Lindi’s Lovely Little Lit Location

[lindi_85]

Sometimes because of time and other priorities, other times because being here wasn't making me happy, and you can't force Lit to be what you want.

I’m starting to realise that

But for friendships, I find it much harder to get those forty minutes for a proper catch up with a friend. I used to, but I no longer can so easily. I used to PM people much more than I now do, because I'm a bad correspondent nowadays.

I am also finding this. I just don’t PM anymore and it’s not because I don’t care (they’re all amazing) it’s more I don’t have enough spoons.

Lit is the one form of social media I'm still using. I left the rest when they became places where unpleasant people hurled hatred at each other from opposite directions, and those of us wanting to live peacefully in the middle got hit by the fallout. But Lit just points those people to the Politics threads and the rest of us are left to get on with it

as always you have such a great way of looking at things. Good on you for doing what you needed. I’ve always been curious to venture to the politics threads but was warned seconds after signing up the first time that it would be suicide.

Time is such a massive factor with lit life and while I love the safety of chatting with someone from another country, time zones mean the ability to form a bond or connection further than the occasional chat is incredibly difficult. Add to that real life responsibility and it all becomes too much. The fun and silliness is great though and I’ve formed some genuine friendships . Hopefully they’re friendships that continue forever (although the feasibility feels questionable)

 

[Azuldrgon]

What about lit keeps you coming back? It may be a loaded question but for those of you who’ve left and come back or had changes in your engagement, what changed?

My initial reason for coming onto the site was because I was encouraged by a crush at the time to post my stories here.
Although the crush left, I found the forums and had people to socialize with. So I stayed.
I took a few breaks along the way either to heal a broken heart or because life got in the way.
Along the way, I made friends. Some became really good friends as in socializing offline and such while others fell by the wayside due to different factors.
It's a place for me to explore, to find folks to chat with, to be inspired for things and to catch up with old friends. *hugs @lindi_85 *
It's not always the best place. I used to have on my sig line that "Lit is like wasabi. Better in small doses."
Still, it is usually the first place I log onto when I first wake up in the morning and when I get home from work just to see what and who I have missed.
I may not contribute as much on the story side anymore for different reasons, but I like popping on here.

 

[Lmizzler]

What about lit keeps you coming back? It may be a loaded question but for those of you who’ve left and come back or had changes in your engagement, what changed?

Some great people. Engaging interactions. Dopamine hit.

 

[lindi_85]

It's a place for me to explore, to find folks to chat with, to be inspired for things and to catch up with old friends.

I love this! And I tend to agree. It’s full of creative, wonderful (horny), adventurous individuals

It's not always the best place. I used to have on my sig line that "Lit is like wasabi. Better in small doses."

Hahahaha that’s brilliant. And so true! I am still working out the right balance. I overthink and compare myself to others too much which is neither healthy nor necessary and get in my head, not communicate my thoughts and hide until I’m better. It’s dumb and clearly a pattern. It doesn’t help that I look for validation in aaaaall the wrong places.

Some great people. Engaging interactions. Dopamine hit.

7 words that convey so much

 

[Jaws82]

There’s a certain excitement to engagement here. Finding some chemistry

 

[Hyacinthus151]

What about lit keeps you coming back? It may be a loaded question but for those of you who’ve left and come back or had changes in your engagement, what changed?

Lit is a place of comfort and escape, so even when life gets in the way or things go sideways, it’s hard to stay away after awhile. It’s hard to find a place with like minded people who are genuine and caring that also have that streak of sexuality like Lit has built.

 

[Mrtenant]

What about lit keeps you coming back? It may be a loaded question but for those of you who’ve left and come back or had changes in your engagement, what changed?

I'm here for the snacks. And the bowling in the mosh pit event. And the occasional boob flash. Mostly, the snacks.

 

[lindi_85]

I'm here for the snacks. And the bowling in the mosh pit event. And the occasional boob flash. Mostly, the snacks.

Snacks are life! Opens bag of salt and vinegar chips. Don’t mind me…
Bowling mosh pit event? I’m intrigued

 

[LupineOne]

Snacks are life! Opens bag of salt and vinegar chips. Don’t mind me…
Bowling mosh pit event? I’m intrigued

Salt and vinegar chips??

*licks chops*

 

[lindi_85]

Salt and vinegar chips??

*licks chops*

Yes indeedy

 

[LupineOne]

Yes indeedy

I could eat a whole bag of those!

 

[Mrtenant]

Snacks are life! Opens bag of salt and vinegar chips. Don’t mind me…
Bowling mosh pit event? I’m intrigued

Yes, 10 people roll bowling balls into a mosh pit. Gives the moshers a reason to jump around like crazy people. You score when you hit one.

 

[lindi_85]

Yes, 10 people roll bowling balls into a mosh pit. Gives the moshers a reason to jump around like crazy people. You score when you hit one.

I’ll be a moshee. I like having ankles but the dopamine hit would be , and right now, dopamine is everything

 

[lindi_85]

I could eat a whole bag of those!

You say that like it’s shocking? Is the family size not a suggestion?

 

[LupineOne]

You say that like it’s shocking? Is the family size not a suggestion?

It’s a necessity! Especially if you and I are sharing!