Guys into SPH, did you start out as genuinely embarrassed or ashamed?

[emmcee_M_Aussie]

I've been off the forums for a while and just caught up on this thread. It's great to hear the various stories and experiences as well as the perspectives of a few ladies. I was finally diagnosed with gynecomastia - a hormone imbalance that over time caused my cock to shrink and manboobs to become breasts. What was 6" in my teens is now nearly 4" in my 60s (diagnosed in my late 50s though I knew it was small - had a few hints along the way!). The idea of Small Tit Humiliation has a Big Tit Humiliation version for men! I've been told numerous times mine are bigger than theirs - once at work in front of colleagues by a 'petite' lady so I replied, "Most men's are!" The other women told her she deserved it when she got all upset.

While I have had SPH comments many times, it didn't become a turn-on until I was laid up in hospital with two injured arms and a nurse had to help me with a pee bottle. Normally they just slide it into place and the cock goes in and they leave. Mine was so retracted that she had to pick it up and guide it with one finger and thumb. She smiled and apologised - a fleeting thought was she sorry about the size rather than the situation! But she left me to my business, but I heard her at the door of my room say to another nurse (I assume), "He's sooo small but it's kinda cute!" I suddenly got hard... and couldn't pee. She kept coming back to see if I'd finished but I'd just get hard again when she walked in. Finally job done and the shift changed so I didn't see her again. In a perfect fantasy, this would end with a much 'happier ending'! But it did pique my interest and so, since then, I have found various porn vid's and online lady friends who enjoy some SPH play. That has been most liberating to talk about being small openly but also to be playful about it.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Free HRT isn't all it's cracked up to be, I guess.

 

[emmcee_M_Aussie]

Never did the HRT. By the time it was an issue worth looking into, it was basically too late for HRT. Such gradual change over time and weight gain all sort of explained it.

 

[Bigaug]

When I was a teen I never knew there were giant cocks. I always enjoyed my cock, I played with myself often. The cocks of the kids I hung out with were about the same size as me. I had a lot of sex in my teens and in High School had a regular girlfriend who made me do oral on her every time then pull me up to finish with intercourse or she would suck my cock and swallow everything, in fact we married after graduation and never a word was said about a small cock. We divorced after 3 years but after separation I was out on the market and getting laid a lot. I certainly was aware of the John Holmes people. But the first time my second wife and I got naked with her sister and soon to be husband, I knew what a real small cock was, he was tiny, skinny, tiny balls, half the size of my 5 incher but he was happy as a pig in mud, my wife's sister was gorgeous, had a great set of perky tits, she did make him mad once when we all got naked and kept on praising my big dick and balls. Until I was married for a bunch of years other than my bro in law's small dick , my wife had never mentioned size, never complained, we did oral all the time, when I started having ED issues I did buy a couple of large life like dildos that she picked out, 7 or 8 inchers, and she enjoys them and I enjoy watching her.

 

[Achilles4_0]

I was aware of my SP since middle school when all the boys took showers. I was one of the smaller guys and had not yet sprouted pubic hairs. I never gave it much thought and figured things would grow in time. I never had any problems or comments with the few women I have been with. In my 30’s however, I went to a local nude beach and was one of the smaller/smallest guys. I felt embarrassed when guys with large thick swinging cocks would walk by, and these guys always seemed to be the ones with the babes. Eventually, I found it stimulating at the beach when I realized I was smaller than most of the teenagers and when guys with swinging cocks, larger soft than I ever could achieve being hard, would walk by. I would quickly lie on my belly so that no one could see my semi-erection. But what really got my SPH going is when I was reading in a chair and a nice-looking young woman sat next to me. We both said hello, but shortly thereafter, when she saw below what the book was covering, she quickly got up, took her chair in hand, and walked away. My SPH was solidified after I had a minor operation and knew the nurse attending to me. After discharge, I saw her on the outside, and she smiled and said that she saw me, then giggled.

 

[Sgts19]

I always had strong ego surrounding my dick size from positive feedback all my life...until my partner crushed that by admitting I was very average from her experiences.
The more she revealed it felt like a punch in the gut hearing how she had enjoyed massive dicks from many boyfriends that put me to shame.

The humiliation and insecurity turned into arousal at some point and now I have to be careful when having sex that I don't think too much about those monster dicks she loved or I'll nut way too quickly.
Would have never thought it could happen but I've been switched into having SPH arousal.

