Litiquette VII

[tnman03]

Dear Trekka,

Could we please get a day glo body painting sunrise cock suckling update?

With sincere thanks and finger diddles.
Your #1 Fan

 

[Mrtenant]

Monday morning, back to traditional work week for many, myself included.

What traditional things have you grown tired of? Do you still do them out of a sense of obligation or duty? Have you toss them aside to chart your own way? And even when you are charting your own way, are you really, or are you trading one set of traditions for another?

I am tired of playing house and so much of what's wrapped up into it. And yes, my duty is clear, and I will not abandon it. I do make it also clear, that dad, me, husband, me, was once wild and free of such things and that I will exercise that place in my self. My people know not to stand in my way when I get that way. It doesn't do anyone any good to try and talk me out of it. Calculated and measured, I don't rock the boat too much. And, I always return to playing house.

 

[Suz_anne]

Damn you, Suz.

I know it is a divisive stance, but I must stand firm.

Let's just remember our shared love of roasted brussel sprouts. Which is a great side dish with a glazed ham.

 

[The_gladiator]

So, is today’s question, why is there no question for today? Did Suz’s question constitute today’s question?

 

[Trekka]

Dear Trekka,

Could we please get a day glo body painting sunrise cock suckling update?

With sincere thanks and finger diddles.
Your #1 Fan

Dear Suz,

It was a sweet, delicious, and delectable weekend... One that I won't soon forget.

Keep On Diddlin',
Smiling with a Twinkle in My Eye

 

[Trekka]

Good morning, lovelies.

Gettin back on track today after a total mind bender of a weekend that touched my heart, soul, and clitoris...

So my question isn't fully formed in my mind yet... but has something to do with monogamy....

Do you think monogamy is all it's cracked up to be? If yes, how do you keep it pure, and keep it rockin and rollin? If no, what do you do otherwise?

 

[Trekka]

So I had this poem taped to my bathroom mirror for years...

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[Orchidea73]

So my question isn't fully formed in my mind yet... but has something to do with monogamy....

Do you think monogamy is all it's cracked up to be? If yes, how do you keep it pure, and keep it rockin and rollin? If no, what do you do otherwise?

I don't know. Monogamy is not a natural state. People are not monogamous by nature. It is a choice.
But it is a choice that, for some, can be a trap as well.

Myself, I am monogamous with one person at a time.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I think monogamy sucks. BUT, I also love the idea of it. As much as I want threesome and foursome sex, my problem is that I don't want to share someone that I love. So I need to find a threesome with women that I like--sex friends.

If in a relationship, I couldn't go out and have sex with someone else without feeling weird about it. I feel like I would have to tell her every detail. And if she was having sex without me, I couldn't deal with it.

Logically, it shouldn't matter--it's just sex, but somehow, to me, it does.

I think people who can have an open relationship and still feel totally committed to their partner, and feel totally loved by them, are way more evolved than I am.

Maybe I could get there, but I'm going to need to Zen out, or become one with nature or something.

I also hate Monopoly, but that has nothing to do with this.

 

[Mrtenant]

Good morning, lovelies.

Gettin back on track today after a total mind bender of a weekend that touched my heart, soul, and clitoris...

So my question isn't fully formed in my mind yet... but has something to do with monogamy....

Do you think monogamy is all it's cracked up to be? If yes, how do you keep it pure, and keep it rockin and rollin? If no, what do you do otherwise?

I think it's largely misunderstood. It's a social, emotional, and financial contract. We as a people don't often understand exactly what it is that we are getting into. From that context, no, it's not what it's generally cracked up to be. But it can be so much better.

Too often do emotions rule where the logic center must take control.

Why should something that potentially affects me for the next 50 years or more be done without a very real and thoughtful contract? Yea, I know, it's all romantical, so what. It's still smart. And what is our great big brain supposed to be used for if not do smart things? One can only try.

Negotiate it, it's a partnership. If you can't get past the negotiations, how do you think the next 50 years will be?

