It's NOT ok.

[satindesire]

You really are insane, aren't you? You said literally the exact opposite of that on the forum. That's why there were other women who called you out. That is EXACTLY what you were advocating and EXACTLY what I was trying to get you not to do. If you somehow magically started believing that because you realized you were wrong or somehow contorted it around in your head that that's what you were saying the entire time, then, my work is done.

Prove it. Copy paste the words then. Go ahead, I'll wait.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

So you don't think that teaching women to live by a schedual based on a fear of something that doesn't happen is the opposite of empowering? You really think it's a good idea to tell them that they're second-class citizens who shouldn't walk down an alley at night instead of focusing on the more common types of rape, like child abuse and domestic violence?

Or do you just want a soundbite that you think sounds witty?

Witty-sounding soundbite?? WTF?? I totally agree with you!! Here's the thing, though: there are 47 percent of women who believe that they are victims, who believe that they are entitled to safety, to respectful treatment, to you-name-it. ... Our job is not to worry about those people. We'll never convince them they should take personal responsibility and care for their lives!

 

[CandiCame]

You know, I just tried to do that, and found that I would basically be copy/pasting the entire thread.

As far as women calling you out;

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=42206763&postcount=154
http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=42211392&postcount=195
http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=42209444&postcount=179
http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=42219826&postcount=286

For everything else, just let folk go read the thread I guess. I don't want to copy/past the whole thing here.

 

[CandiCame]

Witty-sounding soundbite?? WTF?? I totally agree with you!! Here's the thing, though: there are 47 percent of women who believe that they are victims, who believe that they are entitled to safety, to respectful treatment, to you-name-it. ... Our job is not to worry about those people. We'll never convince them they should take personal responsibility and care for their lives!

Ok, man, that was actually funny.

*fistbump*

 

[Loverskitten]

http://i1239.photobucket.com/albums/ff512/Loverskitten/87534BE8-8883-4051-96C6-1AC2F615E079-3749-0000041E7F1D0C96.jpg

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Ok, man, that was actually funny.

*fistbump*

*FISTBUMP!!!*

http://i1239.photobucket.com/albums/ff512/Loverskitten/87534BE8-8883-4051-96C6-1AC2F615E079-3749-0000041E7F1D0C96.jpg

We are fistbumping some bitches' heads until they take some personal responsibility for this FUCKING CULTURE OF RAPE they keep fueling!!

Join our cause!!!

 

[CandiCame]

*FISTBUMP!!!*



We are fistbumping some bitches' heads until they take some personal responsibility for this FUCKING CULTURE OF RAPE they keep fueling!!

Join our cause!!!

Also, we may rape some rapists for raping. If there's time after the annual pancake breakfast.

 

[seela]

Is annual pancake breakfast ok?

 

[CandiCame]

Is annual pancake breakfast ok?

I'm not authorized to release that information.

 

[midwestyankee]

Is annual pancake breakfast ok?

I'm not sure, as my postmodern deconstructionist mind can't wrap itself around the solipsism that's washing around in the thread lately like the effluent from a giant DuPont Teflon plant. Apparently consuming maple syrup causes women to want to be raped and men to fear being accused of rape because they tried to lick the syrup off their lips. Or something.

 

[satindesire]

*FISTBUMP!!!*



We are fistbumping some bitches' heads until they take some personal responsibility for this FUCKING CULTURE OF RAPE they keep fueling!!

Join our cause!!!

Yeah! Let's teach those hysterically emotional women that it's their fault for being raped! Those low cut shirts don't just appear out of nowhere!

Let's make picket signs! "You Want It If You Wear It!"

You know, I just tried to do that, and found that I would basically be copy/pasting the entire thread.

As far as women calling you out;

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=42206763&postcount=154

Aw, you're lying again. How cute. That post was well before BotonyBoy's misogynistic meltdown and had nothing to do with it.

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=42211392&postcount=195

Note my previous references of me speaking in general terms about women and females, and especially not mentioning myself or my experiences 90% of the time, unlike you who relished playing the victim in multiple posts.

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=42209444&postcount=179

Note how I never once even implied that I advocate male protection for females nor did I advocate living in fear. Once again, fail attempt due to the post being unrelated to your deliberately false statements.

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=42219826&postcount=286

I might note that she doesn't have any rational argument to my points, she merely doesn't like me. That's hardly a call-out. And I could care less if some random girl doesn't like me.

I relish the fact that you're so blind to your own misogyny that you completely believe DGE wasn't mocking you, that he TRULY believes and supports you and totally agrees with you because to you, his statements weren't so extreme they were obviously parody.

