. I always have flash backs to seventies BDSM porn when I read those.

 

[BradBigBrain]

I'm on fetlife, but not too much. I enjoy others' kinks especially the ones involving the harnessing of people. I think that's interesting and I hear from people that it's a really super turn on. I think I'd like to watch.

My big kink I guess would be swapping partners.

 

[Suz_anne]

Kinky is a touchy subject since it folds tightly into a persons sexual identity - it's the religion and politics third rail of sexual discussions. What exactly is kinky?

I don't think I've encountered it as a touchy subject - but definitely very personal. And I think people sometimes forget that just because it doesn't ring your bell doesn't mean that it is bad or wrong. Well... some are bad and wrong. You know who you are... you freaks.

Most of my kinks are not uncommon - dirty, dirty, dirty talk, rough sex, light bondage, etc. But the one that doesn't seem to have as much common interest is MMF. Seeing two men interacting with each other and their female companion during a threeway is SUPER hot for me.

 

[stickygirl]

I wonder if folks normally default to saying "Nah, I'm vanilla" but then have a kink that they only indulge occasionally, when they are minded to do so? I was thinking how vanilla I feel I am, but then I thought about nettles. Anyone into nettles?

I used to explore some woods near me so's I could be 'me' and my early sexual games were in the outdoors. When I wanted to be punished as a bad girl, then nettles provided an unpredictable and often lingering pain: I could be sitting having supper a couple of hours later but my bits would still be smarting. You had to be careful though - the plants in the spring sting like a scorpion and are a step too far.

Lap it up Litsters - I've got a kink! Yeay!!!

It's suddenly gone very quiet in here

 

[Lord Pmann]

I wonder if folks normally default to saying "Nah, I'm vanilla" but then have a kink that they only indulge occasionally, when they are minded to do so? I was thinking how vanilla I feel I am, but then I thought about nettles. Anyone into nettles?

I used to explore some woods near me so's I could be 'me' and my early sexual games were in the outdoors. When I wanted to be punished as a bad girl, then nettles provided an unpredictable and often lingering pain: I could be sitting having supper a couple of hours later but my bits would still be smarting. You had to be careful though - the plants in the spring sting like a scorpion and are a step too far.

Lap it up Litsters - I've got a kink! Yeay!!!

A nettle? Like a plant? I am curious about this. Not because I am interested, but because I can't understand exactly what you do with them. (I googled and it doesn't quite make sense to me)

Edit: I am not saying this in a judgy way. Just that I truly don't understand what a nettle is or what you do with it.

 

[dutchrain]

A nettle? Like a plant? I am curious about this. Not because I am interested, but because I can't understand exactly what you do with them. (I googled and it doesn't quite make sense to me)

Edit: I am not saying this in a judgy way. Just that I truly don't understand what a nettle is or what you do with it.

You never fell into a group of nettles? Never felt that stingy, burny itch, which lasts for hours, on your arm, or on your thigh? It is a very special feeling. Not a pain at all.

Edit: Fresh spring nettles make a great soup!

 

[stickygirl]

A nettle? Like a plant? I am curious about this. Not because I am interested, but because I can't understand exactly what you do with them. (I googled and it doesn't quite make sense to me)

Edit: I am not saying this in a judgy way. Just that I truly don't understand what a nettle is or what you do with it.

Yea, like the plant that stings! Ok, if you want details, then you'd maybe brush it over your skin and you never know when it's going to sting you, so you get that thrill of anticipation: maybe like waiting for a lover to smack you when you're blindfold... oh yea - I've done that too

You never fell into a group of nettles? Never felt that stingy, burny itch, which lasts for hours, on your arm, or on your thigh? It is a very special feeling. Not a pain at all.

Edit: Fresh spring nettles make a great soup!

It's also used as a homeopathic treatment for prostate trouble, though I suspect the tea is prob better than sitting your ass in a patch...

 

[SmileyGirl]

You never fell into a group of nettles? Never felt that stingy, burny itch, which lasts for hours, on your arm, or on your thigh? It is a very special feeling. Not a pain at all.

Edit: Fresh spring nettles make a great soup!

Jesus Christ I wish I'd fallen into the nettles you speak of.
When it happened to me it stung like a bitch!!
Lots of pain

 

[stickygirl]

Jesus Christ I wish I'd fallen into the nettles you speak of.
When it happened to me it stung like a bitch!!
Lots of pain

Oh for sure - a whole heap would be awful, but individual stings make you inhale and that kinda gets caught up with *waves arms around* a whole sexual thing. Straight-forward pain is not going to do anything except hurt, but it's what is going on in your head at the time. Your entire attention is focused on that area.. dunno... *shrugs* maybe it was a more complicated thing with me?
I still can't walk pass nettles without a sexual thought popping into my head

Dutchy - could you PM a soup recipe? Putting nettles on the menu - now that would be interesting

 

[Lord Pmann]

So these things sting? Or are they poisonous?

I only know of poison ivy. And in no situation would I let it near my gibbly bits.

 

[BrokenRomantic]

So these things sting? Or are they poisonous?

I only know of poison ivy. And in no situation would I let it near my gibbly bits.

Yeah, I'm in your camp. Poison ivy puts me in the hospital and the idea of burning, stinging plants rubbing up against me makes me cringe.