I get aroused listening to my roommate and her boyfriend having sex. Am I weird?

[neon_noodle]

If they did, she never told me, the same as I never told her I heard them.

Cool. Hope you came hard.

It's always a nice bonus when you're by yourself in a hotel, jacking off, and then you hear a couple in the next room fucking away.

 

[LostHorizon]

Our rooms are upstairs and late at night when my friend has her boyfriend over, I can hear them having sex, especially my friend's moaning.

They are not overly loud and I don't think they know I can hear them. However, my question is… is it normal that I get aroused while listening to them?

I get turned on and then I feel weird and almost like a creeper. That's my best friend and her boyfriend, I shouldn't be getting aroused at the fact they are having sex.

There is nothing wrong at all listening in and getting aroused. That happened all the time with my roommates in college among other places

 

[neon_noodle]

When I was in college, my fiance at the time(now my wife) would have sex in her dorm room, except it was only one room with one other bed. We thought we were being sneaky, and I always imagined her roommate hearing us, getting turned on, and then joining us. But, that is not how she felt. It turns out she did hear us, did not enjoy hearing us, and asked my fiance to stop having me over at night.

Ahh the fantasy is always better than the reality!

Fantasy - she wanted my cock too!

Reality - she wanted me to shut up

Hope it turned you on while fucking your wife and made you cum hard.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Woohoo! Confirmation bias rules!

Also sex sounds are hot.

 

[Jordanjack]

No, you're not weird. It's incredibly erotic to hear people have sex.

 

[Bottomlover]

Getting turned on by what you hear and pleasuring yourself if you want in your own space is entirely within bounds. Anything beyond that requires a specific invitation. They might know that you hear, but sometimes lust defeats caring about that. Knowing someone can hear may also turn them on more.

Either way, if you hear them and are turned on, deal with it privately and leave them be. Remember, the day may come where you're the one having insanely great unhibited sex while a room mate isn't.

If they bring it up in conversation, only you can evaluate the way it's presented.

 

[cdstefi]

Reminds me of two hotel experiences with two different women...

First was a sneaky weekend away, we'd been to Camden Town and stayed at some big place near Heathrow, Holiday Inn or similar. We were fucking on a slightly noisy bed, and mid-session we could hear another bed creaking next door. We stopped, it stopped. We started again and turned up the moans a bit, and heard the next door bed louder but no human noises. A couple more stops and starts with the same, then we just went for it hard and deliberately loud with plenty of moans and pants and because whatever it was it was turning us both on. I always imagine it was a businessman wanking and bouncing about while he listened to us fuck.

The other was the polar opposite. I was in bed in the early morning and awake with wood as usual, and heard a couple next door, or a woman moaning to be more exact, sounded like she was getting some good foreplay. I nudged my sleeping partner awake and suggested we join in, to help turn the neighbours on even more. No dice, this one wasn't an early riser and just wanted to kip till breakfast so I had to be content with a nice thorough wank while the sounds next door got louder; credit to the neighbour, she was a very sexy moaner. That hotel had really old creaky furniture so I got the full soundtrack once they started fucking harder and managed to hold off cumming to synchronise with their climax, which was still pretty satisfying.

 

[LeaHaven]

For the first 18 months of our marriage, my husband and I lived in an apartment. The bedroom on the opposite side of the back wall of our bedroom belonged to a 26-year-old girl named Julie. She was single, and she had a different guy over like every month. Some were one night stands, others would stay for a few days, a few guys were apparently fwb's, but when they had sex, we could hear it through the wall. With many of the guys it was hard, vigorous thrusting, and we could hear the bed squeak, the headboard "smack, smack, smack" against the wall, and Julie crying out, "Oh! Oh! Oh!." it was not unusual for this to go on twice in a night. Sometimes it would wake us up at like 3:00 AM, and the sex would go on for a good long while.

I could tell it always embarrassed my husband, because our sex was always calm and very, very brief. I am sure he knew that while we were lying there listening to Julie get fucked into the next day, I was so wishing I was her. Several times, Julie had two guys at the same time. Hearing that made me so aroused my hands were trembling. My husband talked about her being a slut, but I was so envious!

I met her in the complex laundromat one day, and after that, we would stop and talk anytime we saw each other. I always wanted to ask her how she managed to meet all the guys, but of course I didn't. She was kind of shy and quiet, just the opposite of what I expected. When we moved out of the complex, I lost touch with her. Now I regret that.

 

[YourSecretDesires]

Our rooms are upstairs and late at night when my friend has her boyfriend over, I can hear them having sex, especially my friend's moaning.

They are not overly loud and I don't think they know I can hear them. However, my question is… is it normal that I get aroused while listening to them?

I get turned on and then I feel weird and almost like a creeper. That's my best friend and her boyfriend, I shouldn't be getting aroused at the fact they are having sex.

Nothing weird about it. I'll bet the boyfriend wants you to hear it.

I remember a girl I dated, her roommate was in the next room. We were very loud. I never met the roommate unfortunately (it was a quick fling). Not even when I'd walk to the bathroom naked.

 

[Playwithmee]

I always get turned on listening to others having sex, in the same residence or through a hotel wall. Always gets me hot.