Humiliation, Degradation and Dirty Verbal. Ladies...HOT or NOT

[DEPRAVED_WHORE]

My user name is probably a dead give away but I ADORE humiliation and verbal degradation. At 18, I bought a sex novel from, of all places, our local bookshop - the 70's were different . OMG that thing was intense and explicit. It was a well read novel by the time I did my first year of University but what turned me on so much was the humiliation and verbal degradation the sweet slut main character endured at the hands of that gang. The name calling and description of what they were going to do...then did...shocked me....then enticed me.....and finally made me cum!

Fast forward 2 years and I would be at a Women's Rights meeting at 2 pm and at 7pm be standing in the middle of a sleazy porn shop, no panties, pussy barely covered by my dress, loose blouse great for tit groping as my now husband offered the mostly male customers a quick grope or finger. I was doing a version of Public Disgrace before it became a porn classic!!

At home we would fuck while my hubby continued the verbal degradation and my orgasms would be HUGE!! The thing that made me so horny was the verbal!! I have enjoyed this fetish all my life and it never diminishes.

What does this sort of thing do for other ladies (or gents) on here? How extreme do you go?

 

[drobert44]

I LOVE dirty cock, my gay top called me his boytoy.

 

[Islander55]

That is not my thing but it is not an unusual desire for a number of women and I assume some men as well. It sounds like you should have a good Dom in your life.

 

[Beachsyrf]

Agree with Islander .... not my cup of tea but if it rocks you and your lover(s), go with it!

 

[CreamDoll]

I love really dirty talk,, fuck me hard, call me your bitch or whore. - that's sexy. Would that be considered verbal degradation? The public disgrace...not so sure. I would want to know that all the guys washed their hands first.

 

[Not Normal]

I would like to explore this if I found myself in the orbit of the right person. If they were into being degraded I'd love to learn how to make them feel the way the OP feels.

 

[HottieOlwen]

My user name is probably a dead give away but I ADORE humiliation and verbal degradation. At 18, I bought a sex novel from, of all places, our local bookshop - the 70's were different . OMG that thing was intense and explicit. It was a well read novel by the time I did my first year of University but what turned me on so much was the humiliation and verbal degradation the sweet slut main character endured at the hands of that gang. The name calling and description of what they were going to do...then did...shocked me....then enticed me.....and finally made me cum!

Fast forward 2 years and I would be at a Women's Rights meeting at 2 pm and at 7pm be standing in the middle of a sleazy porn shop, no panties, pussy barely covered by my dress, loose blouse great for tit groping as my now husband offered the mostly male customers a quick grope or finger. I was doing a version of Public Disgrace before it became a porn classic!!

At home we would fuck while my hubby continued the verbal degradation and my orgasms would be HUGE!! The thing that made me so horny was the verbal!! I have

My user name is probably a dead give away but I ADORE humiliation and verbal degradation. At 18, I bought a sex novel from, of all places, our local bookshop - the 70's were different . OMG that thing was intense and explicit. It was a well read novel by the time I did my first year of University but what turned me on so much was the humiliation and verbal degradation the sweet slut main character endured at the hands of that gang. The name calling and description of what they were going to do...then did...shocked me....then enticed me.....and finally made me cum!

Fast forward 2 years and I would be at a Women's Rights meeting at 2 pm and at 7pm be standing in the middle of a sleazy porn shop, no panties, pussy barely covered by my dress, loose blouse great for tit groping as my now husband offered the mostly male customers a quick grope or finger. I was doing a version of Public Disgrace before it became a porn classic!!

At home we would fuck while my hubby continued the verbal degradation and my orgasms would be HUGE!! The thing that made me so horny was the verbal!! I have enjoyed this fetish all my life and it never diminishes.

What does this sort of thing do for other ladies (or gents) on here? How extreme do you go?

My user name is probably a dead give away but I ADORE humiliation and verbal degradation. At 18, I bought a sex novel from, of all places, our local bookshop - the 70's were different . OMG that thing was intense and explicit. It was a well read novel by the time I did my first year of University but what turned me on so much was the humiliation and verbal degradation the sweet slut main character endured at the hands of that gang. The name calling and description of what they were going to do...then did...shocked me....then enticed me.....and finally made me cum!

