Litiquette VII

[Trekka]

Last time I got my panties in a twist: about six hours ago.
He woke up n started lobbing verbal grenades before I’d even finished my coffee.
Which *totally* conflicted with the horny mood I woke up in.
So.
I let him roll over and go back to sleep while I played with my vibe as he snored.

Later, I kindly and gently told him, “Honey, I know you’re stressed, and I love you, so don’t take this the wrong way...” and I made my simple point. And it got heard.

So maybe Sekksy Trekksy will her to play with her toys *the right way* tonight.

If not? Anyone who’s available to fuck me good and well with the English language tonight, and wrap me up in a blanket of flowery words that you may or may not mean afterwards, feel free to PM me.
Yeah, it’s that kinda day.

 

[tnman03]

Last time I got my panties in a twist: about six hours ago.
He woke up n started lobbing verbal grenades before I’d even finished my coffee.
Which *totally* conflicted with the horny mood I woke up in.
So.
I let him roll over and go back to sleep while I played with my vibe as he snored.

Later, I kindly and gently told him, “Honey, I know you’re stressed, and I love you, so don’t take this the wrong way...” and I made my simple point. And it got heard.

So maybe Sekksy Trekksy will her to play with her toys *the right way* tonight.

If not? Anyone who’s available to fuck me good and well with the English language tonight, and wrap me up in a blanket of flowery words that you may or may not mean afterwards, feel free to PM me.
Yeah, it’s that kinda day.

So... how flowery do the words have to be for this e-fuckery????

Your one of those total package girls, smart as hell, genuine spitfire, and good looking. So hopefully BF will adjust his attitude and be more accomidating. If not...well other fishes...

 

[parker77]

hold up.
i missed this little gem earlier!

and i'd like an order of that for breakfast please.

piping.
hot.

that was a little sneaky, wasn’t it?

 

[Trekka]

Happy Sunday Funday ~ Happy Father’s Day

Soooooo......

Calling him “Daddy” in bed - hot?
Getting called “Daddy” in bed - hot?
Why or why not?
If not “Daddy,” then what?

Discuss amongst yourselves; I’ll be jilling off in the corner.

 

[parker77]

Happy Sunday Funday ~ Happy Father’s Day

Soooooo......

Calling him “Daddy” in bed - hot?
Getting called “Daddy” in bed - hot?
Why or why not?
If not “Daddy,” then what?

Discuss amongst yourselves; I’ll be jilling off in the corner.

i’d like to hear David Allan Coe’s answer prior to offering my reply, Jill.

 

[Orchidea73]

Calling him “Daddy” in bed - hot?

Absolutely not. Instant turn off, for me.

If not “Daddy,” then what?

His name.

 

[Orchidea73]

I’ve tried it. Not my thing. It felt hot until we really got into it, then... no.
I call him his name, or I call out to a God I don’t believe in.

Damn! You beat me to it. I was going to edit my original comment and add that part.

 

[tnman03]

Happy Sunday Funday ~ Happy Father’s Day

Soooooo......

Calling him “Daddy” in bed - hot?
Getting called “Daddy” in bed - hot?
Why or why not?
If not “Daddy,” then what?

Discuss amongst yourselves; I’ll be jilling off in the corner.

Sorry... but the whole "Daddy" verbal interplay with a lover just isn't my kink but it doesn't throw me off.

But I'm well aware of the fact that for some it is very much a part of their lexicon and very much makes for fun dynamics.

As for me, I'd rather be called by name or some other form of endearment. That said though, some trash-talking during rough sex isn't a bad thing either.

 

[Trekka]

i’d like to hear David Allan Coe’s answer prior to offering my reply, Jill.

So, that’s a yes?

I’ve tried it. Not my thing. It felt hot until we really got into it, then... no.
I call him his name, or I call out to a God I don’t believe in.

Damn! You beat me to it. I was going to edit my original comment and add that part.

You know? It’s funny. I feel kinda weird saying someone’s name in the throes of passion. If I do? It’s, like, fuckin serious. We ain’t fuckin anymore. We are makin love.

 

[Orchidea73]

You know? It’s funny. I feel kinda weird saying someone’s name in the throes of passion. If I do? It’s, like, fuckin serious. We ain’t fuckin anymore. We are makin love.

Humm, I see your point. How about bastard?

 

[Mr_bogey]

To each his/her own and I try not to judge anyone's kink. This one is not for me. I have a daughter. It causes shrinkage just thinking about it. Maybe I'm the strange one when it comes to that. My in-laws wanted me to call them "mom" and "dad". That wasn't happening either.

 

[Trekka]

To each his/her own and I try not to judge anyone's kink. This one is not for me. I have a daughter. It causes shrinkage just thinking about it. Maybe I'm the strange one when it comes to that. My in-laws wanted me to call them "mom" and "dad". That wasn't happening either.

