Litiquette VII

[StacyLeigh]

So tell us, what’s your preference in sunglasses.

My go-to are always aviators - Roka being my preference.

 

[Rapha_79]

So tell us, what’s your preference in sunglasses.

Black Oakleys for cycling, tortoiseshell Rapha ones for casual.

Although my non-sunglasses glasses are Raybans.

 

[tnman03]

Protection, whether one wears some or not is always a conversation. Some don’t like how it looks , some don’t like the feel. And then there’s always the fit factor, do they fit properly, is too big better than too small. And all the color choices available seem almost endless.

So tell us, what’s your preference in sunglasses.

I used to wear Ray-Ban Aviators when I was younger, but now I wear a Nike frame version of the R-B Wayfarers with prescription lenses in them.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Polarized.
Fuck those little nose balance dongle thingies. They can tangled in my hair when I wear them on my head (when I have hair, that is).

I always buy cheap glasses that last a season or two.

 

[QuietCanadian]

Protection, whether one wears some or not is always a conversation. Some don’t like how it looks , some don’t like the feel. And then there’s always the fit factor, do they fit properly, is too big better than too small. And all the color choices available seem almost endless.

So tell us, what’s your preference in sunglasses.

I used to wear them all the time, but I got worried that she will deceive me. It really started to cut my security. I don't know why one would switch the blade on the guy in shades, oh no. Or masquerade with the guy in shades, no. But you shouldn't be afraid of the guy in shades, really you've got it made with the guy in shades. I just really want to watch you weave and breathe your story lines. Keep track of those visions in my eyes. And see the light right before my eyes.

But when you say it out loud it sounds relatively creepy so I stopped wearing them at night.

 

[FranklyFrank]

Protection, whether one wears some or not is always a conversation. Some don’t like how it looks , some don’t like the feel. And then there’s always the fit factor, do they fit properly, is too big better than too small. And all the color choices available seem almost endless.

So tell us, what’s your preference in sunglasses.

I am absolutely terrible in the art of protecting sunglasses. I seem to find new ways to destroy or lose them constantly. With that being said, and with a set price point ceiling I refuse to cross, most of the sunglasses I purchase these days are exclusively though the shops of fashion designer Walley de Marte'.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Happy Saturday. Bossman is out, so I’ll sneak in for minute or two.

He/She is out of my league.

How often do you feel that way about someone here?
What is it about that person that gives you those vibes? How long they’ve been here, the way they interact in the boards or maybe it’s pics they post.
How willing are you to toss all that out and take a chance of a possible connection/friendship/hot naughty time?

Bonus!
Were your instincts accurate?

 

[Wand3rlust]

Happy Saturday. Bossman is out, so I’ll sneak in for minute or two.

He/She is out of my league.

How often do you feel that way about someone here?
What is it about that person that gives you those vibes? How long they’ve been here, the way they interact in the boards or maybe it’s pics they post.
How willing are you to toss all that out and take a chance of a possible connection/friendship/hot naughty time?

Bonus!
Were your instincts accurate?

Sometimes quite a lot. And I feel that about the men AND women that post here. But I'm also aware that some of that is my own self esteem issues. Which I'm getting better at dealing with. Confidence is attractive. But also means you could be less likely to think they would be interested in a connection.

I'd love to be braver and make friends with more people. Hot naughty time - not so bothered about that to be fair.

 

[hairball18]

Happy Saturday. Bossman is out, so I’ll sneak in for minute or two.

He/She is out of my league.

How often do you feel that way about someone here?
What is it about that person that gives you those vibes? How long they’ve been here, the way they interact in the boards or maybe it’s pics they post.
How willing are you to toss all that out and take a chance of a possible connection/friendship/hot naughty time?

Bonus!
Were your instincts accurate?

They are all out of my league. That never stopped me from saying hello or it is good to see you.
I have been slapped in the face occasionally, but for the most part I will get a thank you.

 

[StacyLeigh]

Happy Saturday. Bossman is out, so I’ll sneak in for minute or two.

He/She is out of my league.

