Lil_Jenni's Adventures, Past and Present...

I'd say cut out the Cayenne. I think you'd both prefer you at home with the kids. At least for a couple of years
They Cayenne was a joke... mainly. The real issue would be the mortgage for a cabin with three bedrooms and enough conveniences not it be too rustic but that is still far away from others. I found one for sale, but I would have to work for us to comfortably swing it. So I'll be good and wait. I can't promise I won't pout about it, however. 😟
 
They Cayenne was a joke... mainly. The real issue would be the mortgage for a cabin with three bedrooms and enough conveniences not it be too rustic but that is still far away from others. I found one for sale, but I would have to work for us to comfortably swing it. So I'll be good and wait. I can't promise I won't pout about it, however. 😟
Why am I imagining the pouting being sexy, I'll admit to being almost clueless on the rest of the issues
 
They Cayenne was a joke... mainly. The real issue would be the mortgage for a cabin with three bedrooms and enough conveniences not it be too rustic but that is still far away from others. I found one for sale, but I would have to work for us to comfortably swing it. So I'll be good and wait. I can't promise I won't pout about it, however. 😟
Your husband can probably put in an extra hour of work a week and pay for it. 🤣
 
They Cayenne was a joke... mainly. The real issue would be the mortgage for a cabin with three bedrooms and enough conveniences not it be too rustic but that is still far away from others. I found one for sale, but I would have to work for us to comfortably swing it. So I'll be good and wait. I can't promise I won't pout about it, however. 😟

Rustic isn't all bad. Smaller means less to clean and maintain. One bedroom, and a big enough living area to set up the twins and older one in bunks. They're kids, they'll enjoy it without a bedroom all their own. Seems a long way away now, but the days when they are old enough not to want to go to the cabin with you happen sooner than you think.

We camped for 10 years in a $1500 camper, the kids didn't know the difference between that and a $35000 camper. And they still have the memories.
 
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Rustic isn't all bad. Smaller means less to clean and maintain. One bedroom, and a big enough living area to set up the twins and older one in bunks. They're kids, they'll enjoy it without a bedroom all their own. Seems a long way away now, but the days when they are old enough not to want to go to the cabin with you happen sooner than you think.

We camped for 10 years in a $1500 camper, the kids didn't know the difference between that and a $35000 camper. And they still have the memories.
I'm not a roughing it kind of girl. I need some comforts. Not super plush, mind you. I'm not a glamper. But I do want the basic comforts, like electricity and running water, at a minimum. I'm okay with propane for cooking and heat (that's what the cabin we just rented had). We used the wood stove and fireplace, and a couple radiant space heaters, for heat much more than the propane. The owner does require renters keep it in the mid 50s with propane to prevent the pipes freezing, but we never turned up the heat above that.

Hubby said some people turn off their water unless they are using the cabin. I guess there is a way to drain the water down so it won't freeze (outside my area of expertise 🙄). He said you just have to warm up the cabin before turning the water on. I would be okay with that too.

Hubby also says I'm being a bit impractical with the three bedroom thing, so... 🙄
 
I'm not a roughing it kind of girl. I need some comforts. Not super plush, mind you. I'm not a glamper. But I do want the basic comforts, like electricity and running water, at a minimum. I'm okay with propane for cooking and heat (that's what the cabin we just rented had). We used the wood stove and fireplace, and a couple radiant space heaters, for heat much more than the propane. The owner does require renters keep it in the mid 50s with propane to prevent the pipes freezing, but we never turned up the heat above that.

Hubby said some people turn off their water unless they are using the cabin. I guess there is a way to drain the water down so it won't freeze (outside my area of expertise 🙄). He said you just have to warm up the cabin before turning the water on. I would be okay with that too.

Hubby also says I'm being a bit impractical with the three bedroom thing, so... 🙄
See? It's possible if you just completely forget all that you want and buy only what you can afford. 🤣
 
Hubby also says I'm being a bit impractical with the three bedroom thing, so... 🙄
😂 This is so stereotypical it hurts. Men generally want less in a place to stay than women do. Just the way things work.

But, having running water is nice. Propane is nice, too. No reason not to have those as a minimum. But square footage can be small, and it can still be enjoyable.

We used to stay at our hunting camp in the winter. Wood stove, no insulation. 12'x14' with a few bunks. Some great memories when I was a kid...

So, really the kids won't need much for good memories. Sometimes not having much is more fun, makes an adventure out of it. Save the plush adventures for you and the hubby alone...
 
