How vanilla are you?

[Frizzle_Fry]

I'm curious to know how crazy or how mellow you folks are, on a scale of 1-10 with 1 being standard M/F missionary only sex, for example "we have sex but never with the lights on" and a 10 being outragously taboo stuff I.E. "my gf and I had a 4 some with her brother and his gf....we did it all, S&M, bondage, blood play and we did it on the hotel balcony for good measure" or beyond.

How would your rate yourself....and plz share if you dont mind doing so =D

 

[19cock]

9.5-10 I'd say. I'm sure a few of the people I talk to around here would agree...

 

[TheCarver]

A 9.5.

The only thing that we don't do is share each other. Not that we wouldn't, but it isn't time yet.

Of course you have to exclude the moral boundaries. No children, pets, poop, blood, or incest.

 

[malstroem]

I guess I'm 9. While kinky sex is great, I wont do anything that can cause too much damage.

 

[Tawny_Temptress]

My desires are not vanilla but my partners have been.

 

[malstroem]

My desires are not vanilla but my partners have been.

Then tie them up while they sleep and fuck their brains out? That should do the trick

 

[Tawny_Temptress]

Then tie them up while they sleep and fuck their brains out? That should do the trick

I pounce on them and have used cuffs but you start talking toys or anal and they seem to be shocked or something.

 

[malstroem]

I pounce on them and have used cuffs but you start talking toys or anal and they seem to be shocked or something.

Can't you ease them into it, start with cuffs and fingering before requesting more than that? I think it's fun how guys always request more dirty sex and in the end they just aren't kinky enough. I'm with you by the way, somehow they're always too vanilla.

 

[Tawny_Temptress]

Can't you ease them into it, start with cuffs and fingering before requesting more than that? I think it's fun how guys always request more dirty sex and in the end they just aren't kinky enough. I'm with you by the way, somehow they're always too vanilla.

I have made progress with a few, over time. I just want to find someone I really like who is a freak already. lol

 

[malstroem]

I have made progress with a few, over time. I just want to find someone I really like who is a freak already. lol

I wish you the best of luck in your search, a kinky guy would be lucky to have you.

 

[Tawny_Temptress]

I wish you the best of luck in your search, a kinky guy would be lucky to have you.

TYVM!

 

[trojank]

1.5, when Im lucky enough even to get that these days !

 

[sexyvixen1987]

I'm so vanilla compared to everyone, I'd prolly be like a 6, maybe a 7.

 

[DoverTomo]

I'm so vanilla compared to everyone, I'd prolly be like a 6, maybe a 7.

I be willing to bet not, I think people overestimate their drive, especially when using such a tame scale. I highly doubt that there are that many people ou there who truly actually would do a lot of the extreme fetish Porno type stuff on a regular basis. In their own mind they mght me that high, but presented with a latex full body suit, a whip and a knife, they'd back down.


6 or 7 is nothing to be down about, that's still pretty up there if you think about it.

Personally, I'd rank myself at 5, right up the middle, up
for some fun but nothing too out there.

 

[darkbeast]

I like to pretend I'm an 8 or 9 but probably a 6 or 7 in actuality.

 

[AnitaMann]

I'm not sure that I could give my "flavor" a number, but I know I've definitely become much LESS vanilla since last fall, when I began to explore a little more of myself, with the help of some others.
But - I would say, for the most part, until then, I was pretty damned vanilla.

 

[Felix_Jones]

About Average

Like a 2 or 3 maybe. I imagine there's more people in my range than what the internet would suggest.

 

[kaycee217]

Probably around a 4 or 5, but that's because the "vanilla stuff" is still pretty darn fun right now. If I have more sex, I'm sure I'll be looking to kink things up a bit more.

 

[wholelottarosie]

I once thought I was about an 8 or 9, then I joined Lit and realised I have a long way to go before Im a 9.


6.5 for me, slightly higher than the norm & open to suggestions

 

[george51]

Maybe 5 or 6.

If it was the thoughts in my head, then 10..easy.

 

[monique1971]

maybe a 6 or 7... I won't do blood play or scat or fool around with electricity, and incest roleplays make me really uncomfortable. Also, I'm not bi, which limits my group sex options to an extent.

 

[RuReal]

Most porn is not kinky at all sexually dirty, but not kinky as I have a hard time finding kink related porn. I would take a guess at currently 7 when I manage to get some proper time in with the right people to get into the needle play the way I wish I would put it at a 8.

I am not interested in hook suspension play even though it would be interesting to watch.
No shit play though Enemas are cool when done right
No piss play

Electricity is the shit if you use the right toys. Violet wands can feel so neat.

In the end hard to scale I guess.

 

[gemaussieslut]

5 or 6

 

[Kitkat103]

Im gonna say around 5ish. IDK you decide, this was probably the most tame encounter I had.

St. Paddys Day I met this girl during a pub crawl. I did some shots out of her cleavage and then we went to the bathroom and she just immediately totally dove her fingers into my pussy. I had my legs spread so wide as she squeezed and sucked on my clit with her lips. I just kept pushing her head forward and trying to maintain balance on the sink. It was so hot...the best part was that I did not have to return the favor that night lol.


We met up that Sunday for a brunch. We realized that we really did not have much in common social wise but we went back to her apartment and started making out. We made our way to her roommates futon and started to just rapidly undress. I nibbled on her neck as I unbuttoned her jeans and shoved my hands into her panties to feel her moist lips. As I tried to pull her panties off she grabbed my wrist. I stopped.

She got up from the futon and ran to her room. She paddled back with a New Balance gym bag. She sat back on the futon and threw the bag towards me. I opened it and peered inside. There was a KY sampler and a huge clear double dildo.

Long story short we still keep eachothers numbers on our mobiles and I am looking forward to Memorial Day.

 

[gloriann]

I don't know, hard to answer. What's kinky to me might not be kinky to you.

7, 8, 9? Been tied up, slapped, spanked and flogged, temperature play, nipple clamps, pumped, rimmed, denied... probably more... and returned just about all those.