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How to stop pre ejaculation?

How "quick" are we talking here? Your quick may not be my quick.

Most women don't come from PiV sex alone. A good 75% or so need clitoral stimulation, as well as the right mindframe, to get there.

Finally, most importantly, if you can't trust the word of the woman you've been with for 18 years, what can you trust? Given that you don't ignore your wife's desire to orgasm, why would you think she is disappointed with the intercourse?
 
Since you didn mention it try masturbation b4 sex. You can also try desensitizing lotions, cock rings, and more. Also talking to a Urologist can make sure this is not a medical problem.
 
If you use a desensitizing lotion/cream, do yourself a favor and put a condom on over yourself.
 
Makeuwet702 said:
it varies between 30 - 60 seconds and sometimes it may go longer if i think of other things. If im really tuned on...its over...lol But she puts up with it with out complaining..

I have used creams, sprays, lotions and your right, i need to cover it with a condom because it made her numb too...lol

I have tried viagra to at least stay harder longer, but guess what? i had a couple side effects of blue vision and dizziness...

I have went to a performance center for a medication that is supposed to keep you erect at least 4 hours... its a shot at the base of your penis before sex, and you are to ejaculate as many times as possible to reprogram your brain... too much $$$ but they did give me shot to see if it worked on me... stayed hard for 4 hours at least and felt like my penis was going to pop...lol

what's crazy is if she is sucking me, i can last about 10 mins.. its just once the tip hits that wet vagina is where everything changes... or if she puts a finger in my ass...lol
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Beyond what you've already said you've tried, I'd suggest condoms and edging/kegel exercises. But it sounds psychological to me: a self-fulfilling prophecy, perhaps. Stop worrying about it and see what happens. If you push it too much, you could very well end up with the opposite problem of lasting too long.

Out of curiosity, does your wife know you're looking for friends with benefits?
 
Since its when you do vaginal sex, maybe try a blindfold. It could be the visual stimulation.
 
Do you stop your sessions after you come or does that end the events? You'll last much longer the second go 'round. Most men have a recovery period of 10 - 30 minutes, then after that they can go for quite a long time before cumming again. I would suggest that you do two things, use a condom for the first go, clean up and recover, then continue your activities once you can gain an erection again.

As SweetE said, you need to reprogram your brain and there are a number of ways to do that, this is the easiest, though edging works well too. Also, more sex, like daily, again, the more you cum, the longer it takes to pop the next time.
 
Do you always do it in the same position? People who normally orgasm face down may find it more difficult to do so when face up, and vice versa.
 
SweetErika said:
Out of curiosity, does your wife know you're looking for friends with benefits?
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Where did he say that? Or does he have another thread somewhere? I'm too lazy to look.

Tell you what though, if you're a minute man then good luck with an FWB. Your wife deals with this because she loves you.

You have a one night stand as a two pump chump and you're going to look pretty damn pathetic. After all that is all about sex and doesn't sound like you're delivering.

I also feel bad for your wife if she is loving and understanding enough to be okay with this and you're looking at stepping out.

Typical Dog.
 
chinese methods

Find and study the books of Master Mantak Chia. Then put his teachings into practice. They work.
 
At times I suffer as well. One underlying issue I have is Lack of sex with the Mrs. I digress.

Next time your sitting in the doctors office....talk with them about it.. They will suggest anti-depressants'. yes they work but a cost.

Word on the street, an Evil U.S. Pharma. Co., (due to over bearing regulations) has been working with their European subsidiary...Have developed a P.E. drug.
In limited quantities it has been on the market in Europe, said too be the next little-blue pill....Down fall, The Jack-booted thug FDA....won't even allow it on U.S. soil.

I know the suggestion....Wack-one off before is always mentioned. that is fine and dandy. But, some people have a longer recovery time...certainly don't want to be in the throws and have too tell her.....'keep that thought'.....

Take a look at your life style...your health....etc. maybe a new regiment will help. little weight loss, strength you AB's....Hell I have too muster up all my energy too do abs.....

Most of all.....Don't fret about it. If your worried about it....it will become more a problem... and don't try to measure up too the shit on porn sites... Movies are shot in segments.
 
kitkat88 said:
Where did he say that? Or does he have another thread somewhere? I'm too lazy to look.

Tell you what though, if you're a minute man then good luck with an FWB. Your wife deals with this because she loves you.

You have a one night stand as a two pump chump and you're going to look pretty damn pathetic. After all that is all about sex and doesn't sound like you're delivering.

I also feel bad for your wife if she is loving and understanding enough to be okay with this and you're looking at stepping out.

Typical Dog.
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His username struck me as odd for a guy who's been with his wife for so long and apparently is having good sex with her, so I checked out his post history.

In response to a PM, I strongly urged him to ditch this account before his wife finds it and do the right thing by her. I also pointed out that he can say goodbye to good sex with his wife if he breaks her by lying/cheating - PE will be a cakewalk compared to that.

Regarding the other stuff, well, not all women feel the same way. I place very little importance on recreational intercourse (obviously it's more important when pregnancy is the goal), for instance. As long as the rest of the sex is great, I'm a happy camper. My husband has never had much endurance, and I don't just put up with it, I appreciate it. He can last longer, but I like that he's still really excited by sex and prefer him to relax and enjoy it than focus on employing techniques to last longer. Fingers and toys are always available if I want more penetration, but I can honestly say I love the other stuff far more than penetration/intercourse because it feels better and produces more intense orgasms for me.
 
I didn't realize LITEROTICA came with MORAL POLICE!!! Thanks everyone...its been fun....L8R
 
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Makeuwet702 said:
I didn't realize LITEROTICA came with MORAL POLICE!!! Thanks everyone...its been fun....L8R
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It has been fun. This is a pretty cool web site, so I hope you plan on coming back. Most of us would be disappointed to think your departure was premature.
 
mynameisben said:
It has been fun. This is a pretty cool web site, so I hope you plan on coming back. Most of us would be disappointed to think your departure was premature.
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Apparently ejaculation isn't the only thing he's premature about. :rolleyes:

I wish the OP luck in life, too bad you decided not to stick around and get to know the people you're interacting with more.:cool:
 
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