What was your first sexual experience that lead to your current fetish or fantasies?

[Nellie60]

Always curious why people develop an attraction to certain fantasies or desires over other acts.

I have always found the hj for example a real turn on or eating pussy.

Ever since I was a teenager and getting my first hj from the hands of an older woman a friends mother its been an fantasy relived many times with various girlfriends. Love all forms of sex but seem to navigate towards hj finishes.

Now that I have started tell me your early experiences that have done the same

 

[AlwaysDancing]

I lost my virginity to a beautiful red head who looked at me with the most alluring and sultry smile as she lowered herself on me.

I came far too quick inside her and she was upset because she was unprotected. I spent the next little bit assuring her I’d be there and we’d figure it out together. And in that conversation, feeling like a hero and a true man for making all these proclamations and assurances I became hard and aroused.

She didn’t get pregnant but for a very very long time an impregnation fetish was strong with me. Still is on occasion.

 

[Ramone45]

After my girlfriend committed to me, she fucked her previous boyfriend. When she confessed, it was both intensely painful, and incredibly exciting. It reminded me of that RHCP lyric "I like pleasure spiced with pain". I realized that I would have to be a cuckold in order to keep this woman.

 

[Nellie60]

After my girlfriend committed to me, she fucked her previous boyfriend. When she confessed, it was both intensely painful, and incredibly exciting. It reminded me of that RHCP lyric "I like pleasure spiced with pain". I realized that I would have to be a cuckold in order to keep this woman.

I had the same intense sexual desire for an ex girlfriend when she did the same to me in an affair she had with a friend it was painful jealousy but strangely I was aroused. I wanted to know every detail from her

 

[Bisexguy70]

My fantasy for sucking cock started at an early age Around 46 I was so curious and got the nerve to try it. I ended up meeting a Gay guy at his place and we did 69 and my fantasy turned to reality. After experiencing it I fantasized about sucking more cock and I went bat shit crazy pursuing more dicks to suck. But my fetish for crossdressing came years earlier when I was bored in my hotel room alone. I went out and purchased lingerie and masturbated so much i couldnt even ejaculate sperm. I combined my fetish for CD and sucking cock shortly after sucking my first dick. I met this guy in CL personals and found out he loved CDs. I dressed in a slutty outfit, he rimmed me and I sucked his dick. I discovered that sucking cock AND wearing lingerie intensified how aroused i was. Now all my fantasies are usually me dressed up slutty on my knees sucking some big cock.

 

[Nellie60]

My fantasy for sucking cock started at an early age Around 46 I was so curious and got the nerve to try it. I ended up meeting a Gay guy at his place and we did 69 and my fantasy turned to reality. After experiencing it I fantasized about sucking more cock and I went bat shit crazy pursuing more dicks to suck. But my fetish for crossdressing came years earlier when I was bored in my hotel room alone. I went out and purchased lingerie and masturbated so much i couldnt even ejaculate sperm. I combined my fetish for CD and sucking cock shortly after sucking my first dick. I met this guy in CL personals and found out he loved CDs. I dressed in a slutty outfit, he rimmed me and I sucked his dick. I discovered that sucking cock AND wearing lingerie intensified how aroused i was. Now all my fantasies are usually me dressed up slutty on my knees sucking some big cock.

I am all for people expressing their differences thanks for that.

 

[hulmule]

Had a GF that could suck the best cock. She could open her throat and no gagging...Took all of my thick 8" to the base. Feel her nose in my hair, It was like she would swallow and i would feel her throat muscles on my cock. She always make me cum so hard. Ruined me for BJ's. Cause when i would get me cock sucked after her i would stop girls cause they couldnt take all of me. So would just fuck.. So now to be deep throated is only a dream....

 

[Nellie60]

Had a GF that could suck the best cock. She could open her throat and no gagging...Took all of my thick 8" to the base. Feel her nose in my hair, It was like she would swallow and i would feel her throat muscles on my cock. She always make me cum so hard. Ruined me for BJ's. Cause when i would get me cock sucked after her i would stop girls cause they couldnt take all of me. So would just fuck.. So now to be deep throated is only a dream....

Commiserations to you..fucking still great alternative LOL.