I don't consider my 5" really small but big cocks turn me on. I always look for amateur women build like my wife getting fucked by a big cock. She of course would never admit a big one feeling better but I've heard her with a big cock and how she reacted. It sure wasn't how she reacts with me

 

[BBCfan]

I don't consider my 5" really small but big cocks turn me on. I always look for amateur women build like my wife getting fucked by a big cock. She of course would never admit a big one feeling better but I've heard her with a big cock and how she reacted. It sure wasn't how she reacts with me

How did you hear her?

 

[SPARTAN047]

I've been off the forums for a while and just caught up on this thread. It's great to hear the various stories and experiences as well as the perspectives of a few ladies. I was finally diagnosed with gynecomastia - a hormone imbalance that over time caused my cock to shrink and manboobs to become breasts. What was 6" in my teens is now nearly 4" in my 60s (diagnosed in my late 50s though I knew it was small - had a few hints along the way!). The idea of Small Tit Humiliation has a Big Tit Humiliation version for men! I've been told numerous times mine are bigger than theirs - once at work in front of colleagues by a 'petite' lady so I replied, "Most men's are!" The other women told her she deserved it when she got all upset.

While I have had SPH comments many times, it didn't become a turn-on until I was laid up in hospital with two injured arms and a nurse had to help me with a pee bottle. Normally they just slide it into place and the cock goes in and they leave. Mine was so retracted that she had to pick it up and guide it with one finger and thumb. She smiled and apologised - a fleeting thought was she sorry about the size rather than the situation! But she left me to my business, but I heard her at the door of my room say to another nurse (I assume), "He's sooo small but it's kinda cute!" I suddenly got hard... and couldn't pee. She kept coming back to see if I'd finished but I'd just get hard again when she walked in. Finally job done and the shift changed so I didn't see her again. In a perfect fantasy, this would end with a much 'happier ending'! But it did pique my interest and so, since then, I have found various porn vid's and online lady friends who enjoy some SPH play. That has been most liberating to talk about being small openly but also to be playful about it.

I read this one carefully again and laughed so hard at the idea of most men's tits being bigger than this woman's. If she was being rude she more than deserved it. I love small tit or ass humiliation and a surprising number of women actually enjoy it despite acting antsy with a stick up their ass about it.

I understand that as you get older you lose your hormones regulating your body and even women need HRT for their bones, etc. I'll be going on it myself soon, I hope, and I'd love to see my clitty and ovaries shrink so people can humiliate them more.

 

[Achilles4_0]

I don't consider my 5" really small but big cocks turn me on. I always look for amateur women build like my wife getting fucked by a big cock. She of course would never admit a big one feeling better but I've heard her with a big cock and how she reacted. It sure wasn't how she reacts with me

 

[Achilles4_0]

I believe that average penis size is 5.1-5.5 when averaging all the medical studies. 5 is a tiny bit below average but not small. I am 4.5 on a good day but 5.1 around. I consider that small.

 

[Achilles4_0]

I believe that average penis size is 5.1-5.5 when averaging all the medical studies. 5 is a tiny bit below average but not small. I am 4.5 on a good day but 5.1 around. I consider that small. I too get aroused by big cocks as part of my SPH fetish. The feelings of jealousy and inadequacy often makes me hard.

 

[emmcee_M_Aussie]

I read this one carefully again and laughed so hard at the idea of most men's tits being bigger than this woman's. If she was being rude she more than deserved it. I love small tit or ass humiliation and a surprising number of women actually enjoy it despite acting antsy with a stick up their ass about it.

I understand that as you get older you lose your hormones regulating your body and even women need HRT for their bones, etc. I'll be going on it myself soon, I hope, and I'd love to see my clitty and ovaries shrink so people can humiliate them more.

I'm glad it gave you a giggle. Over time I've had my share of those humiliating moments and learned to cope. An old friend visited with his new MUCH younger gf - about 23-24. I was at home so in a T-shirt and she kept looking at my tits. As they were leaving she giggled and said, as she reached out to cup my boob, "Your tits are bigger than mine!" I responded by reaching our and squeezing her tit (all of this was in front of my wife - who loved playing with my tits as much as I did hers... even though they were smaller than mine!), and I said, "Yes they are!" She got all upset and looked to her bf - my mate of 10 yrs - expecting him to 'do something' about it. Needless to say, she was no longer on the scene when he visited next!

 

[SPARTAN047]

I'm glad it gave you a giggle. Over time I've had my share of those humiliating moments and learned to cope. An old friend visited with his new MUCH younger gf - about 23-24. I was at home so in a T-shirt and she kept looking at my tits. As they were leaving she giggled and said, as she reached out to cup my boob, "Your tits are bigger than mine!" I responded by reaching our and squeezing her tit (all of this was in front of my wife - who loved playing with my tits as much as I did hers... even though they were smaller than mine!), and I said, "Yes they are!" She got all upset and looked to her bf - my mate of 10 yrs - expecting him to 'do something' about it. Needless to say, she was no longer on the scene when he visited next!

