Ladies ... when it is that special time of month ...

[Isabella Thorne]

.. do you still have sex? vaginal intercourse? oral sex performed on you?

Men ... does it bother you to have intercourse with a woman when she is menstruating? Would you perform oral sex on her?

i hope this isn't too gross a question for you ... i often wonder what other people do and i haven't read about it here in lit yet ... if someone else brought up this question before then ... sorry ...

personally i never used to have intercourse when i had my period before, but now i do - but not when it is really heavy ... only with light flow and then i put a towel underneath me ...

as for oral sex, i prefer to leave a tampon in and have my lover lick / suck lightly my clit .... and wowwwwwww i can cum really hard that way ...

geez i can't believe i just said that ...

and again i hope i didn't gross you out too much ...

 

[Cath!]

actually, Issy...you should talk to Drive South...this question has also interested him.

 

[Merelan]

I've had sex during my period, not when heavy. Was too self conscious to ejoy though, and often to tender.
As for oral? Hell, I barely get it when I am not having my period, much less then. Besides, I know I couldn't relax enough. I do know that, for me, and others I have spoken to, an orgasm when cramping helps ease them a bit.

Guess it's different for each person.

 

[plasticman33]

.. do you still have sex? vaginal intercourse? oral sex performed on you?

Men ... does it bother you to have intercourse with a woman when she is menstruating? Would you perform oral sex on her?

i hope this isn't too gross a question for you ... i often wonder what other people do and i haven't read about it here in lit yet ... if someone else brought up this question before then ... sorry ...

personally i never used to have intercourse when i had my period before, but now i do - but not when it is really heavy ... only with light flow and then i put a towel underneath me ...

as for oral sex, i prefer to leave a tampon in and have my lover lick / suck lightly my clit .... and wowwwwwww i can cum really hard that way ...

geez i can't believe i just said that ...

and again i hope i didn't gross you out too much ...

Nope, doesn't bother me at all, it's just another bodily fluid.

(You might end up with a clown smile though)

 

[VanB]

Just depends how heavy it is.

Like you say oral sex with a tampon in is not a problem. Heavy flow, I would say no to intercourse - purely from a "not making a hell of a mess" point of view

But like plasticman said it's just another bodily fluid

 

[lobito]

when it's "that time" I don't get any. Plain and simple. I TRY to find other ways to deal with it. Have you been talking to my wife? because THAT time is now.

 

[DéjàNu]

Period dont stop us and when it is a big flow then we play in the shower.
I would never let my men lick me down there when I have my period... ok with a tampon with a light flow but without anything... gross.... the taste must be very awful if compare to the smell..

DéjàNu

 

[Andreina]

sometimes im seriously randy when im on my period, sometimes the only thing im interested in is chocolate and "The New Adventures of Superman".... it really depends.

if im in the randy phase i still usually dont have sex during heavy flow, my ex and i did a lot backdoor action then.... i wasnt too keen oral either, simply because i felt a bit stupid.

 

[Lili]

I was wondering about this last week, as I was on my period and not getting any.

My ex would go down on me (with a tampon in, like someone said), and he'd also fuck me if I wanted. It didn't bother him a bit.

With my current bf, he'll touch me, but won't do anything else. He claims the blood gives him a rash, even if he washes right away. (Not just mine, but any woman's, apparently.)

I'm always completely horny on my period, so it's especially annoying to have to go without.

Lili

 

[estevie]

Re: Just depends how heavy it is.

Heavy flow, I would say no to intercourse - purely from a "not making a hell of a mess" point of view

I agree.

That's why I do it in the shower!

 

[fallon2]

YES!

Yes it would definitely bother me and I have no good reason for it. But for the rest of you . . .enjoy!

 

[Aphrodisiac]

.. do you still have sex? vaginal intercourse? oral sex performed on you?

...

I still have vaginal intercourse when I am on my period. At first I did not want to because my man mention that it made him feel a little icky so I did not mention it ... but then I was on my period and he wanted to have sex .. I told him we did not have to ... but he insisted & he realized it was not "icky".
At the start I felt a little shy about the whole thing because of my period & what not but then after that time .. its fine with us.

 

[Silverluna]

bloody horny?!

Umm.. am I the only female that gets real real horny during her period? I mean...sheesh...maybe it's cause people tend to think that sex while menstrating is a "no-no"?
As to the main question:
I wouldn't mind my mate licking me....while i was wearing a tampon....as long as he felt ok with it. Being comfortable with your mate in any situation seems like the only way to handle life.

 

[freakygirl]

I swear to god.. there is some sort of power of suggestion on this board..

I was fine.. I read the board this morning.. I go about my business... and then I start my damn period...

STOP POSTING PMS AND PERIOD THREADS PEOPLE!!!

Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez!




Oh, and about sex during my periods.. I have NO interest.. Hubby does.. hell he has interest all the time... I want to have my back massaged... but don't touch me anywhere else.

If I was interested... hell yeah.. i'd do it.. but not oral.. I don't think I would be comfortable with it..

 

[Silverluna]

yeah i agree....

must be a period goddess who curses us...i got it too!!

