Ladies - What was it like to lose your virginity?

[kribensis33]

No. I was in a prison for a while, and I was sexually assaulted along with other women by male guards there, but nothing consensual.

I am very sorry to hear that

 

[Krigirl1233]

It was painful and messy. But all that went away quickly

 

[Islander55]

Absolutely the best orgasm is with a hard cock deep inside, I love it when it is still, pushed hard to the end of my pussy, just pulsing....when not moving I can feel it so much better...enjoy it deeply....

Once he sets me off, I lose track of things but yes I agree with you deep inside and pulsing.

 

[redheadfantasy]

Mine was a little painful at first. My first time was with my step dad, and he got a little too excited/rough, but once my body adjusted it felt scary, confusing, exciting, and incredible all at once. It was the most pleasure and love I’ve ever felt.

 

[luckydino]

Once he sets me off, I lose track of things but yes I agree with you deep inside and pulsing.

From a guys perspective, tend to agree with you. Had more partners who liked deep penetration, pulsing & cumming whilst still than others who wanted me to pull out or to keep thrusting. Was told by a couple of them that the feeling is so much more intense, especially one lass who was very small & tight - she said the feeling was like being stretched internally when I came in her.

 

[Islander55]

From a guys perspective, tend to agree with you. Had more partners who liked deep penetration, pulsing & cumming whilst still than others who wanted me to pull out or to keep thrusting. Was told by a couple of them that the feeling is so much more intense, especially one lass who was very small & tight - she said the feeling was like being stretched internally when I came in her.

The primary purpose of sex is to procreate except for humans who also view it as a sport. Still the lizard brain in us seems to want those sperm deep inside where they can achieve their task. Yes I know that many times a woman does not want to get pregnant but still that urge is there. Even though I can no longer get pregnant, I reflexively open myself a bit and often grab his butt and pull him tight to me when I know he is about to cum.

 

[ParkerSteve66]

The primary purpose of sex is to procreate except for humans who also view it as a sport. Still the lizard brain in us seems to want those sperm deep inside where they can achieve their task. Yes I know that many times a woman does not want to get pregnant but still that urge is there. Even though I can no longer get pregnant, I reflexively open myself a bit and often grab his butt and pull him tight to me when I know he is about to cum.

Interesting perspective about the lizard brain wanting to feel the man throbbing and spurting.

 

[BoredAsianWifey]

Mine was a older guy. I broke up with my first real bf right before summer. My friend introduce me to him. He was experience, but when he got the head of his cock in I thought I was going split into two. And when he said he is going start pushing. I was like "there is more?"

 

[strangerlove]

The primary purpose of sex is to procreate except for humans who also view it as a sport. Still the lizard brain in us seems to want those sperm deep inside where they can achieve their task. Yes I know that many times a woman does not want to get pregnant but still that urge is there. Even though I can no longer get pregnant, I reflexively open myself a bit and often grab his butt and pull him tight to me when I know he is about to cum.

I like to give in to my lizard brain. Nothing more intimate or real than letting it go inside her

 

[luckydino]

The primary purpose of sex is to procreate except for humans who also view it as a sport. Still the lizard brain in us seems to want those sperm deep inside where they can achieve their task. Yes I know that many times a woman does not want to get pregnant but still that urge is there. Even though I can no longer get pregnant, I reflexively open myself a bit and often grab his butt and pull him tight to me when I know he is about to cum.

Hmmm! Sounds like you're my type of mature lady. Love it when the women opens herself to take her lover deeper, then locks her legs around his body or grabs his ass to pull him in deeper - I find this very erotic. I think being deeper & somewhat restricted heightens the intensity, sensation & feeling of cumming.

 

[Islander55]

Hmmm! Sounds like you're my type of mature lady. Love it when the women opens herself to take her lover deeper, then locks her legs around his body or grabs his ass to pull him in deeper - I find this very erotic. I think being deeper & somewhat restricted heightens the intensity, sensation & feeling of cumming.

I do not mind if he needs to thrust but do prefer him to be fully seated and let his seed flow deep inside of me.