So, really the kids won't need much for good memories. Sometimes not having much is more fun, makes an adventure out of it. Save the plush adventures for you and the hubby alone...
Maybe I can just leave the not so plush stuff for Hubby and the kiddos, not me. 🤷‍♀️

Although, I don't mind tent camping, if it's at a campground with water and at least a toilet in an enclosure. And I like day hikes and stuff. But early in our relationship, I agreed to go on a backpacking trip for a few days. It was horrible. If I never have to shit in a hole in the ground again, it will be too soon. 😡
 
Maybe I can just leave the not so plush stuff for Hubby and the kiddos, not me. 🤷‍♀️

Although, I don't mind tent camping, if it's at a campground with water and at least a toilet in an enclosure. And I like day hikes and stuff. But early in our relationship, I agreed to go on a backpacking trip for a few days. It was horrible. If I never have to shit in a hole in the ground again, it will be too soon. 😡
After a few events I was obliged to partake in, I vowed to never "camp" again. Now I take a 30ft camper anywhere "camping" is expected. Never. Again.
 
I don't have much of an update.

The twins are pains in my wider than it used to be but still pretty nice looking (I think) ass. 🙄

Kiddo is great. He loves school and helps out (as much as he can) after school. ❤️

Hubby is busy but attentive and loving... And patient, because I can be volatile at times. 🤣🥰

Some guys on Lit are assholes, but I'm trying not to let it bother me. 🫤
 
I don't have much of an update.

The twins are pains in my wider than it used to be but still pretty nice looking (I think) ass. 🙄

Kiddo is great. He loves school and helps out (as much as he can) after school. ❤️

Hubby is busy but attentive and loving... And patient, because I can be volatile at times. 🤣🥰

Some guys on Lit are assholes, but I'm trying not to let it bother me. 🫤
That's a pretty good update.

I'm glad you like hell you're ass looks, I'm pretty sure Misty would back that up.

I'm glad your husband is supportive, as he should be. And of course you're allowed to be volatile.

And yes there are plenty of guys on here who are assholes, I can see why you spend so much time on those lesbian threads (I might peek from time to time), sorry I got side tracked, what year you are here for you, and not the assholes ❤️
 
That's a pretty good update.

I'm glad you like hell you're ass looks, I'm pretty sure Misty would back that up.
Meh. Misty is in one of her flaky phases recently. She's a great friend when she's present, and a fun FWB 😈. But, she's a stripper, and flaky usually comes with the territory. 🤷‍♀️

Now, Hubby can verify about my ass. Bare handed spanking is one of the only BDSM related activities I crave that he actually likes, and I've gotten more random smacks on my ass recently than I ever have. Maybe it's because it's a bigger target? 😉😁
I'm glad your husband is supportive, as he should be. And of course you're allowed to be volatile.
Oh, it's worse than normal. I can feel it happening but can't stop it sometimes. I try to make it up to him, however. 😈

And yes there are plenty of guys on here who are assholes, I can see why you spend so much time on those lesbian threads (I might peek from time to time), sorry I got side tracked, what year you are here for you, and not the assholes ❤️
Stalker! 🤣🤣🤣

Let's just say that these days I like looking at women more than I like looking at men to whom I'm not married. I still drop in on some BJ threads because, well, I'm a perv, but those kind of all run together at this point and don't really do much for me. I mean, it's kinda like, "Oh look, another porn cock being sucked by someone paid to suck cock..." Meh.
 
Stalker! 🤣🤣🤣

Let's just say that these days I like looking at women more than I like looking at men to whom I'm not married. I still drop in on some BJ threads because, well, I'm a perv, but those kind of all run together at this point and don't really do much for me. I mean, it's kinda like, "Oh look, another porn cock being sucked by someone paid to suck cock... Meh.
You can't blame me, well here's hoping you don't, I use the news feed feature, honestly 🫣.

I've always said women are better at peaking out porn anyway, those ladies usually have a taste for the exceptional. And as for the BJ threads why do I have a feeling you're probably watch those and think (know) you could do it better 🤔
 
You can't blame me, well here's hoping you don't, I use the news feed feature, honestly 🫣.
Oh, I'm watching you now. 😂
I've always said women are better at peaking out porn anyway, those ladies usually have a taste for the exceptional.
Agreed. 😈

And as for the BJ threads why do I have a feeling you're probably watch those and think (know) you could do it better 🤔
Sometimes I think, "wow, how the fuck did she get something that thick in her mouth?" Sometimes I think, "wow, she's just going through the motions." Sometimes I think, "wow, that'd be hot if I didn't know it was all staged." And sometimes I think, "meh, I'd rather look at scantily clad brunette (or blonde or redhead) cuties in cowboy boots and hats and cut off jeans..." Mmmm... 🥰🥰🥰
 
Oh, I'm watching you now. 😂

Agreed. 😈


Sometimes I think, "wow, how the fuck did she get something that thick in her mouth?" Sometimes I think, "wow, she's just going through the motions." Sometimes I think, "wow, that'd be hot if I didn't know it was all staged." And sometimes I think, "meh, I'd rather look at scantily clad brunette (or blonde or redhead) cuties in cowboy boots and hats and cut off jeans..." Mmmm... 🥰🥰🥰
I love how well reasoned and and thought out you are when looking at porn, I'll admit when left to my own devices, my thought process is not nearly as engaged, and by standards are not nearly as high as yours
 
I love how well reasoned and and thought out you are when looking at porn, I'll admit when left to my own devices, my thought process is not nearly as engaged, and by standards are not nearly as high as yours
Sometimes, I also worry the actresses may be doing what they do because they went through shit like I did when younger. That kinda puts a damper on it for me.

