I'm getting hooked on cheating

What you’re describing isn’t just cheating, it’s a reclaiming. A reclaiming of your desire, your autonomy, the parts of yourself that routine and monogamy sometimes quietly bury. The sneaking around, the double life, the delicious tension of almost getting caught… it’s not just about sex. It’s about feeling alive.
This!and this is exactly what draws me to women like this.
 
I feel that sex is sex and love is something much greater. I wish society was more accepting of sex as a healthy form of expression. I would not have a problem with my wife being sexually active with others as long as it was done respectfully and didn’t interfere with our relationship.
ich denke es gibt auch andere Ehemänner die so denken und dadurch ein Plus beim Sex haben!
 
Hello, new here. It’s nice to know, I’m not alone and be seen without judgment.
I’m in similar situation as the OP, I’ve been married for 20+ yes and I’ve had a friends with benefits thing going on with an old coworker for just as long. I’ve also done some other naughty stuff with other male friends . I don’t regret any of it in fact it’s my own secret indulgence and I love it.
 
Hello, new here. It’s nice to know, I’m not alone and be seen without judgment.
I’m in similar situation as the OP, I’ve been married for 20+ yes and I’ve had a friends with benefits thing going on with an old coworker for just as long. I’ve also done some other naughty stuff with other male friends . I don’t regret any of it in fact it’s my own secret indulgence and I love it.
It does not make you a bad person if nobody is hurt. I think that’s the most important thing.
 
Something similar is happening to me , I want to continue but he wants to just be with the other girl couple. And I am very jelous of her because she is younger and prettier. He wants to spend more time with her alone and we are not doing swinging as often. And when we do we go to separate rooms.
 
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Hello, new here. It’s nice to know, I’m not alone and be seen without judgment.
I’m in similar situation as the OP, I’ve been married for 20+ yes and I’ve had a friends with benefits thing going on with an old coworker for just as long. I’ve also done some other naughty stuff with other male friends . I don’t regret any of it in fact it’s my own secret indulgence and I love it.
I’d love to be a part of it
 
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