How to tell

[glendivemt]

I live in a small town in Eastern MT.
it is hard to find other bicurious guys around here.
Are there any gestures or signs or motions that are known that I can give, when I am out and about, or see if I notice others giving that would indicate they are looking for something as well.

I've tried apps and websites but hardly every anyone on there from this area.

 

[mtdan]

I live in western MT. Its hard here too. Alot of flakes ! Silver daddies, Sniffies.com etc...

 

[glendivemt]

Are you sure you would want to get involved with someone from there if there was? Everyone in town will know.

If Williston was still booming you’d have a shot at going there for anonymous hookups. Otherwise I’d say stick to Billings or Bismarck.

I do think of that too. I don't get to the bigger towns that often and when I do I'm not by myself.

 

[Christy2Cum]

I can usual tell by the way a guy looks at another guy, more than just a subtle look, usually starts with muscles, then to the cock and ass, not unlike how I look at guys!

 

[Easyvirtue]

I can usual tell by the way a guy looks at another guy, more than just a subtle look, usually starts with muscles, then to the cock and ass, not unlike how I look at guys!

My first indication was the way he held my eyes for long moments at a time, then he’d glance at my body but he was intense with eye contact. That was so fucking hott!

 

[glendivemt]

I get that. But at the very least go outside of Dawson Co

I've tried surrounding counties too. no luck.
I figure I just have to accept the fact that I will only remain curious and never get to fulfill that curiosity while living here lol

 

[845uncut]

This may sound foolish, or maybe something you’d prefe not to do, but I’ve always had luck at department stores, visit the men’s room, keep your eyes peeled. Please don’t do anything there, but you might be able to start a casual conversation and then take it elsewhere. You’d be surprised how many guys are of the same mindset as you.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

First and foremost, be in tune with yourself. What do YOU like. Where would you go and what would you do? Focus on these areas and you may have luck. Gardening centers are a good place to start. Bookstores, especially if there is a coffee shop attached. As mentioned above, department stores.

My wife and I lived with her gay cousin for close to two years. I’ve spent a lot of time with gay men so I feel my gaydar is solid. My wife’s is off the chart. She can tell from the minute she meets someone. The men and women we interacted with day to day were all openly gay and not just Bi, so I can see the dilemma here.

Even then though, with some of our roommates friends, it would be impossible to tell at first glance. They just didn’t fit into stereotypical roles.

Like others have posted, small town Montana probably isn’t going to have a high probability of success. Good luck.