Points maybe to consider: Financial, education, child rearing-if any, chores, sex, drugs and alcohol, health, consequences, renegotiations, politics, legacy, historical records, holidays, and more.

Yea, fuck that. Just whip it out, fuck like rabbits, call it love, and get hitched.

 

[Mrtenant]

So I had this poem taped to my bathroom mirror for years...

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/EURPEydXgAERAFD.jpg

I like it.


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[QuietCanadian]

Good morning, lovelies.

Gettin back on track today after a total mind bender of a weekend that touched my heart, soul, and clitoris...

So my question isn't fully formed in my mind yet... but has something to do with monogamy....

Do you think monogamy is all it's cracked up to be? If yes, how do you keep it pure, and keep it rockin and rollin? If no, what do you do otherwise?

Depends on the people, I suppose. I do think we're conditioned by society, or at least were, I'm old now, to think that's what we're supposed to do. That's what life is about, go to school, fall in love, get married, have kids, live happily ever after. I think the only thing we should take from that conditioning is to fall in love and live happily. And that love can be with anyone or with things like art, or music, or nature, or sex, etc.

Or one could go all Kanye (who stole it from a tattoo) and simply state that love is cursed by monogamy.

 

[BongoGal]

Do you think monogamy is all it's cracked up to be? If yes, how do you keep it pure, and keep it rockin and rollin? If no, what do you do otherwise?

I like monogamy so much that I can honestly say that I have never cheated on anyone with whom I've been in a relationship that assumed monogamy, i.e., a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Then again, I've never assumed that those relationships would be permanent and lifelong. When I want to move on, that's what I do.

I dislike monogamy so much that at this stage of my life I am happier having friends with benefits. Before the pandemic hit, I had two FWBs who I'd see fairly regularly. We were (still are, actually) friends first, but sometimes we'd end up in bed. There were never any strings, and there was no romance. Both FWBs were aware of the other's existence, but they both knew better than to express any sense of jealousy. For my part, I never felt possessive about either of them. If they wanted to get romantically involved with someone else, that would be fine, and we would have gone from FWBs to simply Fs.

Last year, one of my FWBs told me about a recent one-night-stand he had with a coworker while at a conference. I thought it was cool that he felt confident enough in our relationship that he could tell me about it and not fear the backlash that would come from admitting an affair to a girlfriend. I was actually happy for him. We were able to talk about it the way a female friend and I might talk about a recent date. The FWB was open enough with me that I could ask him about what happened. I stayed short of prying, I think, and the resulting conversation was interesting and rather erotic.

The pandemic put a sudden stop to the occasional flings with FWBs. Right now, the idea of a live-in boyfriend and all the monogamy that goes with it sounds almost idyllic compare to the celibacy I'm stuck with now.

 

[CurvyAngel_2]

Do you think monogamy is all it's cracked up to be? If yes, how do you keep it pure, and keep it rockin and rollin? If no, what do you do otherwise?

I want to believe it exists and that 2 people can find that happily ever after. I personally have not experienced this in relationships, mine or in others. Someone else stated that monogamy is a choice and I have to agree with that. My knowledge and initiation of sex has influenced my views I'm sure.

I give credit to those who can have relationships with communication and open mindedness to allow for other to be apart of their relationship. I met my first triad at a nudist colony when I was 18. I didnt understand then how they made that work. I had my first threesome also at 18 but afterwards felt a terrible guilt for becoming involved in their relationship. Now I'm much older and have since discovered many other types of successful relationships.

For myself...I'm possessive and dont really want to share my mate. I'm selfish because I wouldn't mind an mfm. So I will stick with monogamy in my own relationships to keep the balance. However, I'm open to communicating and speaking about everything in my relationship if he or I ever wanted something I would tell him and hope that he would tell me too so we can have a conversation about it.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I've learnt through my journey of non-monogamy that it takes a huge amount of self work to make it work. You have to own your shit, recognise your emotions and process them in a healthy way without enmeshing yourself into another human being. So many people are in codependent relationships of some sort. If you hold anyone else responsible for your emotions, it's going to really hurt.