 

[Sgts19]

I didn't know it at the time, but I watched my ex-college girlfriend fucking another guy. I was both crying and hard as a rock. The hardon won and I ended up jerking off watching them. A few years after I got married, I realized how excited I got thinking about my wife and other men. It started off pretty tame watching men checking her out, following her around stores and places she went. As time went on, we did meet other cpls and I found out the voyeur was still alive and kicking in me. I'd get so fucking excited watching or hearing her with someone else. We still occasionally play with friends of ours, but I still have the pics, vids, movies we made so I can relive it.

 

[conoflex]

A very shortened version of events which lead to my fetish of licking a ladies arse hole

Many years ago when still living at home with my parents my mam had a friend named Rita , they used To go out drinking etc and she often stayed over , I would often get a glimpse of her in underwear , once or twice a bare breast or arse , she caught me one night masterbating over her underwear , my parents were sleeping,she heard me and crept into my room , I panicked but she sat on the bed and told me to be quiet and stroked me until I came over her hand .
When I awoke in the morning she was gone but my mam said Rita asked can you pop around in the morning to help her with some chores , I just nodded .
The following .morning full of nerves I knocked on her door , Rita called me in , made coffee for us and started chatting ,pretty soon she was asking how far I had gone with girlfriends etc ,I explained not very far and she said that just won't do ,next thing I knew my pants were around my ankles and Rita was sucking my cock , I removed the clothes and she called me into her bedroom ,she asked did I like what she just did ,I just nodded , she stripped in front of me and told me to lay on my back ,she straddled me in the 69 position and put me to work telling me where to lick etc , after a few minutes of this she asked if I wanted her to suck me again ,I said please ,please yes ,she then told me to lick her arse hole and she would , she smelled really clean and in all honesty ,I devoured it ,I licked and kissed her little bumhole as hard as I could before tongue Fucking her there within seconds of her sucking me I blew hard in her mouth ,she told me not to stop ,as I licked her arse , she furiously rubbed her clit and started shaking as a huge orgasm hit. her .
From that day I became her arse licking slave and would call around whenever she rang our house phone or a pre arranged meet .
She loved getting her bumhole licked ,kissed,sucked and just made love to this went on for many years , sadly now she has passed away but my love of licking a woman's arse is as strong as ever and continue to do it whenever I can.

 

[drobert44]

My wife died off and I began dating sissies, wearing panties, and then looking for cock.

 

[Nellie60]

I didn't know it at the time, but I watched my ex-college girlfriend fucking another guy. I was both crying and hard as a rock. The hardon won and I ended up jerking off watching them. A few years after I got married, I realized how excited I got thinking about my wife and other men. It started off pretty tame watching men checking her out, following her around stores and places she went. As time went on, we did meet other cpls and I found out the voyeur was still alive and kicking in me. I'd get so fucking excited watching or hearing her with someone else. We still occasionally play with friends of ours, but I still have the pics, vids, movies we made so I can relive it.

Wow thats hot. Those memories stay don't they just especially when it was a turn on back then and still is now allowing you to fulfil that same desires.

 

[Nellie60]

A very shortened version of events which lead to my fetish of licking a ladies arse hole

Many years ago when still living at home with my parents my mam had a friend named Rita , they used To go out drinking etc and she often stayed over , I would often get a glimpse of her in underwear , once or twice a bare breast or arse , she caught me one night masterbating over her underwear , my parents were sleeping,she heard me and crept into my room , I panicked but she sat on the bed and told me to be quiet and stroked me until I came over her hand .
When I awoke in the morning she was gone but my mam said Rita asked can you pop around in the morning to help her with some chores , I just nodded .
The following .morning full of nerves I knocked on her door , Rita called me in , made coffee for us and started chatting ,pretty soon she was asking how far I had gone with girlfriends etc ,I explained not very far and she said that just won't do ,next thing I knew my pants were around my ankles and Rita was sucking my cock , I removed the clothes and she called me into her bedroom ,she asked did I like what she just did ,I just nodded , she stripped in front of me and told me to lay on my back ,she straddled me in the 69 position and put me to work telling me where to lick etc , after a few minutes of this she asked if I wanted her to suck me again ,I said please ,please yes ,she then told me to lick her arse hole and she would , she smelled really clean and in all honesty ,I devoured it ,I licked and kissed her little bumhole as hard as I could before tongue Fucking her there within seconds of her sucking me I blew hard in her mouth ,she told me not to stop ,as I licked her arse , she furiously rubbed her clit and started shaking as a huge orgasm hit. her .
From that day I became her arse licking slave and would call around whenever she rang our house phone or a pre arranged meet .
She loved getting her bumhole licked ,kissed,sucked and just made love to this went on for many years , sadly now she has passed away but my love of licking a woman's arse is as strong as ever and continue to do it whenever I can.

