~~> Lit Lessons Learned <~~

[TongueLust]

* drama begets drama. And it doesn't kill you to be nice.

* your real friends won't ask for nudie pics.

* this place can bring you down or lift you up. ..depends on how you take it. And how much influence you let it have.

* don't let it have a lot of influence.

*HONK!*

 

[pfflyerhot]

I am constantly learning stuff about myself by being on Lit. I've learned I'm way more sexual than I've had opportunity to be, but... I can't do the FWB thing, at all. Don't get me wrong, I'll fuck your brains out like nobody's business if we make a connection. I can have all the meaningless sex in the world once I find a meaningful person to have it with... Who knows what we'd do...
I've learned I'm honest to my own detriment, quite often. I can get off on tangents about all sorts of things... to whoever... I'm a crappy typist and I suck at instant messaging (too long-winded, slow, error-ridden typing...).
I have learned I am one of the most nonjudgemental people I've ever known. And, that I like to help people with their troubles...offer perspective... a new way of thinking, maybe. Oh... and, I like to swear... that's a fact. Literotica can inspire me, and depress the hell out of me. It can make me hot or make me laugh at the ridiculousness of it all. Lit makes me question life... reality... life... and how I operate in mine.
(not proofreading this, sorry... )
That's just the tip of the iceberg.

 

[IhateClowns]

I am constantly learning stuff about myself by being on Lit. I've learned I'm way more sexual than I've had opportunity to be, but... I can't do the FWB thing, at all. Don't get me wrong, I'll fuck your brains out like nobody's business if we make a connection. I can have all the meaningless sex in the world once I find a meaningful person to have it with... Who knows what we'd do...
I've learned I'm honest to my own detriment, quite often. I can get off on tangents about all sorts of things... to whoever... I'm a crappy typist and I suck at instant messaging (too long-winded, slow, error-ridden typing...).
I have learned I am one of the most nonjudgemental people I've ever known. And, that I like to help people with their troubles...offer perspective... a new way of thinking, maybe. Oh... and, I like to swear... that's a fact. Literotica can inspire me, and depress the hell out of me. It can make me hot or make me laugh at the ridiculousness of it all. Lit makes me question life... reality... life... and how I operate in mine.
(not proofreading this, sorry... )
That's just the tip of the iceberg.

Well said

 

[sunshinegirl05]

1. Take your time and be yourself - don't come in here and be a know-it-all.
2. The Golden Rule Applies here too
3. Sometimes a break is necessary
4. You get out of it what you put into it. If you want a friend, be a friend. If you want PM's, you gotta send them too.
6. Aquagal also has a great butt

I agree.

Though, I like her boobs better...mostly b/c that's what I have seen most of her *here*.

Lessons I have learned:

1. I am beautiful......Lit can be really good for the ego....but it can be very harsh too. I had to realize that how beautiful I was, was not based on who thought so.

2. The Golden Rule still applies on here. I try to be kind to most everyone I come in contact with. But, I have also learned that I will speak up when I feel the need to.

3. While there are some awesome guys on here, there's a lot that are looking for the next sparkly thing...and as fast as you can get caught up in Lit romances.....they can be over in the blink of an eye.

4. You don't come here expecting to find your happily ever after. While there couples on here who have found their happily ever afters, chances are....you won't. But, I have "met" and gotten to know some amazing people on here. And, I do believe that I have grown and learned from them. By the way....the happily ever after people....it makes me so happy, because I am a romantic...and I love a good romance.

 

[ydahecnot]

* drama begets drama. And it doesn't kill you to be nice.

* your real friends won't ask for nudie pics.

* this place can bring you down or lift you up. ..depends on how you take it. And how much influence you let it have.

* don't let it have a lot of influence.

Friends don't let friends ask for nudie pics.

