I'm sure I'll get judged for this but, whatever. For some context, we had done a bit of swinging until he said that he wanted us to stop. I told him I would, but I continued having my own fun. At first, it was just about wanting to continue having fun with others and enjoying new experiences, but in recent months I've really started to get a thrill out of the sneaking around and coming home after being someone else's dirty slut without my husband having a clue. The last thing I want is for me not to be able to enjoy sex for the lack of the thrill of cheating, but it has truly become such an addicting feeling that I've been really pushing the boundaries. Almost like I'm trying to see how far I can take things before I get caught. And maybe it's that danger. That makes it so enticing as well. Don't know if anyone else can relate but it has been an incredibly fun year for me.
I'm getting hooked on cheating
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Justfantasies
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Some of us just aren't built to be with only one partner
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You little minx! I wonder if your husband will get as excited as I am when he discovers your indulgence
I have a feeling there won’t be much judgement here. Personally, I think there’s nothing hotter than when a married woman cheats with another man!
I feel that sex is sex and love is something much greater. I wish society was more accepting of sex as a healthy form of expression. I would not have a problem with my wife being sexually active with others as long as it was done respectfully and didn’t interfere with our relationship.
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It’s a lot more common than you probably realize.
I personally prefer everyone to be honest, but been with lots of married ladies who for whatever reason were not getting it at home.
One in particular married woman was just like you and loved the thrill. She would message me and say to her husband she was going to a certain store in my town. That was the code for she wanted it. She would come to mine first for a good seeing to and then go to the store, before returning home to her unaware husband.
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I wish my wife would indulge as you do.
alwaystheguy1983
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My wife has the freedom to do as she pleases. She just lets me know if she's going out or if he's coming over
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Bump ...cheat...bump
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I agree 100% society makes it unacceptable. On TV alone they demonize it. Sex is the most natural thing in nature. You can have a partner that you love doing everyday things with and a partner that you love having sex with. Sometimes you get both sometimes you don't, sometimes people change. As long as its not thrown in the other persons face.
Think about how many less divorces there would be.
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Cheating sex…always better then romantic sex
As evidenced by my comments in countless threads and my published stories, I don't judge you whatsoever for enjoying sex with other men. ..But I do think you should be honest with your husband.
If my wife texts me and says, "hey... there's a guy at the conference who's asking me back to his room to fuck.. Are you ok w/ it?" I'd say "yes! of course!" and be giddy with excitement for her. ...But finding out after the fact and not from her telling me but some other way? ..That would feel like betrayal. ..Just being honest.
Do you truly and deeply love your husband? I don't ask that to be judgmental, I'm just wondering if maybe you're unhappy being married to him and you're looking for a way to end it. ..If so, there are kinder ways to do it.
If my wife texts me and says, "hey... there's a guy at the conference who's asking me back to his room to fuck.. Are you ok w/ it?" I'd say "yes! of course!" and be giddy with excitement for her. ...But finding out after the fact and not from her telling me but some other way? ..That would feel like betrayal. ..Just being honest.
Do you truly and deeply love your husband? I don't ask that to be judgmental, I'm just wondering if maybe you're unhappy being married to him and you're looking for a way to end it. ..If so, there are kinder ways to do it.
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Same
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I would love to have this conversation with my wife. I’d rather know about it and support her rather than her lying and sneaking behind my back.
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I would love this
alwaystheguy1983
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It's been a wonderful 18 years
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Mmm
Oh its fun and exciting. Hunt , chase , catch. But it can be dangerous. Someone always wants more out of the relationship. Thats when things start to get ugly. Someone usually gets hurt or upset. Dont think your partner doesnt know, they just tend to turn a blind eye...But people dont forget. Oh my hormones have got the best of me...
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That is so true
My wife did this years ago at a tax conference in Las Vegas, except she did not call me and ask. It was several years before she confessed to me about it. But then, she did not intend to have sex with him and let things get out of control. Would I have said okay if she had asked? I do not know. I know I would say okay now.
For me, it's about honesty. After we'd been married for around 20 years I told my wife I was henceforth fine with her having occasional casual sex w/ other men, with a few reasonable preconditions and caveats - the most important being that she tells me beforehand.
When we were younger, just the thought of another man giving my wife an orgasm would upset and disorient me. Hence, we were 100% monogamous for over 20yrs - which is longer than most marriages last... But nowadays, thinking of my wife with another man gives me a huge rush, without the slightest bit of jealousy. Why? Because after all we've been through and all we've built together during those first 20 yrs I'm now certain no man is going to take my wife from me and our beautiful life together over something as transient as an orgasm. So why would I stand in the way of her having it?
But honesty and sticking to the rules is key...
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I 100% relate to this. My first marriage was pretty bad, so I began cheating as a means to have sex. Quickly, the excitement became thrilling, an addiction that I constantly wanted more of. I don't ever feel like I was pushing limits to see how far I could go before being caught, but she did find evidence of a few of my affairs. When I realiz d her finding out didn't bother, I knew there was no going back.
I ended up falling for the woman I'm married to now. She was single, but I was married when we started having sex. Being with her gave me the courage to leave my ex. Now I'm in a fulfilling relationship AND she enjoys hearing about my flings while married to my ex. I no longer go looking for affairs in real life, but I don't avoid temptation when it arrives. I also enjoy talking to like-minded people on Lit about this very topic. Cheating has become a fetish for me, but luckily my wife is awesome and I'm able to have fulfilling sex with her despite myself.
I absolutely love cheating sex.
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Yes I can totally relate to this.
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I have more sex in my ex-wife divorced and she was getting fucked by other guys and I was fucking my new girlfriend we would get together because it was so naughty and have sex
