Let's say that you're designing the perfect mate for yourself....

[FlamingoBlue]

What attributes would he/she have?

blue

 

[Moridin187]

Intelligence, wit, good conversational skills, a sense of humor relatively similar to mine. Interests in anime, roleplaying (not just the sexual kind, I mean like AD&D). Someone who reads for pleasure, and reads a wide variety of things. A leftist, someone with some form of spiritual beliefs, but someone who wouldn't try to press them on me and who would accept mine. Someone with beautiful eyes, preferrably with dark hair and light skin.

Oh yeah, and they have to be nocturnal so we'll sleep at the same time.

 

[Calamity Jane]

The ideal mate? Hmm...

Good looking (yes, I'm shallow)... broad enough and muscular enough to make me feel small... a love of sex... desire to be adventurous - in and out of bed... willing to camp/kayak/hike with me... understanding of my equine addiction... love my kids... spiritual, whether of a like mind than me or not, i couldn't live with someone with no spirituality... sexy voice, preferably with an accent... well read on a variety of topics... intelligent and witty... strong enough to stand up to me without trying to control me...

 

[Dynamite]

You want the abosolute undying truth?

Just someone who was willing to take me.

 

[VanB]

2 simple things

1) A soul mate
2) Dynamite in bed

What more could you ask for?

 

[Mellon Collie]

Intelligence, wit, good conversational skills, a sense of humor relatively similar to mine. Interests in anime, roleplaying (not just the sexual kind, I mean like AD&D). Someone who reads for pleasure, and reads a wide variety of things. A leftist, someone with some form of spiritual beliefs, but someone who wouldn't try to press them on me and who would accept mine. Someone with beautiful eyes, preferrably with dark hair and light skin.

Oh yeah, and they have to be nocturnal so we'll sleep at the same time.

Moridin made this way too easy for me

Ditto everything; minus anime and role-playing.

Put sense of humor first as that is the most important to me and I wouldn't say "good conversational skills", it makes the sentence awkward.



Oh and I would say a smoker or someone who won't complain because I am.


Edited to throw in the smoker comment

 

[Angelofsex]

The perfect mate for me.........

Blond hair, blue eyes, 6' to 6'5". built like a god, could talk a good conversation, get along with people, no anger in his body but all love. Would make me happy and give me what I want everyday of my life. What a dream!

 

[LukkyKnight]

I was going to say "Just like angelofsex"

But instead let me reach up there and simply cross myself off her list, then slink off into a corner to mope.

 

[Summery]

The ideal mate? Hmm...

Good looking (yes, I'm shallow)... broad enough and muscular enough to make me feel small... a love of sex... desire to be adventurous - in and out of bed... willing to camp/kayak/hike with me... understanding of my equine addiction... love my kids... spiritual, whether of a like mind than me or not, i couldn't live with someone with no spirituality... sexy voice, preferably with an accent... well read on a variety of topics... intelligent and witty... strong enough to stand up to me without trying to control me...

And, if you ever find this man.......would you mind asking if he has a twin brother with all the same traits?

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

What attributes would he/she have?

1) Honesty and integrity.
2) An upbeat personality.
3) Self-confidence born of experience and self-esteem.
4) Intelligence and wisdom (not necessarily the same thing) - along with the ability to communicate well.
5) A strong attraction to me.
6) A strong understanding of who I am, including the ability/willingness to get to know me and the patience to not be judgemental until she does truly know me.
7) Patience, love, kindness.
8) A somewhat kinky nature, occasional submissive desires during sexual role play, enjoys deepthroating, anal and light bondage.
9) Is physically attractive.

 

[Elizabeth]

Intelligence, sense of humor, adventerous (sexually and otherwise), kind, witty and at least like some or most of what I like. Dark hair, tall, muscular but on the chunky side is fine, hairy chest, big hands. Someone who would not try to control me. Someone flexible, understanding and kind.

 

[juicylips]

What attributes would he/she have?

blue

This is a pretend mate, right??? Ok...

He would let me be independent.
Not possessive.
Find me impossibly attractive and sexy.

Looks? No specific coloring, although I do lean toward tall, dark and athletic. Cock doesn't need to be huge, but...would prefer he know how to use it..very well. I would get to cum first..everytime

Cassidy

 

[Calamity Jane]

And, if you ever find this man.......would you mind asking if he has a twin brother with all the same traits?

NP darlin! I'll let ya know.

 

[Rick DeVille]

A Woman!!!

Friend and lover but know how to laugh, really laugh

 

[fallon2]

Someday

Someday I hope to find the woman who not only wants to please me in every way . . . but has a sense of humor in and out of the bedroom!

 

[xzchief]

What attributes would he/she have?

blue

If you want to know my Ms. Right, look at my avatars.

 

[SweetCherry]

My perfect mate, huh? Well, I can do that in one word.

Draco.

