Let's Talk About... Kink Shaming

[Wild_Honey_66]

This guy makes me look like Dark Simian!

That's a woman.

 

[CleverCowardice]

Fat slobs are always gross.

Oh, I don't know. I've been told my chubby arms look incredibly sexy as they flex with the strain of lifting the sweaty, bloated, corpulent mass of my hairy belly and droopy mantits in order to let the woman get down in there to push away the folds of groin fat so she can unearth and suck my little dick. Although, they might've just been saying that because they wanted to get laid.
You never can trust bitches, especially when they're ravenous for a mouthful of man-chub.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

I was the subject of a ‘Dear lister’ once, and essentially called out as a kinkshamer.

Barefootgirl took exception to something I wrote. I know it was aimed at me, after my intervention I went back to my London thread and mentioned my hijacking of a thread. That was referenced...

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=90361222&postcount=59

The thread I took exception to was a man looking for a woman to role play his teenage daughter (or step daughter I forget which). Not an imaginary one.. his actual kid who presumably sleeps under his roof. I thought that was some sick shit then. I think it’s some sick shit now. I think it’s a worryingly small leap from acting that out with a random little on the web and committing the act in real life.

Barefootgirl was less bothered about a potential kiddie fiddler using her kink to hide behind than she was someone like me calling them out on it. I was a kinkshamer.

She also took exception when I first sparred with glbock because she’d had interactions with him and he seemed fine and why was I constantly causing trouble.

He’s just had content pulled for essentially writing a kiddie fiddlers manifesto in which he assets some kids are lucky to be sexually abused because they want it.

I’m not saying they are linked but the man likes littles and where were they when he was spouting such drivel? Mother fucking silent. It was pulled because of me as were two other threads of underage content that had been going for years without a single lit’er reporting them.

I don’t have an issue with all little’s, I think Moochie is fabulous- she is a rare unicorn in litland in that she is the little willing and able to call the kiddie fiddlers out because she is a confident, strong, kickass woman but any little out there more bothered by the kindshamers than the paedophiles using their kink as a cover need to examine their conscience.

Its your kink bitches, police it yourselves - if you don’t call the sinister fuckers out, I will, and if that makes me a kinkshamer so be it. I’d rather be a kinkshamer than a spineless cunt turning a blind eye to such heinous behaviour.

I know I’ll get shit for writing this. I know barefootgirl has princess status on these boards and a whole load of equally spineless fuckers will come to her defence. Go ahead. Send your daddies. I can tell you now, they aren’t up to the task. There’s a reason they like compliant little girls.

I’ve been silent too fucking long and you do not get to throw the term kinkshamer around as a way to stifle debate or protect paedophiles... and if you try I will fucking come for you... and I won’t do in it a passive aggressive no names Dear Lister sort of way...

Side note - apologies to honey but you asked about about kinkshaming and I’m tired... so fucking tired... of the worst of humanity hiding behind it. And since I’ve been called a kinkshamer on more than one occasion, I think my thoughts on it are relevant...

 

[barefootgirl69]

I was the subject of a ‘Dear lister’ once, and essentially called out as a kinkshamer.

Barefootgirl took exception to something I wrote. I know it was aimed at me, after my intervention I went back to my London thread and mentioned my hijacking of a thread. That was referenced...

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=90361222&postcount=59

The thread I took exception to was a man looking for a woman to role play his teenage daughter (or step daughter I forget which). Not an imaginary one.. his actual kid who presumably sleeps under his roof. I thought that was some sick shit then. I think it’s some sick shit now. I think it’s a worryingly small leap from acting that out with a random little on the web and committing the act in real life.

Barefootgirl was less bothered about a potential kiddie fiddler using her kink to hide behind than she was someone like me calling them out on it. I was a kinkshamer.

She also took exception when I first sparred with glbock because she’d had interactions with him and he seemed fine and why was I constantly causing trouble.

He’s just had content pulled for essentially writing a kiddie fiddlers manifesto in which he assets some kids are lucky to be sexually abused because they want it.

I’m not saying they are linked but the man likes littles and where were they when he was spouting such drivel? Mother fucking silent. It was pulled because of me as were two other threads of underage content that had been going for years without a single lit’er reporting them.

