I am getting a lot of requests for updates and more than a few have suggested that I start my own thread. I am nervous about doing this, but I will give it a try. I hope I am posting this in the right forum, and for those who are wondering, "Who's Leahaven?" Here is some backstory. I will also cut and paste some past posts of mine to help people understand what is going on. And once again, I want to say "thank you" to those who have provided advice. You already know that my marriage would still be in the dysfunctional zone if it were not for you.
My name is Leah. I am 28 years old, and Robbie (not his real name) and I have been married for about 3 years. I joined Lit on Sep 26, 2023. I had been lurking in the forums for a few months by then, reading about sexual things I never could have imagined. Robbie and I are from a rural, sparsely-populated county, and both of us have very, very conservative parents. We met in the 6th grade, and we have been best friends ever since, mostly because our parents are so similar. We were always taught that sex was sinful, and so we avoided it and everything about it. Then we got married. Suffice it to say, our sex life was clumsy, to put it mildly. Over time, it made our relationship so awkward that I began to wonder if we should even be married. Then, by pure chance, I found Literotica, and I began to read posts describing things that sounded just like Robbie. I was like, "WTF? Other guys do this?"
At this point, everything has changed. I will cut and paste some of my past comments, so you know where we are now, and then I will continue to update this thread as often as possible.
I hope it is ok if I do this. Someone please tell me if I am "out of bounds" or something.
My name is Leah. I am 28 years old, and Robbie (not his real name) and I have been married for about 3 years. I joined Lit on Sep 26, 2023. I had been lurking in the forums for a few months by then, reading about sexual things I never could have imagined. Robbie and I are from a rural, sparsely-populated county, and both of us have very, very conservative parents. We met in the 6th grade, and we have been best friends ever since, mostly because our parents are so similar. We were always taught that sex was sinful, and so we avoided it and everything about it. Then we got married. Suffice it to say, our sex life was clumsy, to put it mildly. Over time, it made our relationship so awkward that I began to wonder if we should even be married. Then, by pure chance, I found Literotica, and I began to read posts describing things that sounded just like Robbie. I was like, "WTF? Other guys do this?"
At this point, everything has changed. I will cut and paste some of my past comments, so you know where we are now, and then I will continue to update this thread as often as possible.
I hope it is ok if I do this. Someone please tell me if I am "out of bounds" or something.