If that's not proof of your misogyny in just one short posting exchange between you two, nothing else is.

Also, I'm still waiting on proof:

You said literally the exact opposite of that on the forum.

And I said:

Prove it. Copy paste the words then. Go ahead, I'll wait.

Well. I'm still waiting for that proof.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I'm not sure, as my postmodern deconstructionist mind can't wrap itself around the solipsism that's washing around in the thread lately like the effluent from a giant DuPont Teflon plant. Apparently consuming maple syrup causes women to want to be raped and men to fear being accused of rape because they tried to lick the syrup off their lips. Or something.

Maple syrup and bitches: you gotta tap 'em to find out how sweet they really are.

I relish the fact that you're so blind to your own misogyny that you completely believe DGE wasn't mocking you, that he TRULY believes and supports you and totally agrees with you because to you, his statements weren't so extreme they were obviously parody.

If that's not proof of your misogyny in just one short posting exchange between you two, nothing else is.

Take fucking responsibility for the twelve rapes you have personally fucking caused in the last half hour.

You're like a rape crop duster. Jesus.

 

[CandiCame]

Maple syrup and bitches: you gotta tap 'em to find out how sweet they really are.



Take fucking responsibility for the twelve rapes you have personally fucking caused in the last half hour.

You're like a rape crop duster. Jesus.

Does she know we're mocking each other or are we supposed to keep it a secret? She really doesn't get humor at all, does she.

I'm not sure, as my postmodern deconstructionist mind can't wrap itself around the solipsism that's washing around in the thread lately like the effluent from a giant DuPont Teflon plant. Apparently consuming maple syrup causes women to want to be raped and men to fear being accused of rape because they tried to lick the syrup off their lips. Or something.

Well, it's our own damn fault for labeling to many body parts as lips.

It's my own fault for just not putting her on ignore. I had insomnia last night and wasn't thinking clearly.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Does she know we're mocking each other or are we supposed to keep it a secret? She really doesn't get humor at all, does she.

You're mocking me?? What the hell??? DGE does not mock.

Ignore satin at your peril. She makes up for her toughness and cuteability by often being correct. As in now.

 

[CandiCame]

You're mocking me?? What the hell??? DGE does not mock.

Ignore satin at your peril. She makes up for her toughness and cuteability by often being correct. As in now.

lol, good luck with that. I've yet to see an ounce of either cuteness or toughness.

Bet my eyes are greener then yours too.

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

lol, good luck with that. I've yet to see an ounce of either cuteness or toughness.

Bet my eyes are greener than yours too.

Fixed that for you. Round here bad grammar is not ok.

 

[CandiCame]

Fixed that for you. Round here bad grammar is not ok.

This is sad but I don't know what you changed.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

lol, good luck with that. I've yet to see an ounce of either cuteness or toughness.

Bet my eyes are greener than yours too.

Fixed that for you. Round here bad grammar is not ok.

This is sad but I don't know what you changed.

Since you seem unable to proofread your own posts, herewith my first post to you (and last, since you are now going on my very short Ignore list), showing the correction CiC made in bold red. NOW can you see it?

 

[Miles Long]

Sweet Jesus! It is NOT ok that I just read this whole thread. Is there a full moon going on or what?


It is, however, totally ok that the following post is so smart and well written it makes my dick hard.

This was on Dear Cupid:


(OP in RED, Me in Black) I have been seeing this really nice guy for the past 4 months. His "niceness" is starting to bother me, in that I find him to be not as masculine as I'd like him to be. He is the type who always has a smile on his face, who is always polite, helpful, and generous. For some reason though, the nicer he is the more turned off I become. I feel that he won't be able to protect me because he isn't intimidating on the outside. Am I just being completely ridiculous? He genuinely cares about me and is a very sincere person. I keep comparing him to my ex boyfriend of two years, who was very manly but was a little overbearing at times.

Does any other woman share my feelings towards a genuinely nice man?

You equate politeness as weakness.

You equate niceness as femininity.

Holding onto antiquated gender roles isn't going to get you anywhere in a relationship. It's time to let go of outdated standards of what a "real man" is and appreciate him for who he is, not some ridiculous standard of "real masculinity".

Intimidating people do that due to fear of being hurt. Preemptive aggression is a shield for intense vulnerability. Those are not truly masculine traits, those are defense mechanisms of the weak-willed and cowardly.

Your boyfriend is strong enough and comfortable enough with himself to be kind. To let down his guard and smile. Because he KNOWS in his heart that he's a good man. A REAL MAN. That's a good thing, not something you should look down on.