I don’t have an issue with all little’s, I think Moochie is fabulous- she is a rare unicorn in litland in that she is the little willing and able to call the kiddie fiddlers out because she is a confident, strong, kickass woman but any little out there more bothered by the kindshamers than the paedophiles using their kink as a cover need to examine their conscience.

Its your kink bitches, police it yourselves - if you don’t call the sinister fuckers out, I will, and if that makes me a kinkshamer so be it. I’d rather be a kinkshamer than a spineless cunt turning a blind eye to such heinous behaviour.

I know I’ll get shit for writing this. I know barefootgirl has princess status on these boards and a whole load of equally spineless fuckers will come to her defence. Go ahead. Send your daddies. I can tell you now, they aren’t up to the task. There’s a reason they like compliant little girls.

I’ve been silent too fucking long and you do not get to throw the term kinkshamer around as a way to stifle debate or protect paedophiles... and if you try I will fucking come for you... and I won’t do in it a passive aggressive no names Dear Lister sort of way...

Side note - apologies to honey but you asked about about kinkshaming and I’m tired... so fucking tired... of the worst of humanity hiding behind it. And since I’ve been called a kinkshamer on more than one occasion, I think my thoughts on it are relevant...

I'm not here to argue, but I'm not going to stand idle. This will be my only post to you about it. It will be all I need because your posts will show who your are, just as mine do.

I stand by what I wrote in DL. I would write it again. I've said what I've written there to others such as IcePrincess12 for mocking a personal where a guy wanted to talk to someone with big tits. That's his thing, his business...and he was embarrassed and left LIT. That's not right.

My DL speaks for itself. Must have hit a nerve since you're still dwelling on it and keep bringing it up.

I can actually read personals that I don't like and move on without having to comment on everyone's roleplay desires or go off on someone because I don't like what he said months ago. It's called balance.

There are plenty of kinks I'm not into on Lit, I avoid them. I currate my experience here on Lit. If I don't like someone, I don't open their thread...then I don't get butt hurt when I see something I don't like. It's really simple. You don't need to police everyone on Lit. It's not your job, and you won't have fun.

Lastly, I'm glad you came back to your AmPics. You seem happy there. My advice for your best Lit experience is to only go to threads that make you happy.

Tchüss

 

[Lord Pmann]

There is something really important here

I've said what I've written there to others such as IcePrincess12 for mocking a personal where a guy wanted to talk to someone with big tits.

Whoa. A guy looking for big tits. That’s some kinky shit.

This is the kind of kink shaming for which I will not stand. How big were the tits he sought? I suddenly feel like I could be shamed for liking big boobs. Will they come after my naked woman fetish next!?

 

[DarkSimian]

This guy makes me look like Dark Simian!

*peeks down from my attic and glares*

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

https://media0.giphy.com/media/gSRkSblDEjUuk/source.gif

 

[Lord Pmann]

*peeks down from my attic and glares*

Did you mean peeks up from basement?

 

[DarkSimian]

Did you mean peeks up from basement?

Only trolls live in the basement....

 

[Lord Pmann]

Only trolls live in the basement....

Wrong. Under bridges. They are often shared with goats.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

I'm not here to argue, but I'm not going to stand idle. This will be my only post to you about it. It will be all I need because your posts will show who your are, just as mine do.

I stand by what I wrote in DL. I would write it again. I've said what I've written there to others such as IcePrincess12 for mocking a personal where a guy wanted to talk to someone with big tits. That's his thing, his business...and he was embarrassed and left LIT. That's not right.

My DL speaks for itself. Must have hit a nerve since you're still dwelling on it and keep bringing it up.

I can actually read personals that I don't like and move on without having to comment on everyone's roleplay desires or go off on someone because I don't like what he said months ago. It's called balance.

There are plenty of kinks I'm not into on Lit, I avoid them. I currate my experience here on Lit. If I don't like someone, I don't open their thread...then I don't get butt hurt when I see something I don't like. It's really simple. You don't need to police everyone on Lit. It's not your job, and you won't have fun.

Lastly, I'm glad you came back to your AmPics. You seem happy there. My advice for your best Lit experience is to only go to threads that make you happy.

Tchüss

And that is the problem. You walk on by. Once more - why are the little lovers who stray into underage territory not being shut down by the littles if, as you constantly claim, it has nothing with paedophilic tendencies. Why the fuck are walking on by? Seriously...

