in training and i made a mistake

[michelina]

I have known him for 6 months and in training now for two weeks.

 

[LadyG]

So you should know him in a non Dom role quite well then?

If so, then you should have some idea of how he reacts to things that irritate him.

I'm sure that if you're honest with yourself, you already know whether this is punishment or end of the line.

 

[michelina]

I am not sure. When we just had a "vanilla" relationship if I did something that irritated him he would discuss it with me. But, now that our relationship is non-vanilla, I dont know why the communication has stopped.

 

[LadyG]

If you had a 'nilla relationship for 6 months and had no problems communicating, then I'd assume this is your punishment.

If he's just ended things and not told you? He's not worth your time or effort, Dom or not.

 

[Four_Inch_Heels]

My preferred punishment, and the one that seems the most effective, is lack of attention/communication. This gives Me time to cool off, and gives them time to think about what they did to displease Me.

BUT, I would never cut off communication without telling them why, and for how long.

If their relationship is over, He should have the decency to let her know.

 

[garylee]

any advice?

yes...........behave yourself....
try to learn to separate your outside work world away from your personal life.....even if you have to take a walk after you get home and park the car.....do whatever it takes....to keep your 2 worlds apart....

but this is just me..you DID ask,............

garylee

 

[mstrnsvnt]

My preferred punishment, and the one that seems the most effective, is lack of attention/communication. This gives Me time to cool off, and gives them time to think about what they did to displease Me.

BUT, I would never cut off communication without telling them why, and for how long.

If their relationship is over, He should have the decency to let her know.

I totally agree. Open communication is the basis of a any kind of dom/sub relationship.

He should have the decency AND balls to let her know.