Amazing how that act stayed with you and not the bj etc. The hj stayed with me as it was the first sexual act committed on me by a woman. And she was incredible, so much so that I relive it with subsequent relationships.

 

[Wanderg]

In high school (pre caller ID days) some girl I didn’t know called me and told me she noticed me at school. One thing led to another and we ended up talking dirty to each other. This led to a lifelong fascination with phone sex.

To piggyback on that, I met my wife when she was going through a divorce as was I. It started out as a friendship we’d share sexual details of prior relationships during our calls and claimed she never had sex with her husband after we met but I didn’t believe her. The friendship evolved and we started having phone sex, real sex, and got married. A little over 10 years ago I briefly met her ex-husband, and being able to put a face to the man she said she did all these things with has been a go-to fantasy for me. Although I don’t want to actually see her get fucked by him I have used that mental image when I’m fucking her.

 

[davion2308]

I was in my formative sexual years and I saw the movie "Splash." Darryl Hannah walking out of the water and onto the park at the Statue of Liberty, fully nude, was a new experience for me. I became a sexually aware young man that day and my love of public nudity, exhibitionism, voyeurism, and all things showing off and flashing was born.

 

[Nellie60]

In high school (pre caller ID days) some girl I didn’t know called me and told me she noticed me at school. One thing led to another and we ended up talking dirty to each other. This led to a lifelong fascination with phone sex.

To piggyback on that, I met my wife when she was going through a divorce as was I. It started out as a friendship we’d share sexual details of prior relationships during our calls and claimed she never had sex with her husband after we met but I didn’t believe her. The friendship evolved and we started having phone sex, real sex, and got married. A little over 10 years ago I briefly met her ex-husband, and being able to put a face to the man she said she did all these things with has been a go-to fantasy for me. Although I don’t want to actually see her get fucked by him I have used that mental image when I’m fucking her.

And just to know what she likes through all those naughty calls makes fucking her all the more pleasurable when you imagine them together..

 

[BizTrav]

...would love to hear what a good psychiatrist has to say about my first experience with an older cousin that introduced me to the feel of a wet pussy. I was in my single digit years at the time, and still think about it today.

 

[dodgeboy2]

Mine was before I ever experienced anything so it wasn't an experience so to say.

I remember all those guys in gym class in high school and having to shower with them, watching all those guys with their cocks swinging caused me to have to face the showerhead and depart the showers after they all did since my small boyish cock would stand at attention every time, it was then that I had wonder what anothers would feel and taste like.

I did later find out indeed what I wondered and found I liked it very much!

 

[Easyvirtue]

Walking in on my mother and father, he was dressed in all feminine undergarment and a wig, my mom was dressed in exactly the same attire. She was giving him head in his recliner and he was calling her my sisters name and also saying things to my mother like “oh yes Karen suck mommy’s pussy.”

 

[BellaBestia]

(TW: r*pe)

I remember being very young sitting on the floor of the family room and watching some made for TV court melodrama about a college professor who attacked 2 sisters on different occasions. Details are hazy but I remember it was a mistrial on the case of the older sister then when he was free he attacked the younger sister. Although short, the r*pe scene burned itself in my memory for different and disparate reasons. I remember the long semi-dark tunnel he chased her down, the sound of his literal breathing down her neck, her furtive glances over her shoulder as she ran, the melodramatic music and finally, once he caught her and wrestled her to the ground, the sound of her overalls being ripped at the hip, her terrified scream and fade to black. I was breathing a bit heavily both horrified and frightened but also a strange new and not wholly unpleasant sensation I’d never felt before. Logically I knew it was faked and the director was just emotionally manipulating the audience but at the sound of cloth ripping, tiny match was lit in me. I became fascinated years later with non-consent situations and power-struggle and sought out those scenes in books or movies, and becoming infatuated with the “bad boys”, desirous of a taste myself of a little bit of sexual violence. Admittedly it’s still the scenes of implied sexual violence, or resistance to, in movies that excite me most.

 

[nutoseen]

Always curious why people develop an attraction to certain fantasies or desires over other acts.

I have always found the hj for example a real turn on or eating pussy.

Ever since I was a teenager and getting my first hj from the hands of an older woman a friends mother its been an fantasy relived many times with various girlfriends. Love all forms of sex but seem to navigate towards hj finishes.