I really hope that you start opening your eyes to how the world really works. Feminists fought to get women equal rights to men, to be treated equally as human beings. Holding him to obsolete masculinity standards would be as ridiculous as him complaining that you can vote and you're not barefoot, pregnant and in the kitchen.

 

[CandiCame]

Since you seem unable to proofread your own posts, herewith my first post to you (and last, since you are now going on my very short Ignore list), showing the correction CiC made in bold red. NOW can you see it?

Ah.

Yeah, I don't proof my own stories either, but folks seem to like them.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Yeah they can.

But the reason that it's funny for this part of the thread rather then the gb is because of my giant subness. That kind of makes my apparent "sexism" even more hilarious.

Plenty of subs are plenty sexist. And you are not a woman.

I'm sorry that you don't know the difference between a compliment and harassment. I really am. It must make your life very sad. But that's no reason to blast someone for advocating for real rape victims just because you like to pretend that you're being oppressed. It's getting old.

It's astonishing how many men can't tell the difference between a compliment and harassment. Or pretend they can't. It's been old for a couple hundred years. But yanno-- it's real nice for them, even if not so much for the women who endure the "compliments."

"...overreaction creates the rape culture."

You FUCKING ROCK!!! YES!! I love that! It's like I've been saying for years: it's the overuse of umbrellas that causes all this fucking rain.

QFT

 

[CandiCame]

Plenty of subs are plenty sexist. And you are not a woman.It's astonishing how many men can't tell the difference between a compliment and harassment. Or pretend they can't. It's been old for a couple hundred years. But yanno-- it's real nice for them, even if not so much for the women who endure the "compliments."


QFT

In context that comment made sense. She spent a good five pages on another thread calling me a rapist for being a man who told her that she didn't have to live in fear because stranger rape is actually quite rare, and that as a society we should focus more on rapes that are more likely to occur, such as date-rape, domestic abuse, and child abuse. And apparently because I advocate for actual victims instead of kissing her ass when she tried to play the victim card it made me a rapist.

When she got laughed out of the thread she started it in, she apparently came here, because I did a vanity search for my name and found it here. I would be the LAST person in the world to be a rapist, because of how sex works for me- if I have to manipulate someone into it, then I won't get off. And the last person in the world to accuse of sexism, just because the concept is foreign to me- I don't even really have a gender to be able to have a sexist point from- not to say that you can't, but it's a strange accusation. I actually never brought up gender and used several different sexes/genders in my examples. She was obsessed with this strange idea that all men were rapists, and when she was called out on it by both men and women, she ran here. So I thought I'd pop in here, where she had blasted my name and clear that up. Even posting randomly on the internet that's not something one wants floating around.

I posted a link to the original thread. You've always been really intelligent Stella, and you helped me a lot when I was first discovering myself. You were the last person I would think would encourage her in behavior like that. That... kind of hurts.

 

[midwestyankee]

Ah.

Yeah, I don't proof my own stories either, but folks seem to like them.

You're aware, aren't you, that the world contains people who get their rocks off looking at vegetables? Why is it any surprise, then, that a story, however badly written and containing nothing that might, in a reasonable world, be considered either a character or a plot, still receives raves from the ranks of fappers and wankers that rate stories around here.

 

[CandiCame]

You're aware, aren't you, that the world contains people who get their rocks off looking at vegetables? Why is it any surprise, then, that a story, however badly written and containing nothing that might, in a reasonable world, be considered either a character or a plot, still receives raves from the ranks of fappers and wankers that rate stories around here.

This isn't the only site i post on, but that's a good point. I probably cater to the 'bad grammar' fetishes.

So, you know... good for them!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Dude, look. I am very glad and proud of you that you know that most rapes happen with men that the victim knows, something that the police have a lot of trouble understanding. However. Although it's true that stranger rape is rarer than date rape and other forms of rape, it's still a legitimate fear for women.

Have you've ever heard of Schrodinger's cat? because of quantum uncertainty, we don't know if it's dead or alive until we open the box to see, and, in fact the act of opening the box decides whether it's dead or alive.

Well, women face Schrodinger's rapist. Because of uncertainties that women have no control over, every man we face is, potentially, a rapist. And the only way we find that out is if he rapes us or not.

You might not like that notion. You might think it's overreaction. Tough noogies. You do not get to decide which woman is a "real victim" and who isn't. I -- tough butch me-- am a victim too, every time I decide not to walk down a street because I might be raped. That's also victimhood, that entirely sensible fear takes away my freedom of choice.

SatinDesire doesn't always phrase things in the best ways. But sorry, although you might think she was laughed out of the thread, that doesn't mean her argument is wrong. it just means that some people decided to laugh, and she stopped worrying about their opinions.