magicalmoments
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I've not read everyone else's advice but thought I'd throw mine in.
My first wife and I lived this lifestyle for 18 years. We did eventually split up but not over our sexual lifestyle, there were other issues. I digress. We got into it because of sexual boredom, the idea being swapping partners with other couples. As it turned out that wasn't for her, she didn't enjoy it. We accidentally discovered MFM 3'sums (long story) and she found she loved that experience, two guys simultaneously servicing her at the same time. So that became our scene.
She was not the stereotypical hot/slut wife, over that 18 years we were doing this she had only 3 lovers, all long term but only one on the go at any time. We would get together regularly as a 3'sum and occasionally she would have an evening with her lover on her own. We never had any issues arising from bringing the "extra" into our lives. We regarded the lover as a flesh and blood sex toy, there as a marital aid to our sex lives. The biggest issue was as each lover changed, because we relocated to another part of the country. was finding a suitable replacement, my wife was extremely fussy and the other guys needed patience but her choices were always good ones.
The pluses for me were an emotional high of seeing her sexually satisfied by another guy, that was always an endorphin buzz I never tired of, and I got to participate as well as watch. Also, I was alowed to meet other women or couples and sometimes guys by myself to indulge my own sexual fantasies. She was not interested in this but recognised that it was only fair that if she was getting extras then I should have that opportunity as well. It worked for us.
Hope that helps.
My first wife and I lived this lifestyle for 18 years. We did eventually split up but not over our sexual lifestyle, there were other issues. I digress. We got into it because of sexual boredom, the idea being swapping partners with other couples. As it turned out that wasn't for her, she didn't enjoy it. We accidentally discovered MFM 3'sums (long story) and she found she loved that experience, two guys simultaneously servicing her at the same time. So that became our scene.
She was not the stereotypical hot/slut wife, over that 18 years we were doing this she had only 3 lovers, all long term but only one on the go at any time. We would get together regularly as a 3'sum and occasionally she would have an evening with her lover on her own. We never had any issues arising from bringing the "extra" into our lives. We regarded the lover as a flesh and blood sex toy, there as a marital aid to our sex lives. The biggest issue was as each lover changed, because we relocated to another part of the country. was finding a suitable replacement, my wife was extremely fussy and the other guys needed patience but her choices were always good ones.
The pluses for me were an emotional high of seeing her sexually satisfied by another guy, that was always an endorphin buzz I never tired of, and I got to participate as well as watch. Also, I was alowed to meet other women or couples and sometimes guys by myself to indulge my own sexual fantasies. She was not interested in this but recognised that it was only fair that if she was getting extras then I should have that opportunity as well. It worked for us.
Hope that helps.
