Is he too good to be true?

[lilminx]

The guy I'm currently dating is going to Jamaica tomorrow until Monday. He's going with his two brothers, one of which is going to a wedding.

He brought me over dinner once before- stuff he made at home.

Tonight, he brought stuff to make dinner- he cooked it and washed all the dishes afterwards. He then gave me a massage. He knows I'm, uh, out of comission right now (don't ask), yet he still wanted to come over to see me. He would have stayed over (no sex) if he could, but he has to be at the airport at 4 am.

He has a great job, respects women, is very sweet to me without being fake, loves to kiss, and is extremely sexual.

I'm thinking either that there is something seriously wrong with him, or that I'm an extremely lucky woman for finding him.

 

[curious2c]

Sounds like you caught a keeper for sure.

 

[lavender]

 

[lobito]

some guys actually are good like that Minxie...

 

[InnocentAngel81]

Dont be so negative, your just very lucky, hold on to him

 

[Aphrodisiac]

I'm thinking either that there is something seriously wrong with him, or that I'm an extremely lucky woman for finding him.

lilminx,

You are lucky ...

But, you know its not that rare to find nice sexy considerate men ... some times men are given a " bad rap" ... but overall out there in this vast world .. there are true men.

I have come across some of these true men ... so I know they exsist and they are not a figment of my imagination.

 

[lavender]

 

[Purrde Flower]

I was gonna joke and say he is gay but I was afriad I might get jumped. My oldest friend and I always joked around that the perfect men for us out there were gay . '


From what you are saying though it definatly sounds like this is a guy to keep around.. for a long while

 

[Debbie]

I questioned bigrednz when I first started dating him. My hang up not his. He was and is a really nice guy.
You are a lucky lady. Hope this continues and you start posting happy smilies and hearts everywhere.

 

[Mr. Bootie]

Sounds like you've found a winner Sexy Shedevil.

Take your time sweetie and enjoy the moments you have together. I'm so glad that you have found somone that respects you and treats you well.



( Just let me know if I need to check him out. *wink*)



Love,

Big Brother *smiles*



kgboot
aka "Mr. Bootie"

 

[MissTaken]

Sometimes, when we aren't used to the kind of behavior that many women experience on a daily basis, it seems too good to be true.

It is really hard to let go of all the negative mist left over from the men we thought we needed to accept what "too good " offers.

It is funny.
I am like you, minxie.
I am not accustomed to being treated with consideration , but yet, my brothers would never dream of treating their wives the way I have been treated.

So, my head knows it happens.
When it happens to me, I question it.

Embrace it, hon.

Enjoy!

 

[lilminx]

Re: Re: Is he too good to be true?

But, you know its not that rare to find nice sexy considerate men ...

Try living in NYC and then tell me this- LOL.

Lavy, Saturday night when he stayed over he wanted to hold me the whole night- I normally hate that, but I didn't mind it with him. And yes, he woke me up by kissing the back of my neck.

The funny thing is, we were talking before and I was telling him how sweet he is. He told me that he's been told he's the most heartless guy people know, yet he's not like that with me. I've also been called "cold" by more than one person, yet I feel very affectionate towards him.

Thanks for all the warm wishes from everyone else. I'm just so afraid I'm going to fuck it all up somehow. We've only had 4 dates so far, and aren't exclusive (I know he's dating 2 other people, and I'm not going to turn down a date if I get asked by someone I'm interested in), but we started discussing the idea of not seeing other people. I just feel like it's going to fast, but I don't have too much of a desire to fuck around with anyone else right now. There MUST be something wrong with me- it's so untypical!

 

[Jim_Henson]

Does he kiss your back to wake you up in the morning? I've decided to add that criteria to my list in the future.

Love bites on the neck arent good enough nowadays?

 

[lobito]

sometimes, peoples' ways change when they meet someone they are "compatible with". MAYBE this is the one, even if it's too early to tell.

 

[Devilish1]

I say grab him while you can.... he sounds great to me... see if he has any brothers NOT getting married

 

[Master Control]

I'm thinking either that there is something seriously wrong with him, or that I'm an extremely lucky woman for finding him.

This is all a dream and when you wake up you will be in reality..

 

[lilminx]

I say grab him while you can.... he sounds great to me... see if he has any brothers NOT getting married

Lol- sorry hon, but his brothers are all much older than him, and they're married. I don't think you'd want to relocate to NY anyway.

 

[LovetoGiveRoses]

Good luck.

 

[Devilish1]

Lol- sorry hon, but his brothers are all much older than him, and they're married. I don't think you'd want to relocate to NY anyway.

Dangit.


Oh well, it was worth a shot.

 

[Mischka]

Very cool, minxie. That's exactly how you should be treated.

And now the important question - what'd he make you for dinner?

 

[lilminx]

Thanks, LTGR and Mischka.

Well, he brought fresh ravioli from a place that he goes to in Brooklyn, and he brought stuff to make homemade sauce. Simple, but good. Last week he brought me over curry chicken that he had made. That was also really good. What surprised me the most was that he wouldn't let me wash the dishes even though he cooked.

He called me a little earlier from Jamaica just to say "hi" and to tell me that he was thinking about me. What a sweetheart. I think I'm going to have to make him some really good cookies or something for when he gets back.

By the way, Misch, I have your av on my keychain in blue.

 

[Cheyenne]

Does he kiss your back to wake you up in the morning? I've decided to add that criteria to my list in the future.

Hey, you don't have a future list. You're off the market!

 

[islandman]

The guy I'm currently dating is going to Jamaica tomorrow until Monday. He's going with his two brothers, one of which is going to a wedding.

He brought me over dinner once before- stuff he made at home.

Tonight, he brought stuff to make dinner- he cooked it and washed all the dishes afterwards. He then gave me a massage. He knows I'm, uh, out of comission right now (don't ask), yet he still wanted to come over to see me. He would have stayed over (no sex) if he could, but he has to be at the airport at 4 am.

He has a great job, respects women, is very sweet to me without being fake, loves to kiss, and is extremely sexual.

I'm thinking either that there is something seriously wrong with him, or that I'm an extremely lucky woman for finding him.

The latter. Enjoy yourself.

 

[Mischka]

By the way, Misch, I have your av on my keychain in blue.

I'm tempted to change back to Stockard just to confuse future readers.

 

[lilminx]

I'm tempted to change back to Stockard just to confuse future readers.

You mean the Pink Lady in blue isn't a common keychain?