 

[Misshotndeep]

I keep trying to think of something witty to post in here to explain my experience on Lit. Every good point I come up with is posted by another be fore I can type it though. I think most posters here feel the same way and are getting the same lessons.
I am big on every one entering our lives for a reason, season or a life time. I have lots of folks that have just been passing though. Some I have become fast friends with and others I just shake my head at. Over all I guess Lit has been an outlet for me during my trials. So I guess I had it reaffirmed that that the Universe ( or God if you will) really does give us what we need when we need it. Yeps Scrooge.. There is hope out there. lol

 

[Bunnylily]

I keep trying to think of something witty to post in here to explain my experience on Lit. Every good point I come up with is posted by another be fore I can type it though. I think most posters here feel the same way and are getting the same lessons.
I am big on every one entering our lives for a reason, season or a life time. I have lots of folks that have just been passing though. Some I have become fast friends with and others I just shake my head at. Over all I guess Lit has been an outlet for me during my trials. So I guess I had it reaffirmed that that the Universe ( or God if you will) really does give us what we need when we need it. Yeps Scrooge.. There is hope out there. lol

*sending hugs*

 

[Misshotndeep]

*sending hugs*

Oh thank you. Hugs to you to dears.

 

[IhateClowns]

There are certain people on here that take this place way too seriously. As if this is their real lives instead of what is going on outside their front door. Those folks run the gamut of emotions on here. From supreme highs to supreme lows. They think every post is about them. They feel everyone is either in love with them or out to get them. They thrive on making others miserable on here. Not in a trolling way, but just in a constant barrage of negative posts to garner the attention of everyone around them, thus making whatever thread, post or topic that is going on, be about them.

 

[may_I_please]

They should realise its all about me

 

[IhateClowns]

They should realise its all about me

Point taken. They really should. If they cannot see that everything should be compared to MIP, then they are just spinning their wheels.

 

[may_I_please]

Point taken. They really should. If they cannot see that everything should be compared to MIP, then they are just spinning their wheels.

*snurk*

 

[IhateClowns]

*snurk*

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

I've learned when you turn someone down because they're not single or not in an open relationship, there's a very good chance they come back reincarnated as a single or swinging couple...

*nods*


I also learned the Pffyler and I are sisters separated at birth..

 

[clearlight30]

Don't take it too seriously,
and don't take too seriously the people who do take it too seriously

 

[GothAngelBabe]

Have fun, and enjoy the ride!

 

[poppadog]

Its a Mindfuck. Someone's arm isn't going to come out of the screen and give you a hug or toss you off.

It does give us all the opportunity to escape the Real World and have a bit of harmless fun with other consenting adults.

We all just need to 'get over' ourselves and spread a little happiness. Take the compliment in anyway you want and move on.

There is a delete button after all.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

A piece of advice for the new gals~


Some of the best guys on Lit take their time getting around to introducing themselves.

Ladies, they're worth the wait.

 

[BradBigBrain]

A piece of advice for the new gals~


Some of the best guys on Lit take their time getting around to introducing themselves.

Ladies, they're worth the wait.

Please allow me to introduce myself, I'm a man of wealth and taste...

 

[Twlightdreamer]

Enjoy the moment while it lasts.

 

[BradBigBrain]

Enjoy the moment while it lasts.

This is true.

Sometimes the moments fade quickly.

 

[fletchx]

A piece of advice for the new gals~


Some of the best guys on Lit take their time getting around to introducing themselves.

Ladies, they're worth the wait.

Patience is a virtue, they say.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Please allow me to introduce myself, I'm a man of wealth and taste...

I do believe we've met.

Patience is a virtue, they say.

hi fletch. how are you?

 

[mamasota]

I found my own Litlegs
Treading the Litsea is not for the fainthearted, but the water can be oh so fine
It is a different strokes for different folks arena, be your own champion.

 

[Little_Sister]

Have you heard the new progressive commercial? The one where Flo says to the trainee "No sprinkles. Sprinkles are for winners"

I laughed for a good 10 min. Sprinkles will never be sprinkles again thanks to Lit.