Lesbian & Bi-Sexual Women (Come out)

[Natalie Nessus]

There are posts making a little fun of the coming out It is understandable, hetros never have to do this thing,it is life changing and life threatening, some do not understand, it is an easy joke amongst many who do not understand.

But the lesbians & the bi's are taking the board over a little, I think We are the sneak missiles.

I became a lesbian because of women, because
women are beautiful, strong, and compassionate.

Rita Mae Brown


I am coming out

I am a femme lesbian.

So be it

 

[JenJ]

I'm a bisexual woman though as of late I've decided that I'm more lesbian then bi. I have no desire to be with a man even the one I do love.

 

[RisiaSkye]

You rang?

I'm glad I wasn't the only person slightly...put off...by the hetero "Coming Out" thread.

for the record, hetero-identified femme bisexual Switch. <---- that's me!

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I'm a bi lady who is married to the greatest guy in the world, but the thought of being with another woman 'rocks my socks' for sure....

But being a "married" woman it is hard to walk into a room and pick up another lady and dance arm in arm with her on a dance floor, then embrace in a kiss even if your husband would not mind that happening.......

 

[RisiaSkye]

But being a "married" woman it is hard to walk into a room and pick up another lady and dance arm in arm with her on a dance floor, then embrace in a kiss even if your husband would not mind that happening.......

It's only tough until you've tried it a few times; trust me on this.

 

[Natalie Nessus]

You rang?

I'm glad I wasn't the only person slightly...put off...by the hetero "Coming Out" thread.

Thank you my friend it is easy to joke until you understand but still we laugh It is important to laugh and forgive those who do not understand so easily

 

[Natalie Nessus]

I'm a bi lady who is married to the greatest guy in the world, but the thought of being with another woman 'rocks my socks' for sure....

But being a "married" woman it is hard to walk into a room and pick up another lady and dance arm in arm with her on a dance floor, then embrace in a kiss even if your husband would not mind that happening.......

Do not worry there are ways

 

[RisiaSkye]

Thank you my friend it is easy to joke until you understand but still we laugh It is important to laugh and forgive those who do not understand so easily

Hello, my lovely! Wonderful to see you tonight.

You are completely right that it is important. Sometimes, it is just difficult. Thank you for the reminder. ~ ~

 

[T.H. Oughts]

It's only tough until you've tried it a few times; trust me on this.

It's not actually the act of doing it..... more the throw back my family and husband would get because I am a "married" woman...... that they would think I was being unfaithful to my husband etc.

New Zealand is a small place, NYC is bigger in population than the whole of New Zealand. Maybe I'm to paranoid about it. But I have seen what the media can do in NZ when you are succesful in your feild and known around the country and they have no interesting stories to print that week

Even though we like to think that the whole world excepts different sexual types. It is a lot easier for a single person to be bi and come out, than a married woman......

 

[Natalie Nessus]

I understand but you can not go against yourself for society? This has occured for women so much! We are foprced to conform by society and, to shame, other women.

 

[DustyWolfe]

I'm a lesbian through and through. I just came out to my family and it was the hardest thing that I have ever done in my life. It's really scarey because you don't know how they are going to take it...

 

[Natalie Nessus]

I'm a lesbian through and through. I just came out to my family and it was the hardest thing that I have ever done in my life. It's really scarey because you don't know how they are going to take it...

I understand, and I said to you before I admire you so much, it is brave and strong of you but above it all you are honest, you are you

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I understand but you can not go against yourself for society?

I belive that fate will happen some time. One day my princess will come along

 

[DustyWolfe]

I understand, and I said to you before I admire you so much, it is brave and strong of you but above it all you are honest, you are you

Thanks Nessus I'm just glad that it's something you only have to do once. Well.. I had to do it twice. I called my brother first then my parents.

To all the others that have yet to come out, I give you my strength and hopes that the right words will come to you and that your family and friends will accept it.