 

[WhiteRose]

sometimes im seriously randy when im on my period, sometimes the only thing im interested in is chocolate

Chocolate, definitely! As for intercourse, there are only about 1-2 days during my period that I'm just not in the mood. But for the week before and the days after those 1-2 days, I'm always incredible hot and ready. I think it makes me feel ever sexier than usual because I spend more time concentrating on (and being conscious of) my body during that time. I have had both intercourse and oral sex performed on me during that time of the month, and it never bothered the guy, so why would it bother me?

 

[horny_giraffe]

Well, I'm a guy, but I'll say that I have no trouble doing it if she's okay with it.

My previous lover didn't like it for psychological reasons. The periods just made her crabby. But she was often horny when having her period, so she liked it if she otherwise felt okay. She said it also helped a bit with the cramping. It got a little messy, but that's what towels are for. Another nice thing about it was that we didn't have to worry much about contraception.

 

[Wiggles]

I've done it when the flow was very light, or I thought it was over, but it wasn't. It's not too bad, just a little extra lubrication.
It does make me feel a little icky though, and it's only done when it's urgent.

I don't think I'd let anyone go down on me, in any circumstance. Hell, I don't even like to go down there during that time of the month.

 

[Savage Kitten]

I don't think I'd let anyone go down on me, in any circumstance. Hell, I don't even like to go down there during that time of the month.

haha girl.. i couldn't have said it better myself! Mine only lasts abt 3 to 4 days and that is the horniest time of the months for me. But, gawddddddddd, there is no way in hell I'd have sex while I am "on the rag". Talk about a freakin mess. It's so sloppy how can you possibly get any friction going on?? YUKK!


Sk~

 

[daughter]

what's gross

I don't think my fluids are nasty. Only thing that prohibits my activity is desire. Provided I feel physically okay, I'm likely to get aroused and want sex. In fact, once I'm on my cycle, I find I'm quite horny.

As long as my partner isn't squemish about sex during that time, it's as good a time as any.

Peace,

daughter

 

[cymbidia]

I just started today, too - and this is WAY early for me, who is unusually regular.

Wow.
Weird.
We're all cycling together.


That said, i had a Dom once upon a time who was really fixated on the idea of sex during my period. All kinds of sex. You name it, he wanted it *then*. Therefore, i got past any squeamishness i might have felt around the subject before i even knew to be squeamish, i think.

These days, it's never an automatic "no-go" situation for me and always dependant entirely on his views on the subject.

An aside:
I've noticed that men generally become more accepting and tolerant of such normal and natural bodily cycles as they age. What will freak out a 20 year old (OH FUCK! I've got BLOOD on my COCK!) is but a smile to an older man (C'mon, let's go shower this off...).



I'm getting some tomorrow!
I'm getting some tomorrow!
On the rag or not... i'm getting some tomorrow!

And it's gonna be my kinda "getting it", too!
It's been WAY too long, though... i hope i remember what to do.

 

[freakygirl]

I've heard about women and cycles changing.. when living in the same house..

such as a friend of mine that i used to live with.. we were totally opposite cycles.. our boyfriends used to comment on the fact that ONE of us was always having a period.. never any peace in the house..

but within a few months of living in the same house.. we started having the same exact cycle..

Is it possible the same thing happens via the net??

weird.. isn't it..

 

[Desdemona]

It never used to stop me.

Of course, I don't have to worry about it anymore.
No muss, no fuss, I can do it anytime I want.

And no, I don't miss having periods. Yep, feeling pretty smug here.

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Cycle Cyber Vibes ...

... also i think that the longer you are in a relationship with someone ... if you are having sex on a regular basis ... then you become more relax about things like having sex when you have your period ....

but if i have cramps <and that is when the flow is the heaviest as i am sure it is with all women> i hate anyone touching me .... and there is no way i could "get in the mood" ... lol ... no seriously ...

and yes there is a big hurdle to get over being self concious about the messiness / smell, etc. .... cause i still am a wee bit .... although i am getting more relaxed with it lately ....

and also i want to say sometimes when i orgasm during vaginal intercourse when i have my period i start feeling almost cramps .... it is weird ... not horrible in the least really ... but it does put a damper on the orgasm a wee bit ...

Wiggles and Savage .... you mean you wouldn't masturbate with a tampon in? well that wouldn't bother me in the least ... i don't think it ever did ...

and hey that reminds a long time ago ... when Prince Charles' telephone conversation with g/f Camilla was taped, he told her he wished he could be a tampon inside of her ... eeeeeeeewwwwww

Little Devil .... "The New Adventures of Superman" .... ha ha .... i love it ... i really fancy your randy post luv ....

.... and very hot story cymbidia ....

 

[Ree]

I am sure that if my hubby came to this board he would be the first to tell you that there is no way in hell he is coming anywhere close to this body during my cycle. Doesn't have anything to do with the bodily fluids, he just isn't interested in having sex with Linda Blair while pea soup and cuss words are coming out of her mouth. I turn into Satan on crack during my period. Hell, I don't even like me while I am on my period. My husband gets very lucky 4 to 7 days before my period and for the next 2 to 4 days after I stop. It is just my kind and generous way of making up for making his life hell on earth during my period.