Well done. I'll never understand these arrogant, uppity and bitchy women who deliberately cause trouble and then expect their man or the nearest man to fix it. They love banter as long as it's them dishing it out but they can't take it.

It should be standard practice to dump these types of bitches on the spot.

 

[emmcee_M_Aussie]

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[Swuchrow]

With my wife it was embarrassing.

With my tops it was a turn on. The more fem the better.

 

[Escierto]

With my wife it was embarrassing.

With my tops it was a turn on. The more fem the better.

My girl absolutely loves the fact that her cock is at least two inches bigger than mine. Years ago as we were in bed and compared cocks, she said, "See, that's why I am the top and you are my bottom." Of course, I liked it.

 

[Swuchrow]

I have had tops smaller than my 6 inches but most are near the same size or larger. I know .5 inches around average but most men I have had are bigger than average.

 

[Sir_yes_sir_]

I had my sweatpants pulled down at a party, underwear and all. I was pretty drunk i reacted and pulled them right back up. We were in a group photo, i’m sure there are pictures of me with my pants down. Everyone who was looking my way i’m sure saw, it was a cool fall day. So it was pretty much non existent. I was mortified, but played it off as if no one saw it! Nothing has ever been said but about a group of 15-20 people got an eye full. (including some teens) i think they were just as surprised as i was. I’m over it all, we still get together and drink. knowing they all seen my little guy was the best sph ever. That’s were it started.

 

[Achilles4_0]

Same thing happened to me. I was always confident in my abilities and thought I was average, although I never measured. Then I retired in my mid 60’s and came across these platforms and discovered that I was in the small group hard and very small group soft, even measuring BP. I went to a nude beach on a day trip and joined a gym with a nice locker room, showers, and steam room. I realized that I was in the bottom quarter at best, maybe not good for the psyche. I believe from my readings that there are three types of guys with small units. First, are the guys not even aware. Second, are the guys who become angry and overcompensate with the fancy cars and the like. And third, are guys who develop a fetish and get aroused by the entire thing. I fell into the last category and love comparing and the feelings of inadequacy and insecurity which I have turned into arousal. I have no feelings at all for men, just interested in cocks. My wife has never really said anything and appears satisfied but who really knows. I need to build up the courage to start a conversation.

 

[Swuchrow]

My girl absolutely loves the fact that her cock is at least two inches bigger than mine. Years ago as we were in bed and compared cocks, she said, "See, that's why I am the top and you are my bottom." Of course, I liked it.

I think most tops prefer to have the bigger cock. In reality I am average but average is average and many men have bigger cocks than me. There also a few that are not as endowed as me.

 

[grinchy99]

Yeah, was very shy about size and nudity when I was younger. Did compare and more with some guys and was always smaller. A few made size related comments and it always felt embarrassing, but also more. Always felt more shy about it in normal situations, like a locker room or swimming or just people knowing, than if there was anything sexual involved. My second GF commented and realized it turned me on too. My wife as well and became part of our play.

 

[Achilles4_0]

Yeah, was very shy about size and nudity when I was younger. Did compare and more with some guys and was always smaller. A few made size related comments and it always felt embarrassing, but also more. Always felt more shy about it in normal situations, like a locker room or swimming or just people knowing, than if there was anything sexual involved. My second GF commented and realized it turned me on too. My wife as well and became part of our play.

What did your wife say and what caused her to say it? Did you ask? I am trying to get my wife involved with my smallness.

 

[grinchy99]

What did your wife say and what caused her to say it? Did you ask? I am trying to get my wife involved with my smallness.

Think it first came up when my wife was talking about other guys she had been with which is another kink. She would describe them and compare them to me which I always responded to. Realized that the comparison was a turn-on for me, particularly around size. Then she would bring it up when we watched porn or when we used a larger toy. Saying a range of things from just how much bigger they were, how much more she felt it. And them more outside the bedroom just for play, calling it little, small, cute, stubby, etc.. I didn't ever ask her to, but my response and enjoyment was always obvious.

 

[Achilles4_0]

Think it first came up when my wife was talking about other guys she had been with which is another kink. She would describe them and compare them to me which I always responded to. Realized that the comparison was a turn-on for me, particularly around size. Then she would bring it up when we watched porn or when we used a larger toy. Saying a range of things from just how much bigger they were, how much more she felt it. And them more outside the bedroom just for play, calling it little, small, cute, stubby, etc.. I didn't ever ask her to, but my response and enjoyment was always obvious.

Thanks for the answer.