That being said, it's really nice to have "the one". I love my guy so much and this pandemic has really amplified how fortunate I feel to share a life with him. There's really noone I'd rather be stuck on a dessert island with and that's the simulation playing out right now. It's fun to have others join in the mix, but if I couldn't see another person ever again, I would be ok with that (ish).

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Good morning, lovelies.
Gettin back on track today after a total mind bender of a weekend that touched my heart, soul, and clitoris...
So my question isn't fully formed in my mind yet... but has something to do with monogamy....
Do you think monogamy is all it's cracked up to be? If yes, how do you keep it pure, and keep it rockin and rollin? If no, what do you do otherwise?

For me, monogamy is definitely not all it's cracked up to be...and I should have known better. I won't try to be eloquent or bore you with details. I'm sure it's great for many people, but it turns out that I am not one of them. What do I do otherwise? I Lit. I try to explain how I feel to my husband (who is very monogamous) and listen to how he feels. We try to respect each other's feelings. He respects my space on Lit. It's not ideal, but it's where we are.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Dear Trekka,

Could we please get a day glo body painting sunrise cock suckling update?

With sincere thanks and finger diddles.
Your #1 Fan

Dear Suz,

It was a sweet, delicious, and delectable weekend... One that I won't soon forget.

Keep On Diddlin',
Smiling with a Twinkle in My Eye

This naughty wife returned home yesterday.
4 nights/5 days of diddles has us planning our next diddlelicious adventure sooner than later.
But until then, us lounging while we waited to be flipped over to feast on another ripe and ready diddle cuisine.

 

[QuietCanadian]

This naughty wife returned home yesterday.
4 nights/5 days of diddles has us planning our next diddlelicious adventure sooner than later.
But until then, us lounging while we waited to be flipped over to feast on another ripe and ready diddle cuisine.

Yowza.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Yowza.

I was going to answer the question, but then I saw this and still need to pick my jaw up off the ground.

The front of us - handprints. Squeezes. Slaps. Twists and pulls.
Starting at our throat and down to our thighs. Extra concentration around the boobs of course.

 

[SassySheDevil]

This naughty wife returned home yesterday.
4 nights/5 days of diddles has us planning our next diddlelicious adventure sooner than later.
But until then, ... to be flipped over to feast on another ripe and ready diddle cuisine.

LOL um. Whomever is on the left. Looks like they are laying on top of an outline of some dude who was wearing a glo-necklace. I'm just trying to figure out how tall he is, and who got the cock to lay on. Hell. I even see a beard. His arms are up by his head.. Crazy!! lol

 

[default24]

The front of us - handprints. Squeezes. Slaps. Twists and pulls.
Starting at our throat and down to our thighs. Extra concentration around the boobs of course.

Wow. You guys actually took the time to draw that out on your backs though. Kudos! I would've been all mouthy and penisy halfway through

 

[SMNaughtywife]

LOL um. Whomever is on the left. Looks like they are laying on top of an outline of some dude who was wearing a glo-necklace. I'm just trying to figure out how tall he is, and who got the cock to lay on. Hell. I even see a beard. His arms are up by his head.. Crazy!! lol

I’m on the left, but not laying on anyone. That’s later on in the evening.
This said man is the one taking the pic.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Sassy. What are you smoking?

haha sadly nothing. This is all natural

I’m on the left, but not laying on anyone. That’s later on in the evening.
This said man is the one taking the pic.

I knew no one was really there. Just the outline of paints I was seeing. You know how you look at the clouds and see certain shapes. I saw shapes in the paint

 

[Trekka]

This naughty wife returned home yesterday.
4 nights/5 days of diddles has us planning our next diddlelicious adventure sooner than later.
But until then, us lounging while we waited to be flipped over to feast on another ripe and ready diddle cuisine.

The culmination of every art class I ever took.
If my art teacher could see me now...
Sofa king hot!

Miss you

 

[Trekka]

Gahhh...

*giggling*

I think that’s what he said.