Holy cow that's brilliant! If only I'd known back then...before over 20 years of marriage, the latter half FLR. (happily so)The first will kiss you because she wants kissed and the second will tell you to kiss her because she wants kissed.
The first time I tried to kiss her on the lips, she dodged it and I just got a cheek! Being a silly gentleman, I didn't try again until I was sure. Guess what happened with that a week or so later? "Aren't you going to kiss me now?" she says. Totally played me!
Our first few sex acts were naturally, me eating her delicious pussy. But pretty soon her sucking and swallowing my essence and PIV followed. Nearly every sex act we do is me doing what she wants because pleasing her is what gets me off. Ain't she brilliant? It's all good, and I'm always hungry for more!
She's "gently Femdom". She has SO much more power than she exercises.