Now that I have started tell me your early experiences that have done the same

SPH -... cant remember "the first: at this moment, but one that really sent me running down this path was basically "mother in law" saw it and giggled. afterward she and i spoke on phone multiple times about that situation and i would play with my little dick almost every time when we talked.

 

[olivererekt]

Einer meiner größten Fetische ist mich einer Gruppe von Frauen, Männern und Diversen vollständig ausgeliefert zu sein. Gefickt werden, gewichst werden. Besagt und bepisst werden. Vor allem aber wünsche ich von einem Strap on gefickt zu werden, während ich eine Votze lecke, die mich bepisst.

 

[olivererekt]

Always curious why people develop an attraction to certain fantasies or desires over other acts.

I have always found the hj for example a real turn on or eating pussy.

Ever since I was a teenager and getting my first hj from the hands of an older woman a friends mother its been an fantasy relived many times with various girlfriends. Love all forms of sex but seem to navigate towards hj finishes.

Now that I have started tell me your early experiences that have done the same

Handjob ist wundervoll, weil man seine Kontrolle abgegeben hat.

 

[Rob_Royale]

Please click on My Beautiful Debbie in my signature line. Pretty much explains it all.

 

[pinkpixels]

A couple years back I had this girl friend (let’s call her friend 1) I was messing with. There was a house party one night, it was pretty late around this point had to be around 1am, we were messing around in the bedroom, with the door unlocked (rookie mistake lol) although not our first encounter with each other we were still new to everything and took it slow. We made out for a while feet dangling off the bed, slowly, sensually really just taking everything in. I was too nervous to take things too far and make her uncomfortable. She wasn’t uncomfortable though and she moved things a little further. We moved back on to the bed fully and she started kissing my neck, slowly, mildly, taking her time. She makes her way towards my chest, my heart was pounding so hard I wondered if she could feel it. She lowers the straps of my tank top and starts kissing on my nipples, sucking them softly. I remember it feeling like nothing i’ve felt before, I haven’t even touched my own nipples at this point. It was arousing to be that close to someone, I could feel myself getting wet. A feeling that was still new then too, everything feels so much more intense the first time. She stops we just look at each other not speaking. I start to kiss on her chest and lower her shirt to reveal her tits. They were on the smaller side a B cup maybe and her nipples were pink and soft. I take one in my mouth and start sucking, i’m moving from each breast kissing them both, we were just in our own world to be honset. The music in the living room was loud, the only light in the room was the red light coming from the lamp across the room. And you know that buzzy feeling in your head when you’re so horny and in the moment that it’s hard to hear or focus on anything expect the person in front of you? Well that’s probably why I didn’t hear the door open and I don’t think she notice for a while either, it couldn’t be longer than 30 seconds but eventually we notice, it was another girl friend of ours ( friend 2), we didn’t see her as often but we we’re friends. I should mention we were doing everything in secret, nobody knew because we didn’t want judgment for our sexuality but also we would just fuck around occasionally there was no point in telling anyone. Anyways, she comes in and closes the door, she was shocked to say the least I was sitting there quietly scared she would run out and say something. But friend 1, starts asking her wants to see, she pulls away her hands to reveal her tits, i’m looking at friend 2 to gauge her reaction, she staring at her tits. She comes down to sit in between us. I ask if I can see hers, she pulls down her top, she has dark skin and her tits her bigger, they were perfectly round and her nipples were getting hard. I asked if I could touch them, she says yes. This was the second girl i’ve touched and I loved seeing both of theirs body’s, different builds but both so fucking hot. I fondled them while I kinda just creepily stared in amazement. Friend 1 is kissing her, they make out while I play with her tits. They pull away and I start to kiss her, while friend 1 starts sucking on her tits, I pull away and start sucking on her other tit at the same time. I’ll forever have the picture etched in my mind of making eye contact with friend 1 was also sucking her and then looking up at her and she’s had her head up in pleasure, eye closed shut. It’s pretty tame but I could cum thinking about it. We stopped there, everyone put their shirts back on and we never talked about it again lol. I’m pretty sure everyone enjoyed it but there was alot of shame around it unfortunately.

Anyways, you probably guessed that I love threesomes and reallllllyyyy want to experience one again taken all the way.

This is the first time i’ve ever written something like this, it’s a true story lol i’m definitely not a writer but I wanted to share, idk leave some comments, would anyone be interested in hearing other stories or should I continue to be a silent viewer lol