So like a lot of married guys on this site, I've been bi curious for some time. I find myself on here reading the gay male stories and jacking off thinking about getting my cock sucked by a guy. I'd like to find someone who is more into giving, but may let me reciprocate at times. Also, I'd rather have someone who would be a FWB instead of a random hookup - someone who want's to just suck my cock - not into cock sluts. Is that usually a deal breaker? Where do you find someone like this? I'm in FL in the 32223 area code - and yes, have looked here in the zip code thread - no luck yet.
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Nonsense, I'll happily suck his cock for nothing in return, I'll jack myself off when I get home afterwards
Bisexguy70
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You can try doublelist, its full of flakes no shows and nobody can host. Good luck. I wish Cl personals were still around. I found alot of men there. If i was close, id suck it and not ask for anything in return.
I've been on Doublelist and have been the victim of two no-shows. And yea, no one can host. Although I have been contacted by someone who wanted to suck me in homes under construction, but around here that's considered trespassing, and I'd rather not take the chance. A FWB would be great as I could host on occasion, but I'm not foolish enough to bring the errant guy home.
Lastly, there are lots of guys that don't want anything in return - the guy wanting to go to under construction homes didn't. I asked him why, and he said he'd be open to it, but most guys new to getting head from a guy may not want to reciprocate - at first.
Lastly, there are lots of guys that don't want anything in return - the guy wanting to go to under construction homes didn't. I asked him why, and he said he'd be open to it, but most guys new to getting head from a guy may not want to reciprocate - at first.
lovecraft68
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Craigslist
Seriously they are all over that site. The disguise their adds(poorly) by saying they're looking for someone to 'fix their pipes" or for a "woodworker" and other bad analogies.
Seriously they are all over that site. The disguise their adds(poorly) by saying they're looking for someone to 'fix their pipes" or for a "woodworker" and other bad analogies.
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I’ve tried Doublelist and it is definitely full of flakes. Bots are everywhere. No one ever responds to your emails either but I still look and maybe I’ll find that one person. Even if it’s just to chat.
Bisexguy70
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I still do the same! Im desperate! Luckily i still have my good buddy to play with that i met from CL. The wild part about it is it wasnt long after we met they illuminated the personals section.
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All the prostitution ruined it
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I agree!!! It will find its way to DL too. Just watch!!
Never heard of doublelist. Will have to give it a look. South Carolina guy here
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Hopefully you have better luck then i have.
Although i can tell of one success story. A buddy of mine used to meet alot. Then he had to stop hosting awhile and he lost my contact. Almost like a lost connection he posted a desc of where he lived by and described our meets. I recognized his stats etc and contacted him. It was all good for awhile until a few months back. Havent seen him since. Maybe i need to post one for him.
Although i can tell of one success story. A buddy of mine used to meet alot. Then he had to stop hosting awhile and he lost my contact. Almost like a lost connection he posted a desc of where he lived by and described our meets. I recognized his stats etc and contacted him. It was all good for awhile until a few months back. Havent seen him since. Maybe i need to post one for him.
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Many of the sites here will yield hits.
However, finding a guy who doesn't send a red flag, can host, and can find time is another matter.
Lots of married guys want to try it. But they're nervous of STDs and being outed, and not readily available. Once you're past that, the best is to have it become a public "friendship" (with benefits).
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However, finding a guy who doesn't send a red flag, can host, and can find time is another matter.
Lots of married guys want to try it. But they're nervous of STDs and being outed, and not readily available. Once you're past that, the best is to have it become a public "friendship" (with benefits).
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SilverDaddies is a decent site IMO. Folks can, and should, write a detailed Profile that speaks about themselves, there preferences, hobbies, etc. The individual profiles includes; Location/city, age, weight, height, etc. The site is good for all ages; the younger ones looking for a "daddy" and the older guys who may be looking for a younger man — or older looking for older, etc. After initital contact with someone on the site page, IMO it's best to switch over to email. There is both a paid version, and a non-paid version which has more limitations on messages and such.
its the same way here in ga didnt no it would be so hard to find a buddy that wanted a blow job but it is good luck
Same thing here in SC
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Silverdaddies works well and if you find your area's gay/bi section in Reddit, you can have some good luck. Doublelist is terrible and Sniffies is a coin toss at best.
