I'm a little weepy tonight

[TemptressRaven]

...I just feel awful and every time I look at myself I see nothing but an ugly girl in the mirror *sigh* I don't want to see myself this way, but I do


I wish I was skinny...I wish I could wear cute clothes again.....I wish so many things right now

 

[The Jeffinator]

Awww. *huggles* Cheer up, things will get better.

 

[babydoll2u]

...I just feel awful and every time I look at myself I see nothing but an ugly girl in the mirror *sigh* I don't want to see myself this way, but I do


I wish I was skinny...I wish I could wear cute clothes again.....I wish so many things right now

good dawd how well I understand hun.
even tho we're bbw's, we still have our "down" days

 

[fun1269u]

<<Tight Hug>>>

Hope your starting to feel better!

Mirrors are the root of all evil. Outer beauty is shallow shell that hides the soul.....find a window to look out instead, seek the beauty around you and rediscover your soul. Your soul is what your freinds and family love about you. True freinds will judge you based on who you are not what you are. Anyone who judges you by your looks doesn't have enough intelligence to offer a worthwhile opinion. Be proud of who you are and count your blessings.

If that advise doesn't help.........try chocolate!
)

 

[DLL]

In this society, we're taught that praising ourselves is selfish & wrong. But praising ourselves for things that are good about ourselves only helps us. It is a healing thing to do, something that nourishes our self-worth. When we love ourselves, we're happier & more true to our own selves…and that happiness & ability to be free spreads to others.
So...try to think of something that you like about yourself, or something that you did today that made you or someone else feel good – no matter how small it may seem. Give yourself the kind of warm praise that you would a friend.

Love yourself like a friend.......
Close your eyes & think of a person you deeply love & trust & who you know loves you– a friend, a lover. Think about all the things you love & appreciate about them. Notice how that love feels inside you, how it makes you feel good.
Now turn it around the other way – be your friend, feeling that same deep love for you. Trust in their love for you & just feel it. Let yourself see your self through gentle eyes, with compassion & love the way your friend does, even if you can only do it for a moment. Now let yourself receive that love, the love you have as a friend to yourself. Feel the warmth move through you. Remember how it feels & come back to that love another time.

 

[done_got_old]

...I just feel awful and every time I look at myself I see nothing but an ugly girl in the mirror *sigh* I don't want to see myself this way, but I do


I wish I was skinny...I wish I could wear cute clothes again.....I wish so many things right now

You can wear cute clothes..........they come in all sizes.

It's important that you learn to love yourself. Look in the mirror and see your beauty and nothing else.

Believe me, things will get better; they always do.

 

[Cathleen]

In this society, we're taught that praising ourselves is selfish & wrong. But praising ourselves for things that are good about ourselves only helps us. It is a healing thing to do, something that nourishes our self-worth. When we love ourselves, we're happier & more true to our own selves…and that happiness & ability to be free spreads to others.
So...try to think of something that you like about yourself, or something that you did today that made you or someone else feel good – no matter how small it may seem. Give yourself the kind of warm praise that you would a friend.

Love yourself like a friend.......
Close your eyes & think of a person you deeply love & trust & who you know loves you– a friend, a lover. Think about all the things you love & appreciate about them. Notice how that love feels inside you, how it makes you feel good.
Now turn it around the other way – be your friend, feeling that same deep love for you. Trust in their love for you & just feel it. Let yourself see your self through gentle eyes, with compassion & love the way your friend does, even if you can only do it for a moment. Now let yourself receive that love, the love you have as a friend to yourself. Feel the warmth move through you. Remember how it feels & come back to that love another time.

Oh DLL, that is wonderful.... so simple and effective. Thanks for sharing that.

TemptessRaven, wishing you some peaceful thoughts.

 

[WaywardWanderer]

I, too, am wishing you sweet, peaceful thoughts, lovely one. Just know you are cared about and cherished by many here...and we'd feel that way were you 2 feet tall, 10 feet tall, or with green spikey hair. You are you....and that you is wonderful. We see it....and hope you will, too.

 

[babydoll2u]

I, too, am wishing you sweet, peaceful thoughts, lovely one. Just know you are cared about and cherished by many here...and we'd feel that way were you 2 feet tall, 10 feet tall, or with green spikey hair. You are you....and that you is wonderful. We see it....and hope you will, too.

aaaaamen

 

[Succulent-one]

...I just feel awful and every time I look at myself I see nothing but an ugly girl in the mirror *sigh* I don't want to see myself this way, but I do


I wish I was skinny...I wish I could wear cute clothes again.....I wish so many things right now

Look in the mirror again.....I think there is probably a beautiful woman there. Maybe not perfect and maybe not what you invision of yourself, but indeed beautiful......change the things you can, and love the rest, it makes you the individual you are and that is special and unique to the universe.