Fast forward 2 years and I would be at a Women's Rights meeting at 2 pm and at 7pm be standing in the middle of a sleazy porn shop, no panties, pussy barely covered by my dress, loose blouse great for tit groping as my now husband offered the mostly male customers a quick grope or finger. I was doing a version of Public Disgrace before it became a porn classic!!

At home we would fuck while my hubby continued the verbal degradation and my orgasms would be HUGE!! The thing that made me so horny was the verbal!! I have enjoyed this fetish all my life and it never diminishes.

What does this sort of thing do for other ladies (or gents) on here? How extreme do you go?

My cuckold has a huge humiliation fetish (it's one of his many fetishes!) but living, as we do, in a small village community, it is very hard to feed this fetish. When we are on holiday, however, I do my best at all times. I have made him buy a pair of skimpy speedos which show his cock lock off perfectly when we're on the beach, and on more than one occasion, this has led to me attracting a new boyfriend who has fucked me (not on the beach, obviously!) in front of Richard.
Smoking is another of his fetishes.I do smoke at home of course, and my friends and neighbours are used to seeing me with a cigar or a pipe in my mouth, but on holidays, I can let Richard kneel at my side whilst I smoke, and blow the occasional mouthful at him. And people who see him gazing up at me as I puff away know straightaway that he's submissive to me. Some even come over and comment. My only wish is that people who disapprove of relationships such as ours wouldn't be so narrow-minded and judgemental. Everything we do is consensual. We're not breaking any laws and we're not causing injury. (Sore, swollen balls don't count as injurious! And anyway, I relieve his swelling once a week when I milk him.)

 

[Elle4u2use2]

I enjoy name calling A LOT

 

[use_me_now]

I really enjoy being verbally degraded before and while I'm being fucked. I'd love to try being humiliated in front of others, and passed around for at least a grope or finger or two.

 

[talk67m]

I love verbal humiliation and dirty names. Both calling someone them and being called them. I've always cum hardest when I'm being a slut

 

[MrQuiet314]

I’m a very verbal person by nature and few things get me going like dirty talk. I want to know what they want and how it feels when they get it. A sense of a partner’s need and raging desire really amplifies my own and if they say please…or beg me just a liitle bit? omg. so hot. I’ve never had a partner who wanted to be degraded but i bet it feels amazing to be given carte blanche to say anything in the moment without shocking anyone or hurting their feelings. Isn’t that right, you useless fucking whore? Just practicing…

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I love dirty talk, yes. Love saying things like,
" Mmm fuck my tight wet pussy"..

And i used to enjoy being called a slut or whore.. But not at this time in my life..

And i don't like degradation.

 

[Wageslave]

Context is everything in these situations

 

[Elle4u2use2]

I really enjoy being verbally degraded before and while I'm being fucked. I'd love to try being humiliated in front of others, and passed around for at least a grope or finger or two.

Being groped is so hot

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Hot as absolute fuck.

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

Depends on who and when and how many

 

[BiGuy999]

Love it. I love verbal and public humiliation.

Read a story on here years ago about women stripping their men naked on a public stage and tying them up. Then they have 30 minutes to get as much cum as possible. The winner is the lady who produces the most cum.

I still fantasize about that. In my fantasy I come second and my wife is cross and spanks me right there in front of the crowd (she actually is quite competitive in real life so that's pretty realistic ).

 

[Toffer_Guy]

I’m a big fan of dirty talk, but people often confuse that it’s always derogatory. It can also be positive. I’m not opposed to humiliation kink. If partner wants to be called a slut or whore during sex, I’ll do that, but it’s always important to remember to not cross that line outside of sex. Still treat your partner with respect. Guys might be amazed to learn how open a woman can be when you show her you’ll be respectful and never shame her outside of sex.

I personally enjoy it when a woman taunts me calling me a bastard during sex.

