Litiquette VII

[Endless_Night]

-Pre-Lit: I nudged.

At least I nudged as best being confused and embarrassed and uncertain as to what my kinks actually were allowed. This mostly ended up with my getting bored with sex and heading to the nearest exit.

-Active-Lit: I was upfront.

Again, as much as my understanding allowed. I was vocal about changing needs when new pieces fell into place.

-Post-Active-Lit: I wouldn’t even consider a liaison without knowing upfront there were interlocking kinks, no matter how amusing, intelligent, attractive, or otherwise compatible. Nope.

There’s a certain irony in the above statement, as now, when I do understand my needs, I no longer do the sex.

 

[Orchidea73]

Yeah I've always talked about things beforehand. I couldn't imagine just busting open the drawer and pulling out the ropes or the paddles while your partner sits there wide-eyed, wondering WTF is about to go down.

I can imagine the scene.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

If you can't talk about it you shouldn't be doing it

 

[aussiegeekygal]

NRJLIVES likes this post

Tell me... What can't you talk about?


(Yet)

 

[Endless_Night]

Tell me... What can't you talk about?


(Yet)

I suspect there is nothing.


NRJ is all kinds of cool.

If you can't talk about it you shouldn't be doing it

This reminds me of a series of posts Trekka made on the mechanics of sexual choking. Super interesting and crazy informative. They were either in the Cock Map thread or Nonconsensual Posting,

The majority of my kink exploration has been psychological rather than physical. Her posts really opened my eyes to ethics and preparation required to safely practice some types of kink.

Good stuff.

 

[ChainedUp]

When does a kink become a fetish? I was once told that a kink is something “different” that arouses you where as a fetish is something you need to achieve orgasm. If that is true, I would think fetishes are quite rare. If it’s not an accurate definition, how do you distinguish between them?

 

[Dribble]

Lol. A kink is only a kink the first time. After that...it is just part of normalcy or it is set aside for another day. I too, subscribe to your definition of fetish. I do not believe I have any true fetishes

 

[ChainedUp]

Alrighty, kinks/fetishes didn’t do much here, apparently those topics didn’t hit your mental g-spot.

So tell us, what does? What gets your mental motor running, topics that so interest you that you could ramble on for hours, but please don’t, and have become somewhat of an expert.

Side bar, does anyone ever say “look at this picture from my trip” or do we just assume anything of interest has been posted on socials?

 

[Dribble]

Alrighty, kinks/fetishes didn’t do much here, apparently those topics didn’t hit your mental g-spot.

So tell us, what does? What gets your mental motor running, topics that so interest you that you could ramble on for hours, but please don’t, and have become somewhat of an expert.

Side bar, does anyone ever say “look at this picture from my trip” or do we just assume anything of interest has been posted on socials?

Sorry...it tends to happen after my posts. It isn't personal.

Genetics. Rocks. Backpacking. Time dilation. Addiction and recovery. It scares me what is in my brain.

I don't do social media. Well, I am here...but this is anonymous and I don't think Dribble has ever posted a personal picture publicly?

 

[ChainedUp]

Would seem that cat presence has no impact on mice presence. Perhaps it’s the cheese…

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Would seem that cat presence has no impact on mice presence. Perhaps it’s the cheese…

Try a triple cream Brie.

Not sure if this is a fun fact or not: I hate cheese.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Not sure if this is a fun fact or not: I hate cheese.

YAY! I'm not alone! I don't much care for rancid chunk-milk either.

 

[ChainedUp]

Apparently the next thing to pop up on this thread are people claiming to not enjoy orgasms. Not sure about this crowd some days….

 

[Jd192235]

Apparently the next thing to pop up on this thread are people claiming to not enjoy orgasms. Not sure about this crowd some days….

What about those of us who can have a foodgasm from cheese?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I came for the cheese....


Take that as you will

 

[ChainedUp]

Double bonus points!

What about those of us who can have a foodgasm from cheese?

 

[ChainedUp]

As long as it wasn’t Velveeta

Take that as you will

I came for the cheese....


Take that as you will

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

As long as it wasn’t Velveeta

Take that as you will

God no.... I do have a few standards!

 

[Jd192235]

God no.... I do have a few standards!

At least when it comes to cheese pulpy?!? Lol

 

[Whiskeyjack]

*gasp*


I did not know people like you existed.

I grew up in a dairy farming community. We took a lot of school field trips to a creamery where they make cheese. That place stunk to high heaven. Been turned off it ever since.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

At least when it comes to cheese pulpy?!? Lol

Cheese and pens. The rest is a free for all.

I grew up in a dairy farming community. We took a lot of school field trips to a creamery where they make cheese. That place stunk to high heaven. Been turned off it ever since.

Jack, don't ruin cheese! I'm begging.

 

[ChainedUp]

It’s all about the brine, ‘bout the brine, no smelling

Cheese and pens. The rest is a free for all.
Jack, don't ruin cheese! I'm begging.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I grew up in a dairy farming community. We took a lot of school field trips to a creamery where they make cheese. That place stunk to high heaven. Been turned off it ever since.

But The Cheese Factory in Tillamook is amazing. And I will go there just for cheese curds.

 

[ChainedUp]

Fresh cheese curd are the absolute best

But The Cheese Factory in Tillamook is amazing. And I will go there just for cheese curds.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Jack, don't ruin cheese! I'm begging.

In all my years of sharing my cheese-stench stories, I don't think I've actually converted anyone. Unless you're abnormally highly susceptible to suggestion, you're probably safe from ruin.