just suppose you had an affair with someone for over 5 years...

[hobbit.]

.........Stupid i know.......

And as if people on Lit would stab each other in the back...

 

[RawHumor]

Can you fill in the other 60% of your thought/question, please?

 

[passionkat]

ok...I'm supposing ...now what?

I would suppose that one would hurt themselves the most in the long run.

 

[Guest]

 

[surfwabo]

ok...I'm supposing ...now what?

I would suppose that one would hurt themselves the most in the long run.

off topic : you hv a HOT av.

 

[Peregrinator]

Can you fill in the other 60% of your thought/question, please?

And the first %40 as well?

 

[hobbit.]

And the first %40 as well?

well its like this, i have known a fellow litster for over 5 years now.... not sure if i should post the rest really at this point. due to 'legal' reasons etc.

 

[Peregrinator]

well its like this, i have known a fellow litster for over 5 years now.... not sure if i should post the rest really at this point. due to 'legal' reasons etc.

Okay, I'm trying to figure out what your purpose is here, and the best guess I have is that you are feeling aggrieved and letting that person know it without compromising confidentiality.

I'm not sure if you are the aggrieved, or just a witness.

Affairs suck.

 

[Guest]

 

[hobbit.]

Okay, I'm trying to figure out what your purpose is here, and the best guess I have is that you are feeling aggrieved and letting that person know it without compromising confidentiality.

I'm not sure if you are the aggrieved, or just a witness.

Affairs suck.

Nah

im a guilty party.

it was more of a PSA than anything.

I could compromise confidentiallity, but due to the very clever (or so they thought) games they were playing, it may suit them if i were unsubtle. but i do reserve that option.

 

[Guest]

 

[hobbit.]

So you mean know as in *known*
Why even post it if you arent gonna spill, ya tease!

do you mean 'as in shaging' ?

 

[Guest]

 

[honeylick]

well its like this, i have known a fellow litster for over 5 years now.... not sure if i should post the rest really at this point. due to 'legal' reasons etc.

but you've only been here at lit for a little over 2 years.

 

[hobbit.]

Sounds like you got hurt
Sorry

hurt, i dont mind, bizarley it goes with the turf. Being taken for a mug pisses me off though.

 

[hobbit.]

but you've only been here at lit for a little over 2 years.

so did i know this person before that?

 

[honeylick]

so did i know this person before that?

not sure babydoll, it's your story.

 

[vanelane]

*subscribing to thread 'cause I love a mystery*

 

[hobbit.]

*subscribing to thread 'cause I love a mystery*

Ah yes, but with names it would loose its mystery elemement.

 

[hobbit.]

not sure babydoll, it's your story.

yes i did.

 

[Peregrinator]

Nah

im a guilty party.

it was more of a PSA than anything.

I could compromise confidentiallity, but due to the very clever (or so they thought) games they were playing, it may suit them if i were unsubtle. but i do reserve that option.

I see...which one of you is the married one, or do you mean "affair" in the slightly more old-fashioned sense of "love affair?"

 

[hobbit.]

I see...which one of you is the married one, or do you mean "affair" in the slightly more old-fashioned sense of "love affair?"

you do love to spoil a good mystery don't you. i wonder if any of the regulars will fill in any spaces?


(or by the way, i realise that stuff written on pc's stays on the hard drive, and that peole do cut and paste from message boards)

 

[Lorelei_11]

you do love to spoil a good mystery don't you. i wonder if any of the regulars will fill in any spaces?


(or by the way, i realise that stuff written on pc's stays on the hard drive, and that peole do cut and paste from message boards)

Yeah, its hard to know when you can trust. Its hard to know if you'll be safe or not. Online is pretty bizaar way to have relationships.

Someone recently told me, that I should have that saying in my sigline. Just because Im paranoid, doesn't mean they're not out to get me.

I had an affair when I was married. Its not even in my nature, but after 10 years of sex every other year, I did it. Even good people aren't perfect. Anyway, whatever it is your going through, I hope you end up getting it resolved in a reasonable way.

 

[Peregrinator]

you do love to spoil a good mystery don't you. i wonder if any of the regulars will fill in any spaces?


(or by the way, i realise that stuff written on pc's stays on the hard drive, and that peole do cut and paste from message boards)

You won't even tell which version of the word you meant?

I'm trying like hell to find some way to say something kind to you, but I have nothing to go on....

 

[hobbit.]

Yeah, its hard to know when you can trust. Its hard to know if you'll be safe or not. Online is pretty bizaar way to have relationships.

Someone recently told me, that I should have that saying in my sigline. Just because Im paranoid, doesn't mean they're not out to get me.

I had an affair when I was married. Its not even in my nature, but after 10 years of sex every other year, I did it. Even good people aren't perfect. Anyway, whatever it is your going through, I hope you end up getting it resolved in a reasonable way.

its allready resolved in my head, after the first time we met in a hotel, this after many months of online chat,she said 'the first time is the hardest' quite loving really since i was a bit upset with myself at the time. oh and before anyone else says it, there is an elemement of truth in the saying 'a rampant cock knows no master'

ok so i'm a peice of shit for being a cheat. i have known that for a while. I now wait to see her version on line.

You still wish to stay hun? (thats to ...... nah lets see if she or her mate comes out shall we?)