shmily
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true, married would have to be a no... been there done that from both sides ... rl - - - no fun for anybody...
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true, married would have to be a no... been there done that from both sides ... rl - - - no fun for anybody...
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Every situation is different. I don't like using blanket statements and I'd be completely hypocritical if I didn't acknowledge that I've "chatted" with any number of married folks here at Lit that I am sure their spouses would find not quite above board.
You just sort of go with it and if it "feels" right then maybe it is.
In my particular situation it didn't feel right. Maybe the next time it will.
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Spins, I too have chatted and flirted with married guys here on lit. but that's as far as it can go...
Chained in an earlier post ..... darn will have to find it, but it kinda made sense on the flirting with a married guy... if it helps the spark in the rl relationship...
Chained in an earlier post ..... darn will have to find it, but it kinda made sense on the flirting with a married guy... if it helps the spark in the rl relationship...
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I really don't judge what other people do.
If it feels right for them then who am I do say yes, no, or my god what the fuck!?!
I always assume if the person I am chatting with didn't want to chat with me that person would find a way to not respond to my messages
NotHisLady
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Nothing should ever outweigh rational thought.
Sometimes the consequences aren't just hurt feelings.
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50/50 are not odds I'd be willing to take. So, rational thought wins that round.
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No way.
Absolutely not.
stickygirl
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When you say 'getting caught' do you mean actually caught in the act... because suddenly I'm picturing a whole scene with someone's wife walking in on me and him. I'd put my chances of persuading her in to the bed to join us at 50/50 
...not sure that's what you meant though
...not sure that's what you meant though
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The banter, whether its just fun or flirting... Especially when I'm meant to be doing work
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The banter, whether its just fun or flirting... Especially when I'm meant to be doing work
This.
And responding to PMs, and then getting one back within minutes which also needs to be answered ASAP ...
Little_Sister
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Flirting.
jeff_is_smiling
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The possibilities...there always seems to be a possibility in the air...it doesn't pan out frequently, but I enjoy the chase and the potential...
Happy Monday back atcha! WooHoo End of Clinicals!!!!
Lately, I'm playing catch up with keeping in touch with litsters...offthewall, intriguing conversations that I don't always get in the real world.
It used to be the banter & funnehness on the threads...not so much anymore.
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I feel like lit is a breath of fresh air. I can be myself....play around....it can be an ego boost.
I enjoy some good conversations and interesting threads. All of these things can suck me in.
I guess if I had to narrow it down to one...Its that this place is interesting and the varied nature of it is what pulls me.
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BreezySnow
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Only an hour?
Getting caught up in threads and others posting.. writing my RPs.. Life is boring.
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^^^ yea - what happened to the fun?
but the serious posts occupy my time the most 'cos my dyslexia semes too be getting worst *gah* brain - fingers <-get it together k? grrr
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stickygirl
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Pfft - stop fishing for compliments Chainey. All the brightest and best are right here - isn't that enough for you?!Thanks! Did you just say I'm not fresh? Should I be shocked or appalled?
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Pfft - stop fishing for compliments Chainey. All the brightest and best are right here - isn't that enough for you?!
^^ She's right - we're all here.
^^^ yea - what happened to the fun?
but the serious posts occupy my time the most 'cos my dyslexia semes too be getting worst *gah* brain - fingers <-get it together k? grrr
Perhaps a little thread drift is needed???
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