Litiquette2

[GiggLeGasm]

When I had no response to the first topic I thought I'd just stayed up too late and temporarily fried my brain.

But the new one...still leaves me with...nothing.

Hopefully this isn't going to be a theme for the day....

the past few have been a little too intimate for me to really give a heartfelt response.. but it's ok to take a break

 

[Endless_Night]

the past few have been a little too intimate for me to really give a heartfelt response.. but it's ok to take a break

Thanks.

That is probably a good idea, as I think I may have been guilty of over sharing on the thread already.

 

[lexieredefined]

you'll need to redefine phone sex and cyber sex.

Where do Skype, FaceTime, or any of the other webcam chats fit in?

I would say that Skype, FaceTime, etc all fit under the phone sex category.

I'll just say there isn't enough phone sex in my life at the moment and too much sexting.

 

[ChainedUp]

Sensing Lit's servers going under severe strain as they try and handle all the PMs flooding into Lexie's PM box.

I would say that Skype, FaceTime, etc all fit under the phone sex category.

I'll just say there isn't enough phone sex in my life at the moment and too much sexting.

 

[Endless_Night]

Sensing Lit's servers going under severe strain as they try and handle all the PMs flooding into Lexie's PM box.

Crash!

 

[Callmetim]

Sensing Lit's servers going under severe strain as they try and handle all the PMs flooding into Lexie's PM box.

I do hate when Lexie's box is full, but then again she IS the Toy Queen.

 

[lexieredefined]

Sensing Lit's servers going under severe strain as they try and handle all the PMs flooding into Lexie's PM box.

Crash!

I do hate when Lexie's box is full, but then again she IS the Toy Queen.

You three are too funny.

 

[BradBigBrain]

This was a twist on "free-for-all" Friday from last week. Perhaps a bit more topic guidance is needed.

Since I can change out poll topics, I'm curious to know the breakout of cybering(sexting) vs voice(phone sex). My hunch is that there's way more phone sex happening than cyber sex.

I can only speak for myself...

Cyber more than phone.

 

[Callmetim]

You three are too funny.

Oh c'mon, make it a foursome! Don't worry, we will bite.

 

[Endless_Night]

I would say that Skype, FaceTime, etc all fit under the phone sex category.

I'll just say there isn't enough phone sex in my life at the moment and too much sexting.

Wouldn't visual be a third category?

I can only speak for myself...

Cyber more than phone.

Why, please? If you don't mind sharing.

 

[lexieredefined]

Oh c'mon, make it a foursome! Don't worry, we will bite.

While I'm all for biting, I don't know that I could handle a foursome.

Wouldn't visual be a third category?

It could be I guess. I was thinking more along the lines of voice vs. written when I said that.

 

[BradBigBrain]

Wouldn't visual be a third category?


Why, please? If you don't mind sharing.

Hmmm....I think it's because I have time in front of the computer and it's easier for me than talking on the phone as far as having private time goes.

 

[pm4321]

Impossible!

How is it possible that there are women on lit who want more phone sex? I'd assume there's more of us knocking on the door than women interested.

 

[Callmetim]

How is it possible that there are women on lit who want more phone sex? I'd assume there's more of us knocking on the door than women interested.

The problem is not quantity, it is quality. Lexie requires only the best, because she is as well.

 

[Endless_Night]

Hmmm....I think it's because I have time in front of the computer and it's easier for me than talking on the phone as far as having private time goes.

Thank you.

The problem is not quantity, it is quality. Lexie requires only the best, because she is as well.

Nicely done.

 

[SweetSam42]

Definition please: Is cybering/sexting just sexy texts? Or is it something more - ie, does it imply an orgasm at the end, at least for one of the parties involved?

 

[Callmetim]

Definition please: Is cybering/sexting just sexy texts? Or is it something more - ie, does it imply an orgasm at the end, at least for one of the parties involved?

I'm going to say any non-verbal, non-video communication that is intent on making one party (or hopefully both) reaching that zenith of pleasure that is blissful sexual release would be defined as cybering.

Sexting could just be a quick panty shot, or a naughty little message to her, the intent is to arouse someone a bit.

My perception of reality, but if her voice is anything like her texts, Sam might usually fall into the former category.

 

[lexieredefined]

Hmmm....I think it's because I have time in front of the computer and it's easier for me than talking on the phone as far as having private time goes.

I do agree with this. It's easier for me to be on the computer through the day.

The problem is not quantity, it is quality. Lexie requires only the best, because she is as well.

Definition please: Is cybering/sexting just sexy texts? Or is it something more - ie, does it imply an orgasm at the end, at least for one of the parties involved?

I consider sexting to be sexy text. Cybering to be orgasm for one or both of the parties involved. I could be totally wrong, but that's just how my convoluted brain thinks about it.

 

[MedicalMuse]

How is it possible that there are women on lit who want more phone sex? I'd assume there's more of us knocking on the door than women interested.

Ummm what Tim said

The problem is not quantity, it is quality. Lexie requires only the best, because she is as well.

Quality. Phone sex still requires chemistry. If it isn't there, then it isn't there.

I'm going to say any non-verbal, non-video communication that is intent on making one party (or hopefully both) reaching that zenith of pleasure that is blissful sexual release would be defined as cybering.

Sexting could just be a quick panty shot, or a naughty little message to her, the intent is to arouse someone a bit.

I agree with all statements

 

[Aquagal]

Funny how our definitions vary. I always categorized camming as just that, and phone sex was talking on the phone.

 

[Callmetim]

Ummm what Tim said

Quality. Phone sex still requires chemistry. If it isn't there, then it isn't there.

I agree with all statements

I would flirt with MM more for agreeing with me so much, but I believe my flirt quota on this thread has reached critical levels already today.

Better luck tomorrow, MM.

 

[BradBigBrain]

I consider sexting to be sexy text. Cybering to be orgasm for one or both of the parties involved. I could be totally wrong, but that's just how my convoluted brain thinks about it.

Funny how our definitions vary. I always categorized camming as just that, and phone sex was talking on the phone.

My definition of sexting is sexy texting. Cyber is through yahoo or other messaging. Phone sex is talking on the phone and camming is through a web cam which to me would include skype and face time.

I may be wrong.

 

[SweetSam42]

My definition of sexting is sexy texting. Cyber is through yahoo or other messaging. Phone sex is talking on the phone and camming is through a web cam which to me would include skype and face time.

I may be wrong.

I only sext through anonymous messaging, and not on my real phone. I don't see a diff?

 

[BradBigBrain]

I only sext through anonymous messaging, and not on my real phone. I don't see a diff?

I guess it's the same. I was thinking that there was a difference.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

I remember typing a dirty letter on my IBM selectric to a boyfriend who was 2000 miles away. I was so ahead of my time.