I need some help.

[JediMasterKette]

Ok, so my girlfriend wants to try "water sports". I have no idea what to do. I've never thought about that kind of thing, and I don't think I want to start now. What should I do? She is really hung up on it.

 

[sunandshadow]

What harm does it do to think about it? Urine is a mild acid, similar to vinegar, and as such is sterile and even kills germs to a limited extent. It can smell strongly unless is is diluted because the person producing it drank a lot of water, but other than that it can't really harm anything - won't damage eyes (although it may sting a little and might mess up contact lenses), is harmless if ingested. Culturally, pissing can symbolize either degradation or territorial marking, both of which some people find hot. Maybe if you asked her to explain what she likes about the idea you might understand the appeal. *shrug* Watersports isn't really my thing, but if a relationship is serious it's usually worth it to humor one's partner unless what they want truly squicks you.

 

[emap]

What Sun said, seriously I don't know why you came here to ask a question about "water sports."

Not to say you a bad guy or anything, but you really should have sat down with her and asked what exactly she wanted you to do and then come here for advice on how to do that.

Granted i think it's rather disgusting myself, but best to know what yoru SO wants before you go looking for advice because just "water sports" makes those who don't like it go 'oh ICk dump her now.' I was tempted to say that honestly.

So what you need to do is sit her down and talk to her, if your up to it see about ground rules and where she just has to have these "water sports" mainly because well, it's easier to say urinate on her in the shower than it is to do the same on your bed. One can be done whenever you want, the other you have to lay out plastic tarps and towels and can't be a spur of the moment thing.

So give her that talk and then come back for idea's, there are enough perverts around here to give you tons of good ones.

Before anyone gets upset, I'm one of the perverts.

 

[EveAnna]

If she's hung up on it then she must know what she wants you to do or what she wants to do to you. So just ask her.

Its not my cup of tea but I have threatened to give my Hubby a 'golden shower' before now.

 

[M's girl]

I've never thought about that kind of thing, and I don't think I want to start now. What should I do? She is really hung up on it.

So, don't do it if you don't want to. You may ask/tell her to give you some time to think about it. You might change your mind if you weigh the pro's and con's but as long as it does feel 'wrong' to you, you shouldn't do it just to please her.

Just my 2 cents...

 

[Athena_e19]

I have found that in the course of my relationships, the most memorable sexual moments have been where I have humored or entertained the fantasy of one of my partners.

In instances where I was hesitant about it, I made my opinion known before hand, tried it at least once, and did so as enthusiastically as possible. I came away with a great memory of being able to REALLY excite and stimulate both sensually and mentally.

Sometimes afterwards, they would be okay with not doing it again, but usually we both found ourselves a little better off.

I've tried water sports once, didn't like it, and probably would not do it again. But it wasn't nearly as unpleasant as I had thought beforehand. But I would definitely recommend that she drink lots of water and eat low acidic foods before. It makes it kind of like taking a shower if its watery enough. Oh and do it in the shower with the water running if you're more apprehensive. You'll barely even notice it and she will get her freak on.

 

[aymanmosstfa]

Ok, so my girlfriend wants to try "water sports". I have no idea what to do. I've never thought about that kind of thing, and I don't think I want to start now. What should I do? She is really hung up on it.

why you dont want start why you dont try .
and if you asked her few things for your needs why you dont accept her needs too,any Relationship have tow why not only one

 

[erodream351]

xxxxx

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

Bravo

to both of you. Her for being able to share that she is interested and you for not doing the cut and run thing..yet at least. I would imagine this wasn't an easy want/need to express so at least you guys have that going for you.

 

[yoshimitsu]

I see two sides of the whole aspect of "water sports".
The side that always comes to mind is the dominating and usually degrading idea of someone standing over you pissing on you.
That side is a major turn off for me and makes me hesitant to think about it.
On the other side I find something enjoyable about it in the right situations.
I think for me there is some association to a girl cumming which is a major turn on for me and therefore seeing her squirt even if it's pee can be kinda hot. Aside from that it's just a different experience that can be kind of fun.
I know everyone has their own limits. For me pee in the right situation can be fun but if my SO wanted to play with crap, earwax, or buggers I know there would be no negotiating.
I would never really enjoy a girl peeing on me if I felt at all degraded but if it's just sharing a moment, like I said it can be kinda hot.

I remember one time we were having sex in the shower, she was sitting on top of me and I talked her into going pee while I was inside her. Somehow she managed to overcome any inhibitions (I don't think I could do that) and it was so hot.
There have been a couple other times when we have done similar things that were equally as fun.
If it's the pee it's self ask yourself how much it bothers you, if it's a little check it out and see what you think. If it's a lot then let her know how you feel.
If it's the act of getting pissed on or the situation it may put you in think about how it could be done in a way that every one is happy and comfortable.