I'm really beginning to believe....

That the lack of good sex in a marriage can make a person cranky, and irritable.

The lack of satisfying sex in a relationship is damaging. While sex isn't everything, it is important because it is where you build trust and intimacy. There are things that you can have with friends outside of your marriage, such as certain interests, but satisfying sex is a must in a romantic relationship. I totally believe that it was one of the factors that ended my marriage because we could not take comfort in each other through physical pleasure and intimacy to help build our bond.
 
I’m really beginning to believe that being a cranky and irritable person can lead to a lack of satisfying sex in a marriage. Bit of a Catch22 there.
Love the Joseph Heller reference
 
I’m really beginning to believe that being a cranky and irritable person can lead to a lack of satisfying sex in a marriage. Bit of a Catch22 there.
That nails it. I have a much higher libido than my wife and sex is pretty occasional, BUT I'm a very easygoing person and don't pester her for it. I like wanking and she doesn't mind when I do. And we get on really well in every other aspect of what makes a relationship work, so it's all good.
 
That nails it. I have a much higher libido than my wife and sex is pretty occasional, BUT I'm a very easygoing person and don't pester her for it. I like wanking and she doesn't mind when I do. And we get on really well in every other aspect of what makes a relationship work, so it's all good.
This is the only way to address it. I went through the resent, complain stage. Didn't change anything. Moved into my own bedroom so I can can masturbate in peace
 
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