 

[Islander55]

I like to give in to my lizard brain. Nothing more intimate or real than letting it go inside her

At least for me, I enjoy knowing that he is deep inside of me and his sperm is right where nature intended.

 

[blkjames]

I am very sorry to hear that

That's just wrong, sorry that happened to you.

 

[LovingTheSun]

Mine was rather enjoyable. My boyfriend at the time was more experienced than me which I think helped a lot. We had been playing around and having fun for awhile and hit that point when we both wanted it. Well I am sure he wanted it way before then but now I was there as well.

 

[luckydino]

I do not mind if he needs to thrust but do prefer him to be fully seated and let his seed flow deep inside of me.

Dear Islander55, thanks for originally bringing the topic of deep ejaculation up as this really is something I can relate to & enjoy. I know this is meant to be a 'ladies, what was it like to lose your virginity' thread, but thought you lovely ladies of literotica would like to hear a male's perspective....
I lost my virginity to a lovely girl who was a couple of years younger than me, was more experienced as she had 2 previous relationships behind her & was very understanding that it was my first time. She was very slim, small & extremely pretty. We had been very intimate for a few weeks when she suggested that we progress to intercourse. After undressing each other, we started to explore each other before she took control. Finding out that I was somewhat larger than her previous partners, she played with me for a while to ensure that I was fully erect before asking me to enter her in the missionary position. As she laid back I positioned myself between her open legs, before her right hand wrapped itself around my penis. As she slowly started running her hand up & down my rigid shaft, I had never felt so hard in my life, before gentle & slowly pulling my foreskin fully back & then gently placing the tip of my penis between her moist warm lips. As I slowly entered her small tight pussy she wrapped legs around me, then grabbed my arse & pulled me into her. I started moving with long slow strokes which she really enjoyed as she had never been penetrated by a 7 inch cock before. As I started to move faster & deeper the only thing she said was 'just let me know when you're going to cum'. With each stroke I could feel her clenching her pelvic muscles tightening the grip on my cock, intensifying the incredible sensations she was already giving me (she was very much into exercise & yoga, especially pelvic floor exercises). After a couple of minutes I could feel myself reaching the point of ejaculation & let her know. She dug her finger nails deep into my sides & pulled me fully into her soaking pussy holding me there, allowing me to cum as deep as possible inside her. I clearly remember her shouting 'oh fuck' as I ejaculated into her. With her being of small build the tightness of her passage provided an incredible intense sensation as my first spurt of cum was deposited into her, with the following spurts causing a backflow around my shaft. Just before I had finished cumming, she tightened her pelvic floor muscles again & began to buck & grind her hips against me, milking me of every drop of cum I could muster - something I wasn't expecting at all. As we came down from our high we lay entwined together for a long time, kissing, cuddling & caressing each other, commenting that we had really enjoyed the moment. It really was a wonderful experience & where I first learned that cumming deep inside your partner is such an incredible intense & intimate sensation & I'm so grateful that I lost my virginity to her.
Now over 40 years on she is the one lady I really would love to have sex with again. We have sort of stayed in touch over the years & keep saying that when we get the chance we must meet up sometime although I've no idea if we'll end up in bed together again. However a distance of 300 miles between us & respective partners always gets in the way of proposed meetings.

 

[Islander55]

