how would you feel if.............

[unclej]

here's the scenario...i've recently met a lady that i'm starting to like quite a lot...not get married like a lot but spend some time with, go places with, maybe hot sweaty sex with like a lot...the neat thing is that i'm not in any hurry for the hot sweaty sex...quite the opposite...i'm enjoying the slow seduction and anticipation...

today i was thinking (just for a while) that this "slow seduction" would make a good contiuing thread...talk about where we've been, what we're feeling, when it happens, that sort of stuff...

but it doesn't feel right so i'm not gonna do it...

now, we've all seen movies where the guy starts out betting his friends that he can bed some lady and in the process he falls in love and then she finds out about the bet and all hell breaks loose...she's hurt and feels betrayed...here's the question....how would you feel if you found yourself the subject of such a thread...

and remember, it ain't gonna happen, i'm just interested in your responses

 

[cutie pie]

I would want to know about it so that I could actively participate in the thread. . .

Seriously, though, finding out about it after the fact would probably make me quite angry. . .if only because it was something that the other person was trying to keep secret.

Some people have no problem posting (or in real life - talking about) personal and intimate details. Others prefer to keep personal things personal. I guess I fall somewhere in the middle. . .I think I would feel uncomfortable finding out that everybody knew specific details.

 

[erosman]

You had better have a damn good reason for talking behind my back.