Silverdaddies for the win!
Silverdaddies for the win!
Double list also has a screwed up algorithm that reject posts like there’s no tomorrow. I purposely posted a six line poem and it was flagged. They cannot help anyone.
If you live near a city of any descent size, there are good options for all the cock sucking or BJs you'd want.
1. Gay massage. This was how I started experimenting. I found websites focused on gay massage, and then looked up local masseuse with rates ranging anywhere from $60-120/hr (pre inflation). You get a great massage and a HJ if you do nothing but lay there. If you open up to him about your desire to experiment, all kind of possibilities open up. Anything from mutual BJs to fucking. I even did a 4 hand massage with 2 guys that was awesome. If this was a woman, you'd have to pay for anything extra. I found the guys were like all guys, and just wanted to have fun. Hygiene is everything. Shower right before you head over or when you get there if it is an option.
2. Adult bookstores (ABS). If you google for adult bookstores and live near a major city, there will be several that pop up. These usually look like lingerie shops, but they will have a section where you pay ~$8 to go into a closed section. There will be booths with a door and TVs with all kinds of porn options. Guys will hang out in the hall or walk around. If they don't make eye contact, they aren't interested. Just go into a room, watch some porn, and give a head nod or hand gesture for someone you are interested to come in. Close the door and have fun. There is a wide range on these stores. Some are very gross and dark and don't get any traffic. Some are "fairly" clean, don't allow smoking, and get good traffic during lunch, rush hour, weekend "Home Depot trip" hours. This is a numbers game where in a 2 hour period, you might suck off as many as 5 guys....or go home with blue balls because none of the crowd fit your profile.
3. If you live near a major city, there might be a gay bath house. Houston has one called Club Houston that is huge. Multiple open showers, locker room, pool, jacuzzi, dry saunas, wet saunas, 60 private rooms, porn room, gloryhole booths, BJ wall, etc. Lunch time is ok, Thu-Sat evenings is packed with fucking and sucking everywhere.
Where there is a will, there is a way.
Silverdaddies listed above is also ok. Far better than Doublelist.
1. Gay massage. This was how I started experimenting. I found websites focused on gay massage, and then looked up local masseuse with rates ranging anywhere from $60-120/hr (pre inflation). You get a great massage and a HJ if you do nothing but lay there. If you open up to him about your desire to experiment, all kind of possibilities open up. Anything from mutual BJs to fucking. I even did a 4 hand massage with 2 guys that was awesome. If this was a woman, you'd have to pay for anything extra. I found the guys were like all guys, and just wanted to have fun. Hygiene is everything. Shower right before you head over or when you get there if it is an option.
2. Adult bookstores (ABS). If you google for adult bookstores and live near a major city, there will be several that pop up. These usually look like lingerie shops, but they will have a section where you pay ~$8 to go into a closed section. There will be booths with a door and TVs with all kinds of porn options. Guys will hang out in the hall or walk around. If they don't make eye contact, they aren't interested. Just go into a room, watch some porn, and give a head nod or hand gesture for someone you are interested to come in. Close the door and have fun. There is a wide range on these stores. Some are very gross and dark and don't get any traffic. Some are "fairly" clean, don't allow smoking, and get good traffic during lunch, rush hour, weekend "Home Depot trip" hours. This is a numbers game where in a 2 hour period, you might suck off as many as 5 guys....or go home with blue balls because none of the crowd fit your profile.
3. If you live near a major city, there might be a gay bath house. Houston has one called Club Houston that is huge. Multiple open showers, locker room, pool, jacuzzi, dry saunas, wet saunas, 60 private rooms, porn room, gloryhole booths, BJ wall, etc. Lunch time is ok, Thu-Sat evenings is packed with fucking and sucking everywhere.
Where there is a will, there is a way.
Silverdaddies listed above is also ok. Far better than Doublelist.
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I'm jumping up and down and waving...
'I'm over here! I'm over here!'
Thanks for the great info. I love the erotic massages. In the Northeast there is fun in the larger cities. I also found that when I travel there are other married guys looking. I tend to avoid the places that are full of guys who see too many men or keep it to stroking. Kind of fed up with DL
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I live in Tallahassee and would be happy to comply. Ever come this way?
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Sniffies.com and grindr seem to be about the best for me.