 

[Draco]

My perfect mate...hell...thats easy.
They designed her as a proto-type...then they realised she was just too damn special for mass consumption. So they destroyed the mould. I got lucky that day and found her. 18 months later on, we're stronger than ever. And we still haven't met face to face. We could more than likely live out our days in Lit and ICQ and Paltalk (not that i want too) and we would keep growing.

She is my one and only and I love her so much. More than life itself. I dont even need to tell her name...those that matter here know it already.

 

[JaymesBlond007]

Well I'll have to start off with being very pretty, (I got your back PCG), very pettite, red hair, sky-blue eyes, with milky-white skin. Would very much like her to be musically inclined but would settle for artistically creative, loves the water, loves to spoon...yeah, has an insatiable appitite for sex, can pound a beer in under 2 seconds but also enjoys a nice glass of Glenlivet on the rocks. (whooo, I'm gettin' a chubbie here...). Has no desire to be the center of attention, the ability to incorporate Asimov, Poe, Dostoevski, and T.S. Eliott into one conversation, and loves Beethoven, Strauss, Bach, Mozart, Gershwin,Tchaikovsky, Sublime, Tool, Depeche Mode, and the Cure. (I'm not getting out of line here, am I?) HAS to love to travel. I'm talkin' everywhere. All over Eroupe, Russia, Africa, South America, Japan, China, Thailand, and yes even, parts of Australia and New Zealand. (heard there were some pretty cool people there.) Other than that I'm really not too picky...

Any takers? Ladies?.......where'd everybody go?

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Hmmm

I wonder how much time I have to share with you here.

She'd be smart, and sexy.


hehehe, now for the long version.

She would be able to hold an intelegent conversation on many topics. Have a sense of humour that is dry and sharp. Hold strong, well informed opinions, and an open mind. Be ambitious.

She has a soft and beautiful face. Full lips and a small nose. Naturally thin and gently arched eyebrows. Delicate and sensitive ears. She has auburn hair with a wave in it, and typically keeps it just below shoulder length.

She's about 5'6" and has curves. Fit, but not ripped with muscle. Small but shapely breasts and an arse like two billiard balls in a bag.

She likes to hike, to read, to make love, and to fuck. She is adventurous and enthusiastic. She is affectionate, but not clingy.

 

[Countess DeWinter]

*a good sense of humor
*intelligence
*spirituality MATCHING mine - it works so much better that way, if you're honest
*a drive to make something of himself
*a love of children
*a love of humanity and a sense of justice
*a passion to encourage me - even push me - to be all I can be
*not afraid to die


Beyond that, my perfect mate looks disturbingly like the one I've already got!

 

[tulip2lipservice]

So many different things we aspire for...

Physical Features in a man about 6 foot and not scrawny. He would have blue or light eyes. Something about him is appealing to me and we never understand why we are attracted to some and not others.

Emotional Features: Somebody who does not play mind games. He does not need to be in total control of the situation and needs to control me. He is comfortable and secure with who he is. He will understand my insecurities and accept them. He is a one on one type of man and does not need to seek else where. (monogomous) Trust. He is financially secure also. My best friend.

Personality Features: He will be able to dance with me after making love as an expression of that love. He has a similiar sense of humor as me. Intelligent, hard worker, wants children and sees the value of experience in having them. He can take care of himself but will allow me to take care of him at the same time and vice versa. Adventurous and willing to experiment with new things such as travel, sports, food, etc. I will be able to motivate him as he will with me in challenging each other in a healthy fashion to improve.

Sprituality Features: A Christian belief. Basically all religions preach love. Not sure if he has to be a practising religion but the fondation is there. A sense of morals and honor. He stands by his promises.

Sexuality Features: I would not say hung like a horse that would be too painful. However one of a nice size and girth. He would be open to experiment but would be monogomous. He understands my sexuality and my inner fantasies and would like to explore them with me Open to hear what I desire and holds no judgement. Comfortable enough to share his fantasies with me. To simply be able to play in the bedroom.

Nationality Feature: Somebody who has a love for America. If not born in USA does not bash my system of belief in this country. Hey, I know what is wrong with USA however the principle it was built upon is pretty amazing. Where else do you have freedom.

Well, I am sure I could continue on with my wish list. Is this how it really works in real life. I do not think so but something about a person you are interested in where you just simply accept who they are. Some things that you think are important turns out not to be. Basically an honest and hard working man would suffice right now.

Relationships are work however I want to obtain the closest thing to unconditional love possible on this earth that I can. To have a relationship where I can dance and laugh with this man for the rest of my life. To be able to make love to him or even fuck him every day. I know long wish list. I suppose that is why I have yet to be married.

Well are you out there?

 

[FlamingoBlue]

You folks sure had some good ideas....

I'll add that my perfect mate must accept me for who I am and not try to change me. (Polishing what you have is one thing but changing one's basic personality is too much).

blue

 

[fallon2]

If this sounds like you have read this before . . .

Definitely a sense of humor, intelligent, brown eyes (*smile) and . . . has a good laugh!