Wanting to fuck your teenage daughter is not a healthy kink. But you not only shrug your shoulders and walk on by, but you actively criticise people that intervene - thus actually emboldening those fuckers further. Normalising that shit in their twisted fucking brains...

While it falls to me to shut those cunts down because the littles aren’t capable of it themselves, I’ll remain critical of the kink as a whole.

I’ll repeat my earlier sentiment.

While certain littles are more bothered by kink shaming than paedophiles hiding behind their kink, then Houston we have a big fucking problem...

 

[Lord Pmann]

Can we all agree the term “littles” is giggle worthy?

 

[Leigh81]

I don't kink shame, but then again drinking piss, eating shit, having sex with an animal, having sex with your biological mother, father, brother, sister, grand parents, aunts/uncles....... that's not kink shaming, that's just plain fucked up.

 

[SoulAssasin247]

I was the subject of a ‘Dear lister’ once, and essentially called out as a kinkshamer.

Barefootgirl took exception to something I wrote. I know it was aimed at me, after my intervention I went back to my London thread and mentioned my hijacking of a thread. That was referenced...

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=90361222&postcount=59

The thread I took exception to was a man looking for a woman to role play his teenage daughter (or step daughter I forget which). Not an imaginary one.. his actual kid who presumably sleeps under his roof. I thought that was some sick shit then. I think it’s some sick shit now. I think it’s a worryingly small leap from acting that out with a random little on the web and committing the act in real life.

Barefootgirl was less bothered about a potential kiddie fiddler using her kink to hide behind than she was someone like me calling them out on it. I was a kinkshamer.

She also took exception when I first sparred with glbock because she’d had interactions with him and he seemed fine and why was I constantly causing trouble.

He’s just had content pulled for essentially writing a kiddie fiddlers manifesto in which he assets some kids are lucky to be sexually abused because they want it.

I’m not saying they are linked but the man likes littles and where were they when he was spouting such drivel? Mother fucking silent. It was pulled because of me as were two other threads of underage content that had been going for years without a single lit’er reporting them.

I don’t have an issue with all little’s, I think Moochie is fabulous- she is a rare unicorn in litland in that she is the little willing and able to call the kiddie fiddlers out because she is a confident, strong, kickass woman but any little out there more bothered by the kindshamers than the paedophiles using their kink as a cover need to examine their conscience.

Its your kink bitches, police it yourselves - if you don’t call the sinister fuckers out, I will, and if that makes me a kinkshamer so be it. I’d rather be a kinkshamer than a spineless cunt turning a blind eye to such heinous behaviour.

I know I’ll get shit for writing this. I know barefootgirl has princess status on these boards and a whole load of equally spineless fuckers will come to her defence. Go ahead. Send your daddies. I can tell you now, they aren’t up to the task. There’s a reason they like compliant little girls.

I’ve been silent too fucking long and you do not get to throw the term kinkshamer around as a way to stifle debate or protect paedophiles... and if you try I will fucking come for you... and I won’t do in it a passive aggressive no names Dear Lister sort of way...

Side note - apologies to honey but you asked about about kinkshaming and I’m tired... so fucking tired... of the worst of humanity hiding behind it. And since I’ve been called a kinkshamer on more than one occasion, I think my thoughts on it are relevant...

Their Kink is false, most haven't actually lived the kink. Some roleplay online or experiment a little, but haven't actually lived the lifestyle. I know people post as if their experts, but that narrative is false. Seems like a kink becomes mainstream, all of a sudden everyone is a Little and Dom.



It is leaning on pedophilia, when you're dressing your woman up in pampers, little girl dresses, pacifiers etc etc. The examples you gave goes far beyond that and is wrong to me. Like a gateway drug, escalating until you finally have the opportunity.

Most will be surprised, how many in their family were sexually abused as a child. It's a real thing happening everywhere.


People will betray their own moral beliefs and more, just to feel apart of something and be in good standing with that group.

 

[AbsintheFather]

Surprise! I figured, why the hell not? Let's talk about this shit.

*When and where is it okay to kink shame?
*When and where is it just bad form?
*Does it matter what the kink is? Or who you're shaming?
*How does it affect you personally? Your friend group? Your kink community (whether that is Lit, Fet, or wherever you're involved)
*Why not kink shame? Seriously, what's the problem with it? Man, y'all are a bunch of thin-skinned pussies ( )

Add your own questions. Go wild and let's discuss.