Dear Islander55, thanks for originally bringing the topic of deep ejaculation up as this really is something I can relate to & enjoy. I know this is meant to be a 'ladies, what was it like to lose your virginity' thread, but thought you lovely ladies of literotica would like to hear a male's perspective....
I lost my virginity to a lovely girl who was a couple of years younger than me, was more experienced as she had 2 previous relationships behind her & was very understanding that it was my first time. She was very slim, small & extremely pretty. We had been very intimate for a few weeks when she suggested that we progress to intercourse. After undressing each other, we started to explore each other before she took control. Finding out that I was somewhat larger than her previous partners, she played with me for a while to ensure that I was fully erect before asking me to enter her in the missionary position. As she laid back I positioned myself between her open legs, before her right hand wrapped itself around my penis. As she slowly started running her hand up & down my rigid shaft, I had never felt so hard in my life, before gentle & slowly pulling my foreskin fully back & then gently placing the tip of my penis between her moist warm lips. As I slowly entered her small tight pussy she wrapped legs around me, then grabbed my arse & pulled me into her. I started moving with long slow strokes which she really enjoyed as she had never been penetrated by a 7 inch cock before. As I started to move faster & deeper the only thing she said was 'just let me know when you're going to cum'. With each stroke I could feel her clenching her pelvic muscles tightening the grip on my cock, intensifying the incredible sensations she was already giving me (she was very much into exercise & yoga, especially pelvic floor exercises). After a couple of minutes I could feel myself reaching the point of ejaculation & let her know. She dug her finger nails deep into my sides & pulled me fully into her soaking pussy holding me there, allowing me to cum as deep as possible inside her. I clearly remember her shouting 'oh fuck' as I ejaculated into her. With her being of small build the tightness of her passage provided an incredible intense sensation as my first spurt of cum was deposited into her, with the following spurts causing a backflow around my shaft. Just before I had finished cumming, she tightened her pelvic floor muscles again & began to buck & grind her hips against me, milking me of every drop of cum I could muster - something I wasn't expecting at all. As we came down from our high we lay entwined together for a long time, kissing, cuddling & caressing each other, commenting that we had really enjoyed the moment. It really was a wonderful experience & where I first learned that cumming deep inside your partner is such an incredible intense & intimate sensation & I'm so grateful that I lost my virginity to her.
Now over 40 years on she is the one lady I really would love to have sex with again. We have sort of stayed in touch over the years & keep saying that when we get the chance we must meet up sometime although I've no idea if we'll end up in bed together again. However a distance of 300 miles between us & respective partners always gets in the way of proposed meetings.

Lovely story. Thank you for sharing. For myself, I know I really enjoy being able to accept a man fully and that special moment when you know he is releasing deep inside of you. Even after menopause, I still relish that moment.

 

[JulieAnn42]

At least for me, I enjoy knowing that he is deep inside of me and his sperm is right where nature intended.

Like this. I want him to hold still all the way in me so I can feel him pulsing as he fills me. I don't feel the actual fluid, but I know it is going right against my cervix.

 

[Poetryinmotionxo]

It hurt for a few seconds but felt amazing after. He was much older and more experienced. Made sure I cum and felt good. Started slow and built up.

 

[Islander55]

Like this. I want him to hold still all the way in me so I can feel him pulsing as he fills me. I don't feel the actual fluid, but I know it is going right against my cervix.

Exactly. He does not need to hold still but I do prefer they he push in with every spurt or just hold there as you say and let me feel his pulsing. Such a lovely feeling.

 

[Erodicus]

Losing my *actual* virginity, I was very fortunate that my first experience was really lovely.

It didn't hurt, it just felt like the absolute most intense thing I've ever felt. I mostly remember how in love I was and how happy I was - which I appreciate is extremely fortunate

I do remember we were so so excited that we had finally actually done *it* that we went again like an hour later and that was incredibly enjoyable too

Your experience was exactly the way it should be.

It's tragic that so many women were denied it by selfish or brutish men.

 

[Vitriolhack]

Your experience was exactly the way it should be.

It's tragic that so many women were denied it by selfish or brutish men.

But, wouldn’t he know she is a virgin? Meaning he should know to be careful?

Some men, well, are clueless.

Bring back sex ed in high school!

 

[htobeme5]

Lovely story. Thank you for sharing. For myself, I know I really enjoy being able to accept a man fully and that special moment when you know he is releasing deep inside of you. Even after menopause, I still relish that moment.

 

[htobeme5]

i love women who think they have finished menopauce, In your case, with tubes tied, i know it won't happen, but i love accidental pregnancy late in life.

 

[Islander55]

i love women who think they have finished menopauce, In your case, with tubes tied, i know it won't happen, but i love accidental pregnancy late in life.

I do not think I would care to get pregnant at this point in life. Having too much fun to get tied down raising a child.