So whaddya wanna be called in the sack, then?
Inquiring minds.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Happy Sunday Funday ~ Happy Father’s Day

Soooooo......

Calling him “Daddy” in bed - hot?
Getting called “Daddy” in bed - hot?
Why or why not?
If not “Daddy,” then what?

Discuss amongst yourselves; I’ll be jilling off in the corner.

I can't do it. I've tried to do it for audio requests and I couldn't do it with a straight face. I've often wondered if I could do it for the right person, for their pleasure. Kind of like the first time I ate ass. Scared me. But seeing his face totally made it worth it. That is what made it hot. Maybe that is what then makes it become sexy.

I don't do the name thing either. That feels weird. Even in Audio recordings. I've had requests for using their names. It doesn't feel natural to me. I usually stick to God. Fuck. Commands. Instructions. Harder. Faster... You get the idea.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I agree with Bogey, throw my dick against the fridge and see if it sticks because I’m a wet noodle.

I’m actually surprised to see so many “no daddies” here, I thought I was the only one. I can’t explain what it is that bothers me about that, but it is a real turn-off (probably as much of a turn on that it is to the people whose kink it is).

What do I want to be called? Tough one. I don’t want to be called Tough One, I just mean that’s a tough question.

I do like when a girl calls me by my last name instead of my first, that always seems hot to me—in the throes of passion, even more so.

If only my last name wasn’t Von Liptenenglestiein!

 

[Orchidea73]

Trekka made a good point between fucking and making love. But apart from a vaste vocabulary - the so-called "dirty talking" - you can use, it is also in how you do it that shows the difference, IMO.

The thing is that he can call you many names. But there are really few options of how you can call him though. lol

 

[Orchidea73]

I do like when a girl calls me by my last name instead of my first, that always seems hot to me—in the throes of passion, even more so.

Like in school. You have an "authority" kinky thing going on, Hotwords?

 

[parker77]

So, that’s a yes?

You know? It’s funny. I feel kinda weird saying someone’s name in the throes of passion. If I do? It’s, like, fuckin serious. We ain’t fuckin anymore. We are makin love.

truth be told, i’m non-preferential. i want her to call me whatever turns her on. but, don’t say my name, unless you fucking mean it.

 

[Orchidea73]

truth be told, i’m non-preferential. i want her to call me whatever turns her on. but, don’t say my name, unless you fucking mean it.

How about:

I don’t love you as if you were a rose of salt, topaz,
or arrow of carnations that propagate fire:
I love you as one loves certain obscure things,
secretly, between the shadow and the soul.

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where,
I love you directly without problems or pride:
I love you like this because I don’t know any other way to love,
except in this form in which I am not nor are you,
so close that your hand upon my chest is mine,
so close that your eyes close with my dreams.


Now, that's a lot of talking but totally works in foreplay.

 

[Trekka]

I can't do it. I've tried to do it for audio requests and I couldn't do it with a straight face. I've often wondered if I could do it for the right person, for their pleasure. Kind of like the first time I ate ass. Scared me. But seeing his face totally made it worth it. That is what made it hot. Maybe that is what then makes it become sexy.

I don't do the name thing either. That feels weird. Even in Audio recordings. I've had requests for using their names. It doesn't feel natural to me. I usually stick to God. Fuck. Commands. Instructions. Harder. Faster... You get the idea.

That’s how it started for me, tbh...

And I associate it with beatniks, bikers, and bad boy ~ bad girl rockers... aka who I think I am on the inside (Which I realize is wildly impractical so I chose a different path) But! How many times has Jim Morrison let the word, “Mama,” or “Wanna be her Daddy?” slither off his lizard tongue? And Janis’ smoky voice crooning, “Mama’s lookin good now, baby...”

Anyways. I realize it’s a Big Word for some folks so I’d never use it without running it past someone first.

I’ve had to bite my tongue many a time to keep the words from bubbling out of my lips when I’m all sexy-hazy-foggy!

Funny, when I first met my BF and asked him about it, he was like, “Oh hell, you don’t have to ask about shit like that! Shoulda just surprised me and let it rip!” ... very little softens that man’s dick. #TrueLove

Where’s NRJ on this one? I want his two cents!

I agree with Bogey, throw my dick against the fridge and see if it sticks because I’m a wet noodle.

I’m actually surprised to see so many “no daddies” here, I thought I was the only one. I can’t explain what it is that bothers me about that, but it is a real turn-off (probably as much of a turn on that it is to the people whose kink it is).

What do I want to be called? Tough one. I don’t want to be called Tough One, I just mean that’s a tough question.