The issue is a lot of guys din’t know where to draw the line.

I even wrote my first Lit story about a woman who enjoys rough sex fantasies with a lot of dirty talk, but that she won’t tolerate it outside of sex. Trying to normalize that a person can be respected and enjoy a shame kink. Link in my signature, if interested.

 

[olivererekt]

Mein Benutzername verrät es wahrscheinlich schon, aber ich LIEBE Demütigung und verbale Erniedrigung. Mit 18 kaufte ich mir ausgerechnet in unserem örtlichen Buchladen einen Sexroman – die 70er waren anders :teuflisch: . OMG, das Ding war intensiv und explizit. Als ich mein erstes Jahr an der Universität absolvierte, war es ein vielgelesener Roman, aber was mich so anmachte, war die Demütigung und verbale Erniedrigung, die die süße Schlampe als Hauptfigur durch diese Gang erdulden musste. Die Beschimpfungen und Beschreibungen dessen, was sie tun würden … und dann taten … schockierten mich … dann verlockten sie mich … und brachten mich schließlich zum Kommen!

Zwei Jahre später war ich um 14 Uhr bei einem Treffen für Frauenrechte und um 19 Uhr stand ich mitten in einem schmierigen Pornoladen, ohne Höschen, meine Muschi kaum von meinem Kleid bedeckt, eine weite Bluse, die sich hervorragend zum Tittenfummeln eignete, während mein jetziger Ehemann den überwiegend männlichen Kunden ein schnelles Grapschen oder Fingern anbot. Ich drehte eine Version von Public Disgrace, bevor es ein Pornoklassiker wurde!!

Zu Hause fickten wir, während mein Mann die verbale Erniedrigung fortsetzte und meine Orgasmen waren RIESIG!! Was mich so geil machte, war das Verbale!! Ich habe diesen Fetisch mein ganzes Leben lang genossen und er lässt nie nach.

Was bewirkt so etwas bei anderen Damen (oder Herren) hier? Wie extrem gehen Sie vor?

Das geht mir aehnlich, ich werde nur hart wenn dementsprechend verbal gefickt wird. Ich brauche die geile, versaute ordinaere Sexansprache, dann komme ich, schiesse das Sperma in hohen Bogen...

 

[SPARTAN047]

Some definitely do!

 

[Submissivepat]

Loved to be humiliated and groped. Never much into name calling.

 

[MrQuiet314]

I have never had a partner that was really into it, which is kind of a shame. Feels like a lost opportunity. As long as both people understand that this particular pass is situational and not something to be used outside of the bedroom, I am so very down. I would love, for example, to be ordered to service her in specific and colorful ways and if she wants to call me names while ordering me around, I’m very okay with that.

I also would love to have the confidence to know that dirty talk isn’t just something she tolerates, but something that actually turns her on. The idea that there are women out there who would actually get excited to be told to “get on your fucking knees and open that beautiful mouth because you are going to suck me off like the whore we both know you are” is pretty damn exciting. I’m in an airport lounge and it’s getting me kinda sprung just to think of it.

Here’s to women with dirty minds and dirtier mouths!

 

[lily_wall_]

Someone ones told be the difference between humiliation and degradation. I don't remember it now. Anyway... I enjoy all three of them and is a very crucial part of my sex life. One of my many fav moments is when I said... "fuck me like you bought this pussy for a discount"... And he did.

But it has to feel natural. Sometimes guys who are not into it, they try it to please me and their attempts comes off very forced and unnatural. But when done right, it presses all my buttons. So I've learned not to expect it from every sexual experience

Online, it's easier to find men/women who enjoy calling me names. I absolutely luv it when I check messages and find someone calling me the most degrading names in a good-morning message. Days like that, I want to just be in bed, humping my pillow and re read their message

 

[Curvyscotswoman]

Not into humiliation but really like name calling
I also like to call him names sometimes
Introduces energy to the interaction

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Not into humiliation but really like name calling
I also like to call him names sometimes
Introduces energy to the interaction

What names do you use for the men in your life
Your sex life, that is.