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Ladies - What was it like to lose your virginity?

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M/M - I'm a male and I lost my anal virginity to another male. He took his time and we got through it. It wasn't painful ... but it was uncomfortable.
M/F - I lost my PIV virginity to a female. I was underwhelmed the first time. Every time after that time ... it was wonderful.

I am curious. Was it painful? If painful, how long (or how many times) before it got pleasent (desirable)?

I am also curious ... what if a virgin's first partner is large or has a lot of girth?
 
My first time was memorable only because it was my first time. I had read enough so kind of knew what to expect. There was some discomfort but not really pain. Mostly it was clumsy and awkward which I did not realize until much later. It was something I wanted to do so was happy to have become a woman so to speak.
 
Ely1987 said:
For me, it was painful and made a bad memory. My husband was very selfish during sex. My expectations of sex were high and I fantasized about it as something heavenly, but he ruined it.
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Not wanting to be rude, but can you let us know what year this was? I sort of imagine it being pre 1960's but I guess there are selfish men in every generation.
 
My First time.....wow...going back in time that far, well ...it isn't really tough. LOL. I remember all of the playing, touching and experimenting everything but intercourse before hand. Gosh, feeling him get hard as I rubbed at him with the palm of my hand over his jeans....I would feel this tickling ache in my abdomen and my panties would get pretty wet. We did some dry humping too, which really turned me on. I think the idea of wanting it so bad and not having it made it so much better.

Having it the first time though, was not as hot as wanting it. We were both virgins which is rare in my opinion. I remember thinking the whole thing was in , it felt like a razor blade was being shoved up there..lol. When I asked if it was all the way in and he said no...a part of me thought I would not be able to go through with it. But ...with my instruction, he pushed on. I knew it would be painful the first time..I had friends that had done it. It was not terrible...it was just......getting the first over with I guess. I will say this.....it took me a long time to have an orgasm with sex. In movies it looks like it just happens, as soon as he slides in.....and so I waited for that big o face moment. I did not realize I had been giving myself orgasms at a very very young age......so when I eventually realized what an Orgasm was, I was able to better instruct my mate on how to give me one. lol.
 
i lost my virginity senior year in high school.. he was also a virgin.
we dated and played a lot in his room.
that night I didn’t stop him.. and I wanted it.
but damn it hurt, I was tight and he was too eager.
he was finished before he started and I was left feeling. Is that it?
is that what I waited for? Did it again that same night and it was a bit better.
and he did get better and I got over my shyness.
 
Ely1987 said:
For me, it was painful and made a bad memory. My husband was very selfish during sex. My expectations of sex were high and I fantasized about it as something heavenly, but he ruined it.
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Sorry to hear that E. Too often guys are either ignorant of what to do or too selfish. I know one lady who lost her cherry to guy with a huge cock. But she said he was very gentle and considerate, so it was a nice experience for her.
 
I was coerced into it. The guy believed that the main purpose for a woman was a man's pleasure, so he was not worried about me or how I felt. I was told by my cousin (his girlfriend) how great it would be. It wasn't. It hurt like fuck. It hurt every time we did it. At least he always gave me alcohol before we fucked. It probably would have hurt a lot worse if he had not, although it's also possible the reason I needed to be drunk for vaginal penetration not to hurt was because my body tensed up when it happened because of my experiences with him. All I know is, except for times when I was super drunk, I only started really enjoying pain free vaginal penetration when I met he would become Hubby. That's not to say I didn't do it or enjoy it before Hubby... I did it a lot (although a lot less than giving oral). I even came from it in the right circumstances (drunk but not too drunk, and with extra flare, such as multiple partners). But except when I was really drunk, there was always some pain. Maybe that's why I like pain with sex... not a lot (at least not most times), but a little is good...
 
My first time with a man was memorable because it was fun! 😁
I was at a party with my BFF and her BF, with a few others around.
I was very drunk, but eager to lose my V card. My BFF, her BF, and myself went into the room and had my first 3 some..
I remember it feeling different than I expected. It wasn't painful, as I was going down on my BFF as I was getting fucked. Maybe I was distracted from the pain, IDK.
 
Ssbbw4u1974 said:
My first time with a man was memorable because it was fun! 😁
I was at a party with my BFF and her BF, with a few others around.
I was very drunk, but eager to lose my V card. My BFF, her BF, and myself went into the room and had my first 3 some..
I remember it feeling different than I expected. It wasn't painful, as I was going down on my BFF as I was getting fucked. Maybe I was distracted from the pain, IDK.
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Damn. That's kind of wild for a first time. Glad it went well for you.
 
It was fun. A bit curious. It was with a friend and coworker who was the same age and also a virgin. We both worked at the same small restaurant, and most nights it was just the 2 of us by the end of the night. We spent a lot of time talking about anything and everything, including sexual curiosity. We made a plan, list of things we wanted to try, for science. We did it in the owners office, desk and chair. 🤣 It wasn't romantic, again we weren't dating, had no prior sexual contact. But it was sweet and nice. We had one those talk about anything friendships, and we were going in to gain knowledge from the experience, so a lot of checking in and discussion along the way. We both accomplished our lists, shared our opinions, had a good time, got off a couple of times along the way. He was slightly larger than average and there was no discomfort, but again, list of foreplay items as well, and all very communicative. We were trying to learn what we enjoyed, and what the other gender enjoyed. for science.
 
Ssbbw4u1974 said:
My first time with a man was memorable because it was fun! 😁
I was at a party with my BFF and her BF, with a few others around.
I was very drunk, but eager to lose my V card. My BFF, her BF, and myself went into the room and had my first 3 some..
I remember it feeling different than I expected. It wasn't painful, as I was going down on my BFF as I was getting fucked. Maybe I was distracted from the pain, IDK.
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By "a few others around" does that mean you 3 had an audience? :cool:
 
My first time we were both virgins. We took is slow in the dark. I had no instructions and she would not let me see where I was going. It hurt that first time for her. I did not cum, I found out that I could not cum using a condom. I didn’t cum during sex with my first partners. They seemed to enjoy themselves. We learned what we were interested in learning.
 
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