I'm really beginning to believe....

That the lack of good sex in a marriage can make a person cranky, and irritable.
It sure does because it brings up feelings of insecurity and resentment. I have the same old story as everyone else. Started great, slowly started getting worse and worse and I’m sure my attitude didn’t help.

Eventually it has started to improve again, it’s just a shame I had to waste so many years.
 
True, but also horny
Whats the point if being horny when you can't get what you need from your partner? I've always found it quite depressing and frustrating until recently when I found my Master lol.
 
That nails it. I have a much higher libido than my wife and sex is pretty occasional, BUT I'm a very easygoing person and don't pester her for it. I like wanking and she doesn't mind when I do. And we get on really well in every other aspect of what makes a relationship work, so it's all good.
Thanks for saying for me what I would have said. 👍
 
Heres my situation. We are in our 60's now. When we where younger the sex was out of this world! Bondage, toys, christ we sleep with one of our tenets.
Menopauce killed this and you have to adapt.
Obviously Menopause is different from woman to woman. We went through a period of the " I'm too dry" looking for medical solutions which is toxic crap.
I did tell her no sex wasn't an option and if she was done I wanted her blessing to go elsewhere for that. Miraculously with a little more time, her realization that I do really enjoy giving her oral, I do have copious amounts of precum which " is the perfect lube we should bottle and sell it" The sex returned in our marriage. Not like we were in our 30's but still at least once a week sometimes twice on a weekend.
I'm not getting any younger myself and age is starting to have it's effects on me also.
 
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