So, let's, for example, say I saw a hot gif of a woman being face fucked. My first thought is that it's hot and I wish Hubby was there to do it to me. Then I recall it's probably all choreographed, at least to a degree, and I start to disengage. Once that happens, my thoughts wonder and I worry about what brought her to that point. Sorry. That's probably a downer. But it's my mind for you. Full of twists and turns and dark, shadowy traps. 🤷‍♀️

But a cute, smiling woman with great boobs... I don't think too much with that. ❤️
 
Sometimes, I also worry the actresses may be doing what they do because they went through shit like I did when younger. That kinda puts a damper on it for me.

So, let's, for example, say I saw a hot gif of a woman being face fucked. My first thought is that it's hot and I wish Hubby was there to do it to me. Then I recall it's probably all choreographed, at least to a degree, and I start to disengage. Once that happens, my thoughts wonder and I worry about what brought her to that point. Sorry. That's probably a downer. But it's my mind for you. Full of twists and turns and dark, shadowy traps. 🤷‍♀️

But a cute, smiling woman with great boobs... I don't think too much with that. ❤️
That's not a downer at all, it's probably more common than anyone wants to admit, and yeah it's good to have empathy.

And you are right it is a lot easier to admire beautiful woman, it seems like there's less likely to be any pressure to be in that state
 
I don't have much of an update.

The twins are pains in my wider than it used to be but still pretty nice looking (I think) ass. 🙄

Kiddo is great. He loves school and helps out (as much as he can) after school. ❤️

Hubby is busy but attentive and loving... And patient, because I can be volatile at times. 🤣🥰

Some guys on Lit are assholes, but I'm trying not to let it bother me. 🫤
Glad you are doing well.

I hope you enjoy the ass slaps while they last. 😁
 
So, let's, for example, say I saw a hot gif of a woman being face fucked. My first thought is that it's hot and I wish Hubby was there to do it to me. Then I recall it's probably all choreographed, at least to a degree, and I start to disengage. Once that happens, my thoughts wonder and I worry about what brought her to that point. Sorry. That's probably a downer. But it's my mind for you. Full of twists and turns and dark, shadowy traps...
You know, something similar happens to me. I sort of learned that transactional sexual entertainment really doesn't do anything for me. I don't mind seeing pictures of hot bodies, etc., but seeing people in staged photos and videos just doesn't work for me. Same with strip clubs, etc. Sure, I don't mind seeing beautiful women on stage. But it's just not something I'd go out of my way for.

I want there to be legitimate interest and pleasure by the people involved. I think that's why amateur stuff works better for me. There is something that seems more genuine about a lot more of it.

Maybe I'm weird...
 
So, this is weird. I received a wedding invitation today from my ex-girlfriend. I didn't know she was engaged, but then again she hasn't kept in touch with either me or Misty, so I guess that's not really surprising. She is marrying a guy, which I kind of expected as she had been dating guys after she ended things with Misty (who she dated during and after me).

What's weird is her inviting Hubby and me since she had a threesome with us. I mean, doesn't it seem odd to invite us, especially since we have not kept in touch. I did not invite anyone I'd previously fucked to my wedding because, well... It's weird, right? 🤷‍♀️

I don't know if she's invited Misty. I texted her (Misty) to find out and haven't heard back yet.
 
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So, this is weird. I received a wedding invitation today from my ex-girlfriend. I didn't know she was engaged, but then again she hasn't kept in touch with either me or Misty, so I guess that's not really surprising. She is marrying a guy, which I kind of expected as she had been dating guys after she ended things with Misty (who she dated during and after me).

What's weird is her inviting Hubby and me since she had a threesome with us. I mean, doesn't it seem odd to invite us, especially since we have not kept in touch. I did not invite anyone I'd previously fucked to my wedding because, well... It's weird, right? 🤷‍♀️

I don't know if she's invited Misty. I texted ger (Misty) to find out and haven't heard back yet.
Maybe she's hoping for a fun honeymoon? 😇
 
Oh, I doubt that.

But to add to the weirdness, she asked Misty to be a bridesmaid. Do you all think that's weird, or is it just me? Maybe it's a generation thing. If so, does that mean I've reached the age where I look at what the 'kids do now days' and shake my head? 😳😢
That does seem weird unless she and Misty have stayed in touch. Or if she realized she has no other female friends. Might have been eye opening for her and maybe she is trying to reconcile.
 
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