How often do you feel that way about someone here?
What is it about that person that gives you those vibes? How long they’ve been here, the way they interact in the boards or maybe it’s pics they post.
How willing are you to toss all that out and take a chance of a possible connection/friendship/hot naughty time?

Bonus!
Were your instincts accurate?

I’ve never felt someone was out of my league here, but maybe in a different league? The feeling likely came from my assumptions of who they were closest to on the boards and whether I would “vibe” with that group.

For the example that popped in my mind, I was more than willing to take the chance on him - though he reached out first so that helped

My instincts on being too different could not have been more wrong. My spidey senses are usually pretty good, but self doubt is a strong force to overcome.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Sometimes quite a lot. And I feel that about the men AND women that post here. But I'm also aware that some of that is my own self esteem issues. Which I'm getting better at dealing with. Confidence is attractive. But also means you could be less likely to think they would be interested in a connection.

I'd love to be braver and make friends with more people. Hot naughty time - not so bothered about that to be fair.

This is me too and it is almost ALWAYS 100% about my own issues/insecurities.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Happy Saturday. Bossman is out, so I’ll sneak in for minute or two.

He/She is out of my league.

How often do you feel that way about someone here?
What is it about that person that gives you those vibes? How long they’ve been here, the way they interact in the boards or maybe it’s pics they post.
How willing are you to toss all that out and take a chance of a possible connection/friendship/hot naughty time?

Bonus!
Were your instincts accurate?

I have no league so, technically, everyone is out of my league. There are people here that I can see I have nothing in common with, but I never thought of someone being out of my league.

I assume the “popular” people here are popular because they are approachable and not the other way around.

So far, I have been correct.

 

[Dribble]

Happy Saturday. Bossman is out, so I’ll sneak in for minute or two.

He/She is out of my league.

How often do you feel that way about someone here?
What is it about that person that gives you those vibes? How long they’ve been here, the way they interact in the boards or maybe it’s pics they post.
How willing are you to toss all that out and take a chance of a possible connection/friendship/hot naughty time?

Bonus!
Were your instincts accurate?

Never. There have been those that have far more money and things than I, but things come and go...and they are here too, so something is lacking in their lives that draws them here. See, people are far more similar than different. That is in spite of what people want to believe.

Have I met people that think they are better? Yes. But I don't interact with them not because I feel they are out of my league...but because I know my worth and don't like being judged when you know nothing about me.

Are my instincts accurate? Not always my first instincts. I have judged people incorrectly several times...and I will tell them when I recognize it...usually a year or so down the line. And there have been those that I trusted...that i shouldn't have. But see, I can live with my mistakes. I own who I am.

How willing am I to toss out who I am? Very. But I am not looking for a "connection" here. I did early in my Lit life...it was too biased by sex. Companionship is far more than thirty minutes. I have a better chance at the grocery store building a connection.

Now...to the crux...the question you kinda asked...but didn't. What attracts me to those I interact with here? It varies. Silliness. Commonalities. Do they read? Do they behave here as they say they do?

 

[ChainedUp]

We all have those lines that we don’t let people cross. Maybe it’s a particular kink we aren’t into, maybe it’s a political view point we can’t get behind. How fluid are your lines, do you let some cross those boundaries while others you will stop them well short of the boundary? Does that make them a true boundary, or are you just wanting the right person to take you down the road less travelled?

 

[Endless_Night]

Happy Saturday. Bossman is out, so I’ll sneak in for minute or two.

I don't know that I think of things in this particularly way?


Hmmm. Bears some thinking….

We all have those lines that we don’t let people cross. Maybe it’s a particular kink we aren’t into, maybe it’s a political view point we can’t get behind. How fluid are your lines, do you let some cross those boundaries while others you will stop them well short of the boundary? Does that make them a true boundary, or are you just wanting the right person to take you down the road less travelled?

My lines are pretty solid. For instance, I've never shared a picture of my face with anyone on Lit.

(I have met one Litster in person.)

That's not to say that my lines haven't/might fudge a little based on desire or attraction or obligation, but I am relatively firm on certain types of limits.

