Insatiable desire to Dom

[CarverDA]

I am a married male, 41 yrs old, and have an uncontrollable urge towant to tie my wife and then spank her. We have done this in the past and she seemed to enjoy it but now doesn't want to go along. Bondage and spanking and control fantasies are all that I think of . I need help in being able to act these things out with her or??? I really love the sex we have but it just doean't take me to that gritty edge that a good bondage/spanking session does...Help. Advise is welcome!!

 

[AngelicAssassin]

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=197064

 

[catalina_francisco]

I am a married male, 41 yrs old, and have an uncontrollable urge towant to tie my wife and then spank her. We have done this in the past and she seemed to enjoy it but now doesn't want to go along. Bondage and spanking and control fantasies are all that I think of . I need help in being able to act these things out with her or??? I really love the sex we have but it just doean't take me to that gritty edge that a good bondage/spanking session does...Help. Advise is welcome!!

Communicate your needs as openly and honestly as you can, especially the level of importance you feel they hold for your happiness....and ask why she is no longer willing, listen honestly and without your needy voice in your head at the time, and see if it is something you can both work with. Good luck.

Catalina

 

[WriterDom]

You can lead your wife to the spanking bench, but you can't tie her down without consent.

So you really only have 4 options.

1. Divorce her.

2. Fuck around on her, or get her to agree to an open marriage.

3. Persuade her to play.

4. Be happy with her the best way you can.

A parade of all types have posted here with the same partner issues, and I've never seen one report back with a success story. But who knows, you could be the first.

 

[rosco rathbone]

You can lead your wife to the spanking bench, but you can't tie her down without consent.

So you really only have 4 options.

1. Divorce her.

2. Fuck around on her, or get her to agree to an open marriage.

3. Persuade her to play.

4. Be happy with her the best way you can.

A parade of all types have posted here with the same partner issues, and I've never seen one report back with a success story. But who knows, you could be the first.

A man with a true insatiable desire to dom will just end up leaving his partner or cheating on her if he can't get what he wants. Sad, really.

 

[YinandYang]

Talk, Communicate? She obviously has enjoyed some aspect of your playtime. Maybe she needs to work up to it more slowly? Its possible her bounderies may move further than her current limits as time goes by.

Good luck