**Inspired by Pmann, with thanks for sparking the discussion, even if unintentionally.

Lit's a liberal place. There are a lot of things discussed and done here that are not generally acceptable in society. That's why we're here. To try to draw a line of 'acceptability' somewhere along the spectrum of sexual activities discussed here is ridiculous. There are going to be people on either side of that line. Therefore I say live and let live, I will not judge anyone for their kinks. I may not choose to partake or even discuss some of them, but their kinks are their choice.

The only ones here in this community to have the right to draw a line are the site owners who provide these forums for us at no charge. They say "This forum is for posting fun topics/discussion - pretty much anything you want to talk about. As usual, underage/bestiality/etc. is not allowed." Who are any of us to say otherwise?

 

[eatmeslowly75]

There are some kinks I just don't understand. How can one person allow another to expel his or her bodily waste onto his or her body? Even worse is drinking urine or eating feces. This isn't a kink, it's just nasty-ass behavior.

You like a transgender person, so maybe you shouldn't be judging what is nasty?

 

[SassySheDevil]

Lit's a liberal place. There are a lot of things discussed and done here that are not generally acceptable in society. That's why we're here. To try to draw a line of 'acceptability' somewhere along the spectrum of sexual activities discussed here is ridiculous. There are going to be people on either side of that line. Therefore I say live and let live, I will not judge anyone for their kinks. I may not choose to partake or even discuss some of them, but their kinks are their choice.

The only ones here in this community to have the right to draw a line are the site owners who provide these forums for us at no charge. They say "This forum is for posting fun topics/discussion - pretty much anything you want to talk about. As usual, underage/bestiality/etc. is not allowed." Who are any of us to say otherwise?

Best answer.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Yay! Discussion!!

You pervs are the best!

 

[AbsintheFather]

Best answer.

Thank you, Sweetheart

 

[UgliestSon]

The only Kinks I fucking need. Weirdos and your stretched jeans.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mrmQB38aT5U

 

[CleverCowardice]

I don't care if you want to slather your crack with peanut butter and have your dog lick you clean, find a woman to wear your dead grandmother's clothes and call you 'grandson' while you fuck her armpit, pay someone to grind a stiletto heel into your scrotum until you rupture a testicle, or dress up like a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle and have a group of Guatemalan transvestites spray you down with Cheez Whiz. Unless you're my partner, your kinks are none of my fucking business. That said, once you put your kinks out there in a public forum, all bets are off. You've opted to open yourself up to public scrutiny, judgment, and, yes, even potential shaming. If that bothers you, if you can't handle someone attacking you for your kinks, then maybe keep that shit to yourself, only sharing with your lovers, potential lovers, and like-minded people in a safe space. And, newsflash, assholes, the internet - the place where, not only does everyone have an opinion, but they feel obligated to force it upon you whether the fuck you want to hear it or not - is not a safe space.

 

[catherinewheel77]

https://media.giphy.com/media/RvZZzJFxZlrfG/giphy.gif

 

[alwaysaway]

I don't care if you want to slather your crack with peanut butter and have your dog lick you clean, find a woman to wear your dead grandmother's clothes and call you 'grandson' while you fuck her armpit, pay someone to grind a stiletto heel into your scrotum until you rupture a testicle, or dress up like a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle and have a group of Guatemalan transvestites spray you down with Cheez Whiz. Unless you're my partner, your kinks are none of my fucking business. That said, once you put your kinks out there in a public forum, all bets are off. You've opted to open yourself up to public scrutiny, judgment, and, yes, even potential shaming. If that bothers you, if you can't handle someone attacking you for your kinks, then maybe keep that shit to yourself, only sharing with your lovers, potential lovers, and like-minded people in a safe space. And, newsflash, assholes, the internet - the place where, not only does everyone have an opinion, but they feel obligated to force it upon you whether the fuck you want to hear it or not - is not a safe space.

https://media0.giphy.com/media/1pofg0cTz5mak/source.gif

 

[CleverCowardice]

I feel obligated to tell you that I’m googling Cheez Whiz right now.

The stuff is vile. You should give me your address so I can send you some. You know, as payback for every Australian that's ever sent an American Vegemite.

 

[Jada59]

I don't understand shaming. I think it's something that's done by people with low self esteem.

There are kinks I don't understand or that creep me out. I just don't do those things.