I have a problem...

[TheCheshireCat]

Here's the scoop...(please no cat puns)

I want some help re-enticing my lover. Lately I sense general dissatisfaction. While I know this stems from some of his personal issues, our bed has always been a way of release. Talking about has helped, however, he is looking for some new excitement.

(He doesn't know that's what he needs, but would I be a good lover if I couldn't sense that unconcious communique?)

Give me your ideas! I have always been the adventurous one in this relationship and that is what astounded him about me in bed.

But I have exhausted my repetoire! I'm not incredibly experienced and I need education, not theory please. Actual step by step instructions would be invaluable as well as links to anywhere I could see such demonstrative porn.

Let the education begin!

 

[Guest]

www.heartbreaker.com/heart/main.html

Try joining them.

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

I suggest asking him outright what he wants, and doing it.

 

[TheCheshireCat]

CV your link didn't work

Dixon- I have and he never has an answer. Not a very creative person. That's why I said he doesn't know he needs something new. He will continue to do the same old thing and be dissatisfied.

 

[Prince Romeo]

Now that's a problem. Don't stop communicating. If you have, if you do, then your relationship is over. Do what DC said. Find out what his fantasies are. Talk to him.

 

[ithaqua]

So, you are in bed with an unimaginative man?

Asking him "So what new and exciting way do you want to fuck tonight?" will be unproductive.

The correct response is to break out the leather, and the chrome, and ask
"So do you like it when I do this?"

Now, that should get his attention, and you can proceed from there.

 

[Guest]

talk, talk and then talk some more

 

[Guest]

CV your link didn't work

That's weird. The address is correct. But the link is not working.

I can access from my bookmark, though. Try copy and paste onto the address bar.

 

[TheCheshireCat]

So, you are in bed with an unimaginative man?

Asking him "So what new and exciting way do you want to fuck tonight?" will be unproductive.

The correct response is to break out the leather, and the chrome, and ask
"So do you like it when I do this?"

Now, that should get his attention, and you can proceed from there.

You certainly got MY attention!

I love that advice and you can believe I'm going to try it. He DID complain that I don't dominate enough.

 

[TheCheshireCat]

I like your advice Woodcarver, talking is my thing.

I will continue to give it a go where that is concerned but he prefers action to words.

 

[TheCheshireCat]

We are leaving for awhile. If you get any more good ideas pm me, Thank you for responding

 

[Guest]

 

[TheCheshireCat]

Wow, I don't think he would take that well. I would love it! These answers are very amusing...

 

[TheCheshireCat]

I think control without scare tactics would be fun and erotic

 

[TheCheshireCat]

I really want hints and tips for fellation

 

[Guest]