it hurts because we care,

[lala]

please read all of this as what it is, no more, no less

yes, we have the right to have and share an opinion, positive or not.

the reason so many fights break out on this board is because we do care what other people do and say and think.

this is real, so why are treating each other like it's not? these are just like RL relationships,... people get hurt, and retaliate.

i want you all to look at what you've created with each other, and what you've destroyed. i hope that you are like sibs and/or mates, i'd like to see you eventually look at each other and say,(warning! joke on the way!) "let's just not talk about this, and let it become one more issue i will carry around until i break down and have to see a therapist"

because at some point, things will end. arguments will push one or both parties away, or tire their vocabularies, or laurel will produce a tire iron (another funny) and calmness will prevail, even for a short time.

i eagerly await the calm before the next storm.

Please share your thoughts on my thoughts and what have you.

if you want to say something mean, it better be to me, if it's about someone else, take it to a thread already dedicated to shit flinging, or start your own, everyone has that right.

 

[Nogard]

Because no one is accountable when they are on a board like this. You can say what you like because no one knows who you are. Not one person would look someone in the eye and say these kind of things. Bascially they are cowards hiding behind an assumed name. Aren't we proud to know them?

 

[Laurel]

By that definition, Nogard, we are all cowards hiding behind assumed names. Including you, including me.

 

[Guest]

Bascially they are cowards hiding behind an assumed name. Aren't we proud to know them?

I know you are but what am I?

 

[lala]

i prefer a certain amount of anonymity so i can say what i want without people telling me it's uncharacteristic of me, etc. everything has more than one angle, that's why it's so easy to misunderstand and twist what other people write/say, but why are people so mean?