Humiliation, Degradation and Dirty Verbal. Ladies...HOT or NOT

[Curvyscotswoman]

What names do you use for the men in your life
Your sex life, that is.

I called my FWB a sexy hung mother fucker today

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I called my FWB a sexy hung mother fucker today

Not really a humiliating type of name, is it
Sounds like praise, actually.
I'd like to be all those things.
(Are you a mother?)

 

[Curvyscotswoman]

I am a mother and I said I like names not humiliation

 

[asxymann68]

I love dirty talk, name calling, gets me right in the mood. I have my wife snicker at my penis, call it small (It isn't) and then I am so aggressive with her. Love it.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I am a mother and I said I like names not humiliation

Got it.
So, its all true and all a compliment.
He is sexy
hung
and a mothefucker?

 

[lc69hunter]

I struggle with this, as I generally hate humiliation, degradation and the like in any scenario. If you were my wife, I would tell you to find someone to scratch that itch, and then come home to me

 

[Patsysub]

My husband has this fetish. I indulge him from time to time. I recently used a personals classified to invite people to taunt and humiliate my husband while he masturbated on Zoom. I got multiple responses from a mix of both men and women.

I set up the webcam, instructed my husband to lie naked on our bed and begin jacking off when told to do so. I opened the zoom meeting and there were 23 viewers participating in our session the first time. The meeting began as scheduled and my husband did exactly what he was told by the participants, who were each given 3 minutes to verbally taunt him and issue instructions.

The men all seemed to call him a “faggot” a “beta cuck” and made fun of his small penis. They would instruct him to speed up and slow down, play with his nipples and finger his asshole while he jerked .

The highlight of the event was a female participant who actually didn’t mind showing her face on camera who brutally humiliated him verbally for a minute before instructing my husband to put his legs up over his head and enjaculate into his own mouth.

I was happy to assist, ( wearing a mask of course) and pushed his legs up by the crook of his knees until the head of his penis was about 6 inches froM his mouth. The woman directing my husband demanded him to Open your mouth…. Wider, bitch… that’s it.. now shoot your pathetic load faggot.”

My husband erupted and shot multiple jets into his mouth before missing his aim and plastering his face with the biggest cumshot I had ever seen him produce.

We will be doing it again soon. Dm Me if you are interested.

please do this to me!use&humiliate me and show everyone what a slut i am

 

[Katiekins7018]

I love degradation, in the form of names and degrading acts.

 

[Rascal69]

Katie, we should chat ,

 

[StrongMaster7]

I had a sub friend for a while who enjoyed dirty talk, some pain, and being used. I had never done anything like that, but grew to love it very quickly. I was so concerned with hurting her or crossing a line, but she assured me that was what she got off on. And it was true. The more my words told her she was a slut to be used and abused, the more she came. I used toys and nipple clamps on her. It was too exciting.

I miss her.

 

[NOBGE]

That is not my thing but it is not an unusual desire for a number of women and I assume some men as well. It sounds like you should have a good Dom in your life.

I’m with Islander. I love and respect my lover to degrade or humiliate her. Doubt I would be attracted to her if that’s what she wanted.

 

[Aisha_BrownGirl]

My user name is probably a dead give away but I ADORE humiliation and verbal degradation. At 18, I bought a sex novel from, of all places, our local bookshop - the 70's were different . OMG that thing was intense and explicit. It was a well read novel by the time I did my first year of University but what turned me on so much was the humiliation and verbal degradation the sweet slut main character endured at the hands of that gang. The name calling and description of what they were going to do...then did...shocked me....then enticed me.....and finally made me cum!

Fast forward 2 years and I would be at a Women's Rights meeting at 2 pm and at 7pm be standing in the middle of a sleazy porn shop, no panties, pussy barely covered by my dress, loose blouse great for tit groping as my now husband offered the mostly male customers a quick grope or finger. I was doing a version of Public Disgrace before it became a porn classic!!

At home we would fuck while my hubby continued the verbal degradation and my orgasms would be HUGE!! The thing that made me so horny was the verbal!! I have enjoyed this fetish all my life and it never diminishes.

What does this sort of thing do for other ladies (or gents) on here? How extreme do you go?

It is definitely not my husband's thing but I love nasty dirty talks when smashed hard. It certainly helps in achieving when I am fucked like a whore.

 

[Sexysubs1ut]

Personally, I love verbal humiliation leading up and during. I think there’s a time and a place for humiliation and degradation… and when in that time and place, and being extremely humiliated or degraded, the orgasms that follow are much more intense.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

Being called dirty, humiliating names....being put in degrading and submissive public situations.....brings out the wild slut in me.....willing to obey....do anything I'm told.......

 

[Islander55]

I’m with Islander. I love and respect my lover to degrade or humiliate her. Doubt I would be attracted to her if that’s what she wanted.

