I am in need of ideas

[DestanyRose]

Hello,

I am very new at all this and to start with let me tell you about my problem.

I was a slave who's Master just up and dissapered.I had a Slave which I shared with my Master who is now soley my own.I love her very much and she loves me as well.I also have another slave who is male.My problem is I am not sure how to play with them.I am very new at this and they are as well.They both think I don't play with them enough.They both love being my slave though and both love being sluts..I could really use some ideas.

thanks

 

[Ricckk]

Tough predicament, Destiny...If I'm understanding correctly, you have bitten off a bit more than you can chew, being inexperienced yourself and and also having two slaves.

But since there are no "rules", you probably need to decide exactly what role you want to take and carefully decide if you are ready for the responsiblility for two other people as well. They will depend on you and they will need to respect your decisions and your composure during this difficult time and beyond.

It is only my opinion, but a "Master" doesn't just disappear; that is what "players" do. Nor does s/he permit you to have slaves before you are ready. Do you know any other dominants to discuss this with?

At any rate, good luck. Please think of the welfare of your slaves as well as yourself.

 

[DestanyRose]

I do not know any other Masters...

I want to do what is right for my slaves,they depend on me.I don't what to let them down.Where do I start?

 

[MasterKensbeany]

You might try finding a local BDSM group. Most good groups have training, seminars and functions that you and your subs could attend. I'm sure you could find someone within such a group to mentor you and advise you.

Whatever you choose to do, good luck.

Respectfully
beany

 

[Grvdigger]

If they are true slaves then playing with them enough should take a back seat to being responseable for them. From what you are saying you are willingly stepping into the role of the Master. This should not been done lightly or with out serious thought. Being inexperinced the best thing to do is educate yourself and them. Read, read, ask questions the more infomation you get the better for you and them. Info is everywhere, book, internet and local groups. Just do not bow into pressure to do things you are not ready to do.

 

[maddi]

wow this is tough...

It sounds as if you have built a strong relationship tie and therefore are willing to keep them in slavery to you. Just remember sometimes its harder to do the right thing...but if you feel up to the challenge I agree with the statement you must look for help at a local level. Scan the internet and read everything BDSM you can get your hands on. Buy the books if you don't have them (there are several of them) and learn all you can.

One thing I agree with is that if they are complaining that they need to play more, I (I am also a sub) think they don't have enough scheduled ritual time on their hands. Make sure you institute morning rituals, bathing practices, etc and regular tasks throughout the day they must accomplish. Afternoon and Evening rituals depending on who goes to work. But as you fill their time more and make them accomplish goals before playtime,your life will be easier. **also don't forget to change the rituals to suit you not your old master. Subs sometimes need change or they forget why and the importantance of the ritual in the first place**

All I know is that it is hard work coming up with new ideas for playtime and keeping a slave busy. Not all of it is sexual too. Sometimes I have to wash the floor in nothing on but jewlery while he watches, sometimes I am a footstool or table for his laptop. Not fun for me but it was for his pleasure so I did it. Anyway if you are looking for playtime ideas hey, read the stories, toss out the obivious garbage stuff and you have a lifetime of sex ideas for scenes.

Go back to checklists and reconfirm what they are looking for?

Hey if they like to be sluts I am think great oral sex or something..... I'm sure you can come up with other ideas?


I hope this helps - Maddi

*edited to add this

 

[Vulpesvulpes]

Read, Read, and Read some more.

Read as much as you can about being a safe, responsible dom/me and then take it very slowly. As for ideas, read the standard titles but then read lots of erotic fiction as well. I get (and give) some of my best ideas through writing and reading stories.


-Vv

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