I do like when a girl calls me by my last name instead of my first, that always seems hot to me—in the throes of passion, even more so.

If only my last name wasn’t Von Liptenenglestiein!

Dude, that’s hot. That’s like right up my military gangbang fantasy alley.
Did I say that out loud?

 

[parker77]

How about:

I don’t love you as if you were a rose of salt, topaz,
or arrow of carnations that propagate fire:
I love you as one loves certain obscure things,
secretly, between the shadow and the soul.

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where,
I love you directly without problems or pride:
I love you like this because I don’t know any other way to love,
except in this form in which I am not nor are you,
so close that your hand upon my chest is mine,
so close that your eyes close with my dreams.


Now, that's a lot of talking but totally works in foreplay.

the master of love sonnets speaks as no other. and i would have lived completely unaware of such delicious words had she not told me. and she did not call me by my name.

 

[Trekka]

How about:

I don’t love you as if you were a rose of salt, topaz,
or arrow of carnations that propagate fire:
I love you as one loves certain obscure things,
secretly, between the shadow and the soul.

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where,
I love you directly without problems or pride:
I love you like this because I don’t know any other way to love,
except in this form in which I am not nor are you,
so close that your hand upon my chest is mine,
so close that your eyes close with my dreams.


Now, that's a lot of talking but totally works in foreplay.

Oh, wistful sighs, Neruda.
Man knew how to run some game!
Fuck he makes my heart race. Every. Single. Time.
I’d call him Daddy. Bet he’d like it.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Like in school. You have an "authority" kinky thing going on, Hotwords?

Perhaps. I do like a sexy Librarian to slide her hands down the front of my pants and tell me I should follow her down to the stacks if I want to make this much noise.

Dude, that’s hot. That’s like right up my military gangbang fantasy alley.
Did I say that out loud?

It is hot. I'd like to hear more about this fantasy of yours where a bunch of Majors advance their Privates to sally your Grunts.

 

[Trekka]

Trekka made a good point between fucking and making love. But apart from a vaste vocabulary - the so-called "dirty talking" - you can use, it is also in how you do it that shows the difference, IMO.

The thing is that he can call you many names. But there are really few options of how you can call him though. lol

Oh I dunno...

babe, sir, handsome, asshole, darlin, big boy, master, dream boat, daddy, boo, cowboy, baby, or, a personal fave, you sexy motherfucker.

It’s all in the context though. “Fuck me harder, big boy” (with a wicked half smile of a grin) and then he flips me over and, whoa baby does it get harder, to which I might reply “You're a dreamboat.”

But typically ‘Daddy‘ suffices.

truth be told, i’m non-preferential. i want her to call me whatever turns her on. but, don’t say my name, unless you fucking mean it.

So, that’s a yes??

I agree though.
And looking back, I’m hard pressed to remember if I’ve ever even heard my own name uttered in bed? Hmm...

the master of love sonnets speaks as no other. and i would have lived completely unaware of such delicious words had she not told me. and she did not call me by my name.

De nada

 

[Orchidea73]

the master of love sonnets speaks as no other. and i would have lived completely unaware of such delicious words had she not told me. and she did not call me by my name.

I did call his name, instead, and meant it. I mean, how could I not?
But the "strangest" thing, though beautiful, it was someone reciting Mayakovsky, in be, in Russian.

Oh, wistful sighs, Neruda.
Man knew how to run some game!
Fuck he makes my heart race. Every. Single. Time.
I’d call him Daddy. Bet he’d like it.

My favorite poet. He has a place in my chandelier/lamp as well.
https://i.imgur.com/AYFeKkK.jpg

It's a strofe from Ausencia.

Pero espérame,
guárdame tu dulzura.
Yo te daré también
una rosa.

I've heard he was a total asshole and a jerk to his family though. I chose to remain blissfully ignorant on the subject because I do love his poetry so much. lol

 

[Orchidea73]

Oh I dunno...

babe, sir, handsome, asshole, darlin, big boy, master, dream boat, daddy, boo, cowboy, baby, or, a personal fave, you sexy motherfucker.

It’s all in the context though. “Fuck me harder, big boy” (with a wicked half smile of a grin) and then he flips me over and, whoa baby does it get harder, to which I might reply “You're a dreamboat.”

But typically ‘Daddy‘ suffices.

See, I have a limited vocab. apparently. LOL

"Fuck me harder, big boy" and "sexy motherfucker", check. Babe and baby only if I'm being sweet and use it in another context, but not in bed. Master is another turn off, for me. More than a turn off, it makes me laugh because it wouldn't be genuine if I said it. I just don't feel it. Sir, yes, though more when I'm being playful. Darling, if I'm being a coquette. Never heard "dreamboat" before though.