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Ok, as usual i have done things arse about face.. though not literally...

During my teen years managed to somehow skip the kissing phase of things and jumped right ahead to the intercourse, oral sex etc but i have now come to realise just how bad I am at kissing... basically have no idea what i am actually supposed to be doing :)

Virtually all the "help" sites tell u how to go down on a woman... no problems there... or new possitions etc but dont actually mention kissing.

I realise that it is a bit of a tame topic for this site... but you are my only hope

thanks
 
How did you come to the realization that you are bad at kissing? Did someone tell you this or are you just supposing?

I have only kissed one guy who could qualify as a really crappy kisser. He had a swallow you whole technique that grossed me out. Other than that there are a whole lot of techniques out there. It really depends on your parteners preferences too. Everyone is different. Some like to be wooed, some mastered, some dominant etc. etc. You get the point.

What is it you want to know more specifically?
 
i dont know where 2 start...kissing comes naturally, however u do it, do not feel awkward..ure partner is prolly as scared as u... purse ure lips and press, feel the lips of ure partner, if u r comfortable open ure mouth a little, if ure partner responds try touching his lips with ure tongue, if u feel a response u may want 2 put ure tongue in their mouth or visa versa. If your partner is happy with this, tonsel hockey may be the order of the day, but whatever u feel comfortable with will prolly be enuff 4 ure partner

Remember what u want 2 do is what is right....
 
cyndiesweet said:
How did you come to the realization that you are bad at kissing? Did someone tell you this or are you just supposing?

The second one, never been told i was bad, but i always feel akward as nothing "comes naturally" with it and putting it simply i dont know what ya supposed to do, esp with the whole tongue deal
 
Slowly ...

The one thing I enjoy doing when kissing is teasing.

Lightly giving him a soft barely there kiss ... then as he leans in towards me ... I will pull back & just run my fingertips across his lips ever so gently ... leaning towards him I will lightly run the tip of my tongue across his lips ... capturing his mouth with mine. My tongue gently opening his mouth ... tasting and savoring him.

That is how I enjoy kissing ... I start off slowly ... there is an anticipation & built up as the kissing gets more intense.

Also love to bite his lower lip .. that usually tells him I am ready to just feel his .... :)

Well I hope this helped you out a little. :)
Enjoy yourself and have fun.
 
First of all the best response to someone telling you are a bad kisser or anything else for that matter is "so show me how to do it better".This will usually separate the men from the boys speaking metaphorically of course. If that person is unwilling to help you learn to be better they were probably just yanking your chain. It is an effective break up tool to critisize(sp) technique then while the person is still pondering the hit, make a clean getaway.

Assuming that you no longer have this person who told you this to help you find someone else. Kissing is something that you need to have hands on experience. It can be a friend that you trust or someone you've just met.Be honest tell them that you have had bad reports and want to get better.

Do you enjoy kissing or are you worrying about doing it right? That may contribute too. Kissing should be a sharing of yourself with that person. You want to touch your lips to theirs, your tongue to theirs. Again styles vary widely. Tune into that person. If you go to dinner observe how they eat their food fast, slow, savouring? This can give you clues as to how this person might approach intimacy too_Of couse if she is starving to death it might not be a good indicator. Tune into your partner.

Lastly, most women are savourers. Go slowly. Approach them like a decadent dessert taste each "bite". Enjoy each touch, nibble, caress, stroke.

Have fun
:) :) :)

Ok I just reread you response and I was totally not paying attention to what you said. Never mind the first two paragraphs. Maybe someone else is reading this that it will help. Just skip to the third paragraph. Sorry.
 
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My first kiss was a disaster. He jumped right in and tried attacking me with his tongue. It freaked me out so much that I barely did anything. I do not recommend doing this. LOL
 
Some Advice...maybe not the best though...

Whatever you've been told by movies, DON'T DO...trust women for advice on kissing.

Trust me on that!


Julian

:p
 
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