If you have a good relationship you do need to try to provide a partners needs. One of my current friends is widowed but learned after a number of years that his wife was very much a sub and needed a good Dom to fulfill her sexual desires. They had already tried swinging so they just found her a true Dom for occasional sexual adventures. My friend was not really a Dom so it did not work well for him to pretend to be one but he was willing to let her have fun with a Dom.

 

[Deleted member 5428187]

I had a sub friend for a while who enjoyed dirty talk, some pain, and being used. I had never done anything like that, but grew to love it very quickly. I was so concerned with hurting her or crossing a line, but she assured me that was what she got off on. And it was true. The more my words told her she was a slut to be used and abused, the more she came. I used toys and nipple clamps on her. It was too exciting.

I miss her.

I’ve never been with a genuine sub. especially one who needed a bit of pain. It’s been a fantasy of mine but I always wonder if I had the opportunity could I really use her. I’m hardwired to be considerate and attentive. Plus I’m a big man and so I would be reluctant to let go completely because it would be really difficult for me if I hurt her.

 

[SPARTAN047]

The degradation and humiliation is incredible depending on who it comes from. I'd love to be spanked in public like I was sometimes and everyone to use me. I'd be moaning getting fingered in public.

 

[tristantrotsky]

My user name is probably a dead give away but I ADORE humiliation and verbal degradation. At 18, I bought a sex novel from, of all places, our local bookshop - the 70's were different . OMG that thing was intense and explicit. It was a well read novel by the time I did my first year of University but what turned me on so much was the humiliation and verbal degradation the sweet slut main character endured at the hands of that gang. The name calling and description of what they were going to do...then did...shocked me....then enticed me.....and finally made me cum!

Fast forward 2 years and I would be at a Women's Rights meeting at 2 pm and at 7pm be standing in the middle of a sleazy porn shop, no panties, pussy barely covered by my dress, loose blouse great for tit groping as my now husband offered the mostly male customers a quick grope or finger. I was doing a version of Public Disgrace before it became a porn classic!!

At home we would fuck while my hubby continued the verbal degradation and my orgasms would be HUGE!! The thing that made me so horny was the verbal!! I have enjoyed this fetish all my life and it never diminishes.

What does this sort of thing do for other ladies (or gents) on here? How extreme do you go?

In my everyday life I am not a person who uses 'bad' language, but during sex I've found that the most basic explicit Anglo-Saxon words tend to heighten the excitement and are most appropriate.

 

[Cruelsmile5]

Verbal humiliation is one of those buttons that not everyone has. And there are times to press it, and times to avoid it. But with the right person, at the right time, it is exceptionally hot if handled right.

It doesn’t have to be loud or overtly insulting-I’ve found it much hotter when I discretely work it into a regular conversation.

 

[Older_Pervert]

I love degradation, in the form of names and degrading acts.

Mmmmm lick my arse, you filthy cunt

 

[cumonkelly]

Nothing gets me going better than name calling and being told what to do. I want to hear my partner call me the most degrading names he can think of. I especially love being made to beg and tell him how bad I need to (insert perverted sexual act). I'm typically a very strong and independent woman. In bed I just need to be as submissive as possible. It's the only time I can induldge in that alternate persona. A whole new me gets to peek her head out.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Nothing gets me going better than name calling and being told what to do. I want to hear my partner call me the most degrading names he can think of. I especially love being made to beg and tell him how bad I need to (insert perverted sexual act). I'm typically a very strong and independent woman. In bed I just need to be as submissive as possible. It's the only time I can induldge in that alternate persona. A whole new me gets to peek her head out.

I remember a woman like this...

 

[Strixaluco]

Total turnoff for me in any form. I'm his beloved little princess.

 

[JennyCapricorn]

In real life, it’s limited. When hubby is whispering fantasies in my ear during sex being reminded I’m his slut wife is incredible. During the day when he lovingly whispers the same in my ear is fun and funny and a little arousing.

Anything past that - or anything degrading - is an immediate and total turn off. And I’m not comfortable saying anything like that to him.

In fiction when I’m playing with another woman I’ll give her whatever she needs in that sense, and my language gets much courser.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I discovered this-by accident. I had met this guy in my hotel room and i was dressed up slutty. We had been chatting on the kik app before and I was really worked up and ready to please him. He told me to be on my knees when he entered the room. He told me I was going to be his little cocksucking slut and I better be ready. When he entered i was in my position, he dropped his pants, stuck his hard cock in my face and I immediately went to sucking his cock. He was calling me all kinds of dirty names, sissy, cock slut, fag. You name it! I found my cock twitch and throb with each insult. I already considered myself submissive but this was taken me to new levels. I had never had a guy be so verbal and it was music to my ears. Since then I crave it and I love when alpha guys talk nasty to me. (Im even open to pms if men need to just get it off their chest, let me be receptive and feed from it). I can see where alot of woman might find it offensive but in a hot sexual situation, dirty talk can be another form of stimulation.