Litiquette

[Thandi]

This is all good, but what upsets me is half the time after you answer the common questions of how are you or what are you doing, it goes to I think your av is sexy and would like to see what is under those clothes or something that goes to sex! What happen to the common dialog of just chatting. Yes it is a sex site but does that automatically give the okay to sex talk me when I don't initiate it? So I just don't respond..

I actually have quite a few friends on here, that just chat. We ask how each other is...and care about the answer. There's mild flirting at times, but they respect the boundary.

 

[Edensgarden]

I guess we need a "thanks but no thanks" smilie!!

Speaking of thanks....your new AV is quite nice!!

 

[OxfordDon]

Speaking of thanks....your new AV is quite nice!!

awww..thanks honey!!!!

 

[Lord Pmann]

I like to imagine what people would be like off of these forums. Like, do they really talk with those run on sentences? Or scream everything, as they type in all caps? Is the first thing the guy does when he meets a girl the act of him asking for tit pics? Do girls just completely ignore guys who hit on them? Or a guy saying, "I would kiss her, I would kiss her, I would fuck her, I would fuck her."

Hehe. Sorry, I'm immature.

 

[Edensgarden]

I like to imagine what people would be like off of these forums. Like, do they really talk with those run on sentences? Or scream everything, as they type in all caps? Is the first thing the guy does when he meets a girl the act of him asking for tit pics? Do girls just completely ignore guys who hit on them? Or a guy saying, "I would kiss her, I would kiss her, I would fuck her, I would fuck her."

Hehe. Sorry, I'm immature.

I have to imagine you are exactly the same way in real life.

 

[vibes]

Anonimity is key in the success of internet forums

 

[OxfordDon]

and another thing...

If you're going to post on the "Request a PM "thread - at least reply to the damn thing!...

 

[Lord Pmann]

I have to imagine you are exactly the same way in real life.

I look just like my avatar.

 

[Edensgarden]

I look just like my avatar.

Skinny as a rail? Don't they feed you boy?

 

[magicmikeaustin]

1. Don't be an ass wipe. If a lady asks you to leave her alone then leave her alone. PERIOD!

2. I've had sigs off for years. If you're curious about someone click on their profile and you'll see the sig.

3. Don't be nasty to someone, laugh it off and then start a bullshit snarky thread so you can get off on what a glorified asshole you are.

4. Guys less is more. I've certainly bumped a "person above you" thread to be next up. However intentional skipping gets you noticed for the wrong reason. They see you as desperate or inconsiderate and you don't want that. Also, if all you do is hammer away on those threads all day long without contributing elsewhere.........again you'll be noticed for the wrong reasons.

5. Be respectful of others.

Very well said, although in order of importance, I would start with #5.
Thanks Ricky

 

[Lord Pmann]

Skinny as a rail? Don't they feed you boy?

I just eat twigs.

 

[ChainedUp]

The respect thing is a big deal. I've taken no thank-yous and turned them into great friendships. But if all you want is a jerk-off partner, there's better places. Aren't there?

 

[ChainedUp]

And to all my PM or soon to be PM friends. I always reply at the top of the PM message not the bottom. As someone who uses lit via mobile devices, scrolling down to the bottom of a long exchange is tiring. Can we all agree to respond on the top?

 

[ydahecnot]

In principle I see your point but I think 99% of all initial PMs are unsolicited. I've never seen someone post and say "Hey, XXXXXX, please PM me." I get that it's helpful to have chatted in the threads with someone before PMing but I can honestly say that I have sent unsolicited PMs that have resulted in torrid affairs and great friendships.

I don't mind getting them and I've done it. As long as you are polite, as you would be in introducing yourself in the real world, it should be all good.

 

[jaded_lily]

And to all my PM or soon to be PM friends. I always reply at the top of the PM message not the bottom. As someone who uses lit via mobile devices, scrolling down to the bottom of a long exchange is tiring. Can we all agree to respond on the top?

Thank you for this......agreed

 

[ydahecnot]

Good thought; I've always been a bottom, so to speak.

 

[jaded_lily]

Good thought; I've always been a bottom, so to speak.

Same here, the whole mobile device issue never crossed my mind.

 

[viskalvaere]

I actually have quite a few friends on here, that just chat. We ask how each other is...and care about the answer. There's mild flirting at times, but they respect the boundary.

I have trouble finding those kinds of people.

 

[wombat9966]

I have trouble finding those kinds of people.

you just have to keep searching....We are out here LOL

 

[Edensgarden]

Good thought; I've always been a bottom, so to speak.

I can go either way.

 

[ChainedUp]

Good thought; I've always been a bottom, so to speak.

Nothing wrong with being a bottom

 

[ChainedUp]

I can go either way.

Is it too early to be in love?

 

[Thandi]

And to all my PM or soon to be PM friends. I always reply at the top of the PM message not the bottom. As someone who uses lit via mobile devices, scrolling down to the bottom of a long exchange is tiring. Can we all agree to respond on the top?

Ooops.

 

[Edensgarden]

Is it too early to be in love?

I don't know...have you had your coffee yet?

 

[Thandi]

I have trouble finding those kinds of people.

You've only been here a short time...they are out there...don't give up.