Dusty

 

[Natalie Nessus]

Thanks Nessus I'm just glad that it's something you only have to do once. Well.. I had to do it twice. I called my brother first then my parents.

To all the others that have yet to come out, I give you my strength and hopes that the right words will come to you and that your family and friends will accept it.

Dusty

It is a difficult thing but easy to joke off until you do it

 

[T.H. Oughts]

To all the others that have yet to come out, I give you my strength and hopes that the right words will come to you and that your family and friends will accept it.

I actually told two of my female friends a couple of weeks ago of my bi thoughts and they were very ok about it and they have brought it up in general conversation since.

Not that I thought for one minute that they would run a mile once I told them and they knew I was not trying to hit on them. Maybe I am coming closer to coming out to the world?????

 

[Natalie Nessus]

I actually told two of my female friends a couple of weeks ago of my bi thoughts and they were very ok about it and they have brought it up in general conversation since.

Not that I thought for one minute that they would run a mile once I told them and they knew I was not trying to hit on them. Maybe I am coming closer to coming out to the world?????

Cherie, it is not 'hitting' it is connecting

 

[Guest]

 

[Natalie Nessus]

I have nothing but admiration for those that are brave and strong enough to reveal themselves to the world.

Myself? Women fascinate me. Perhaps one day, I will explore that fascination.

Thank you for your support my friend, You are a very sensual being I sense

 

[DustyWolfe]

I actually told two of my female friends a couple of weeks ago of my bi thoughts and they were very ok about it and they have brought it up in general conversation since.

Not that I thought for one minute that they would run a mile once I told them and they knew I was not trying to hit on them. Maybe I am coming closer to coming out to the world?????

It sounds to me like you are getting there hon.

Nessus, it is very easy to joke about it. I can understand why some women get married even if they are lesbians, just to not deal with coming out...

 

[Guest]

 

[Natalie Nessus]

Exactly, connection is everything.

As Starfish said in a post yesterday, love has no gender.

It is the connection which binds.

We can not choose who we love, love choose you

Fools alas see it differently

 

[DustyWolfe]

Love should know no limits or standards. Why can't people see that we love people for who they are. For what is in their hearts?
I hope that someday being a lover of your own sex is as widely accepted as being hetero

 

[Guest]

Well... I'm throwin' my hat into the ring now. I am bisexual. I have been all my life. I was attracted to adult women long before adult men, or any boys or girls my own age. I remember masturbating at a young age to a stack of Penthouses I found that belonged to my father, and my favorite pic was of two women in 69. Anyway, due to my upbringing (mainly my mother) I was lead to believe that being homosexual was "evil", "sick", "wrong", and "a sin". I knew little else of homosexuality, other than it was the sexual attraction for the same gender. So, in a sense, after my best friend and I began playing sexually together, I also forced myself to play sexually with boys. In my mind that meant I "was not gay" and that I "could still" play with my best friend. (I never really developed a crush on a male until several years later.) And, to this day, I adore and lust after men. So, I know there is no way I am or "could be" a lesbian.

 

[Natalie Nessus]

Re: Re: Lesbian & Bi-Sexual Women (Come out)

Well... I'm throwin' my hat into the ring now. I am bisexual. I have been all my life. I was attracted to adult women long before adult men, or any boys or girls my own age. I remember masturbating at a young age to a stack of Penthouses I found that belonged to my father, and my favorite pic was of two women in 69. Anyway, due to my upbringing (mainly my mother) I was lead to believe that being homosexual was "evil", "sick", "wrong", and "a sin". I knew little else of homosexuality, other than it was the sexual attraction for the same gender. So, in a sense, after my best friend and I began playing sexually together, I also forced myself to play sexually with boys. In my mind that meant I "was not gay" and that I "could still" play with my best friend. (I never really developed a crush on a male until several years later.) And, to this day, I adore and lust after men. So, I know there is no way I am or "could be" a lesbian.

Thank you my friend thank you so much