How would you feel if a close friend started seeing your ex

[LusciousLili]

people can do what they want, it's their life. But then I don't have to be friends with them, do I? case by case basis I suppose.

 

[Bottomlover]

Before we finally settled down (in our 40's) my friend and sometimes housemate since early childhood and I had an agreement that exes were fair game but we wouldn't have sex in the house while the other was there. We could all go places together and have a good time, but we did not want to be around for sexual activity. We had no problem being in the same room and in a couple of cases sharing sex with girls who came over and got high with us, but always respected that sex with serious exes was kept out of sight and conversation.

A favorite moment was a Sunday afternoon when after a trip to the Metropolitan Museum of Art and a dim sum lunch in Chinatown, his ex wife and I came back to the house for a planned cookout dinner. My friend and his new girlfriend were there (as planned), and she went out of her mind that I was hanging out with his ex wife. We all had a calm adult conversation, and that new girlfriend is the lady he settled down with until he died.

Perhaps it was a different time, but it worked for us and we remained best friends until the day he passed away. His ex and I never got into a serious relationship, but I am still friends with her and my friend's GF.

 

[newhere2learn]

One of my best friends didn't just start seeing my ex wife after our divorce. He had a child with her. He was warned.

 

[razor33a]

I'd laugh and wait for the inevitable explosion.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

When I was 22, I met a guy named Mike that I fell for that entire summer.. Hard lust!!
I met his female BFF that summer, and her and I became best friends...

I told her all that summer I was falling for Mike.. She encouraged it, and I kept thinking there was some feeling between Mike and her. Both denied it.

Mike and I hooked up, but at the time, I was kinda seeing my future husband...
I ended up choosing the husband material man over Mike...

Within 3 months of leaving that roller coaster triangle... Mike ended up with his female BFF and got her pregnant.. And stayed together for years.

A woman's intuition is usually right.

 

[Ciceri]

I found out my wife and brother were having sex. She wasn’t yet my wife but it hurt quite a lot. She’s the one who told me. I know it’s not the same as an ex and a friend hooking up but the anger and resentment were major

 

[vandelayatx]

I would be intensely curious about the details and wondering what they were doing that might be different than what we did while together. Of course curious about his cock size too.

 

[mustang_driver]

This happened to me after I went off to college. He was the reason she broke up with me after a night when we were all out together and he started hitting on her. She broke up with me that night saying she had never had someone that hot hit on her. I warned him at that time and told him he was lucky that we were still friends. He agreed, we stayed good friends until I found out they started dating after I left for college. I never spoke to him again. If he hadn't been the reason we broke up, I probably wouldn't have cared, but under those circumstances it crossed a line with me.

 

[liqueur]

I don't think it would bother me. I've never been the jealous type. It might even tickle my cuckold bone.

 

[Nellie60]

I would be intensely curious about the details and wondering what they were doing that might be different than what we did while together. Of course curious about his cock size too.

Same here. I wondered a lot about her working on his cock, pleasuring him the way she pleasured me. And him giving her maybe more orgasms. Yet it aroused me every time I think about it.

 

[kathyisgr65]

Sorry for her and wonder if she fell on her head

 

[Nellie60]

This happened to me after I went off to college. He was the reason she broke up with me after a night when we were all out together and he started hitting on her. She broke up with me that night saying she had never had someone that hot hit on her. I warned him at that time and told him he was lucky that we were still friends. He agreed, we stayed good friends until I found out they started dating after I left for college. I never spoke to him again. If he hadn't been the reason we broke up, I probably wouldn't have cared, but under those circumstances it crossed a line with me.

I don't think most friends will decline the chance to sexually experience an ex girlfriend in those situation.

He knows her, they both like each other and it is just a matter of time that the chemistry takes over.

I am not perfect either having an affair with a married woman at one stage and taking advantage of a co worker in an on off relationship. What I got out of it?

It was just lust, the desire to experience being with them when they were still with someone else and sneaking around was thrilling.

 

[Michael_Keaton]

I'd warn him that she's his problem now.