 

[Dribble]

Cross my lines are you are gone. That's because those that matter know what those lines are. They aren't complicated. There aren't many. But they exist for a reason.

Now, are my lines the same for different people? No. But the moral standard is the same.

 

[hotwords229_A]

We all have those lines that we don’t let people cross. Maybe it’s a particular kink we aren’t into, maybe it’s a political view point we can’t get behind. How fluid are your lines, do you let some cross those boundaries while others you will stop them well short of the boundary? Does that make them a true boundary, or are you just wanting the right person to take you down the road less travelled?

I’m not sure I have lines. I must, but I can’t think what they might be. I can usually tell if I like someone or not almost immediately so someone who maybe crosses a theoretical line has already been eliminated before getting close enough to cross the line that I’m not even aware that I have?

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Until last year I was terrible at setting boundaries.

Now. I'm a Motherfucking Master at boundaries. I've learnt that I am only interested in negotiating boundaries with people I want to continue a relationship with. I put boundaries in place to protect my relationships, not to punish anyone.

There is no wiggle room in my boundaries. I will remind people of my limits and hold people accountable for crossing the line if I care enough about them.

 

[ChainedUp]

We all have our “go-to”s, be it a comfort food, a favorite sex toy, a porn video, a movie…etc We have them because they are reliable, they illicit a known response, and it’s what we are seeking. And yet, we also claim we like variety, taking the road less travelled, new experiences. Haven’t we learned that can’t live a dichotomous lifestyle? Tell us how you manage your ying/yang ways.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Sounds like some black and white thinking right there.
Hot damn.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with knowing exactly what you want or need that creates your happiness. Why can’t you have both, doesn’t that come with age and life experience?
I having a few “go to’s” that I’m not really willing to negotiate letting go of. Tried and true winners that have earned their place. Thats my Solid40%.
The other 60% are new experiences and adventures that I want added to my life.
For me, as much as I love, crave and want nothing more then to mix up the mundane, there’s something about that unwavering Solid40% that …. well, it makes me so incredibly happy and that’s that.
So my ying/yang isn’t symmetrical, either are my b0Obs. I’m over it.

 

[Endless_Night]

I am a creature of dichotomy. Enny vs Endless.

These days my yin is under ruthless control. I am all in on the Endless yang.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

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[Dribble]

We all have our “go-to”s, be it a comfort food, a favorite sex toy, a porn video, a movie…etc We have them because they are reliable, they illicit a known response, and it’s what we are seeking. And yet, we also claim we like variety, taking the road less travelled, new experiences. Haven’t we learned that can’t live a dichotomous lifestyle? Tell us how you manage your ying/yang ways.

I always use my right hand. I always tuck it on the left side. I do what feels best...reliability has nothing to do with it.

Ying...yang? I don't know. I look at the bigger picture. What is best today? Tomorrow...or yesterday...that answer could be different...so life decisions may seem flexible to the outside eye. But they usually are looking at the wrong things. Why I make a decision really doesn't change...what's best for my kids.

 

[ChainedUp]

A quickie today…..well, kind of

Once you are feeling good with a partner, there comes a time when you want to travel down a kinkier path. Do you discuss it up front with your partner, do you try to just ease into it and hope they respond favorably, or do you just go for it, damn the torpedoes style?

When it doesn’t go as hoped, how to you move on? And have you ever broken off a relationship because your partner just wasn’t into your kink?

 

[Orchidea73]

A quickie today…..well, kind of

Once you are feeling good with a partner, there comes a time when you want to travel down a kinkier path. Do you discuss it up front with your partner, do you try to just ease into it and hope they respond favorably, or do you just go for it, damn the torpedoes style?

When it doesn’t go as hoped, how to you move on? And have you ever broken off a relationship because your partner just wasn’t into your kink?

I have broken off a relationship not for a particular “kink” - which I don’t think I have anyway- but because we weren’t sexually compatible. I tried but it didn’t work.

I think communication is the key. Sounds cliché but true.