I'm considering having a lezzy-type experience and I'd like some suggestions.

[perks]

No fair. You started it.

I gotta run out for a bit. Will someone help while I'm gone?

<grin> you are so beautiful, lexaaaaah.

When you bump into that girl
you know, the one with the eyes,
and her tongue flicks out to wet her lips,
you'll know, she's the one.

You'll talk
but the conversation
will be with your fingertips
and your skin

and then you'll know.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Alex,

The way I did it the first time was to answer ads in the local alternative weekly. There was, much to my delight, an entire section devoted to women looking for women. Also, most ads clearly spell out what the person is looking for, i.e., long-term lesbian relationship, verses first-time bi-curiousity, and everything in between.

I ended up meeting one woman for dinner after we'd talked on the phone a few times and we went back to my place that first night. I was so nervous until we actually were skin to skin in bed together and then it was so wonderful and natural. Her and I, and eventually her boyfriend on occasion, had some wonderful times together.

Or, you could just fly to Reno.

 

[Dillinger]

Can I fly to Reno and watch? I promise to be.. uh... good... yes... uh huh.

 

[Rubyfruit]

That's alright by me, Dilly. But you'll have to give Alex and I time to, um, get to know each other before you jump in.

You know me, there can never be enough hard monster cock around.

 

[Dillinger]

I can handle that...

Unless, of course, I stop in Shytown and see Alex first...

 

[Rubyfruit]

Maybe I should come there first. There is someone else I'd also be very interested in meeting in that area.

 

[Mischka]

There's this one woman who gave me her number at a bar last week. She told me she had been watching me all night and thought I was beautiful and that she wanted me to model for her in the clothes she sells in her store. I was completely flattered and thought nothing else of it. My friend said "obviously, she was hitting on you."

I didn't see it. I'm just not that sharp.

Is that really what this means? I had a woman do the exact same thing to me at a restaurant where I was dining alone, but it was for makeup instead of clothes. I had no desire to model anything, so I didn't call. It never dawned on me that her invitation was for anything other than a modeling job. Huh.

 

[Dillinger]

Party in Chicago!

 

[Rubyfruit]

Is that really what this means? I had a woman do the exact same thing to me at a restaurant where I was dining alone, but it was for makeup instead of clothes. I had no desire to model anything, so I didn't call. It never dawned on me that her invitation was for anything other than a modeling job. Huh.

Mischka, personally, I would never assume under your scenario or Alex's, that the woman was hitting on me. She'd have to be a bit more forward for me to get the hint.

Dilly, I'm so there. Chicago in springtime.....sounds lovely.

 

[Dillinger]

I'm fairly flexible... I could probably manage it...

 

[Mischka]

Mischka, personally, I would never assume under your scenario or Alex's, that the woman was hitting on me. She'd have to be a bit more forward for me to get the hint.

OK, good to know. I'm rather clueless in such areas.

 

[Dillinger]

Mish Mash - you really need to get out more...

 

[Mischka]

Mish Mash - you really need to get out more...

Tell me about it. I overheard two people making plans to go out after class on Thursday, and I was hit with a pang of jealousy. I didn't want to be invited to join them, I just wanna go out. I barely remember the outside world...

 

[Dillinger]

Oh hell - you get to go out with lavy and her bodacious ta tas!

And you're complaining?

I'd kill to go out with you two!

 

[Cibo]

Sorry to go off topic, but which bar was this at?

 

[alexandraaah]

Is that really what this means? I had a woman do the exact same thing to me at a restaurant where I was dining alone, but it was for makeup instead of clothes. I had no desire to model anything, so I didn't call. It never dawned on me that her invitation was for anything other than a modeling job. Huh.

There was more to it than what I wrote. She sort of cornered me and my friend watched the whole interaction. I would never assume based on the modeling thing that she was interested...I guess she did have that, "I prefer pussy" look to her.

Ruby...my geography is godawful, but I'm repeating a road trip this summer that I did last. I know I went through Nevada, but I'm embarassed to say that I have to look at a map to see where Reno is. I'll get back to you.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Northern Nevada, honey. Just below Lake Tahoe and no where near Vegas.

 

[LukkyKnight]

What should I do?

...What's a bi-curious girl to do?

My advice: avoid the "lesbian trapped in a man's body" scene... they may or may not be telling the truth, but it's bound to be very unlike another woman's body, ya know?

 

[alexandraaah]

I'm dappled and drowsy and ready to sleep let the morning time drop all it's petals on me...